• JokeDeity
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      352 years ago

      It’s Chinese spyware that was specifically and provably designed to dumb down Westerners even more and make the Chinese smarter by specifically showing certain content to people in those countries. Americans then fell for it harder than a billion Trojan horses and remain locked in it’s grasp. That one small app took a ton of my respect for humanity away.

  • @[email protected]
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    Can we take the David Foster Wallace route and say “erased their own map” in place of suicide?

    It just sounds cool.

  • FoundTheVegan
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    I had this happen in real life.

    A friend of a friend died of cancer complications. I posted a rest in peace type message on Facebook without details.

    The next time I saw my mother she asked “I saw your post. Did your friend unalive herself…?”. It felt SO insulting and demeaning for her to ask that AND to ask like that.

  • @[email protected]
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    1592 years ago

    My wife was telling me about how annoying it is that she’ll try listening to new true crime podcasts and they’ll shit like “unalived” instead of “killed”. Comes across hella disrespectful to the victims.

      • @[email protected]
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        142 years ago

        It’s not (mostly, I can’t speak for the weirdos out there) murder porn, though? For a while, it was a movement of almost solidarity with other women, because these stories could easily happen to us. So it was almost like listening to survival tips, as well as paying respects to those lost by trying to learn from their experiences. It probably wasn’t a coincedence that the ‘true crime wave’ happened around the time of Me Too.

        And to soothe your mind, true crime as a ‘fad’ is dying quite a bit. People realized that, hey having a frivolous show where you clown and make cocktails or some shit while talking about real victims just isn’t okay.

        Source: am a woman who was (and is) interested in true crime, and have spoken to many other women from different circles—and even states/cities—who were also interested in the topic.

          • @[email protected]
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            That’s not what I said, is it? I was talking specifically about the more recent spike in popularity.

            Edit: Not sure why I’m being down voted for pointing out what I said. I very specifically was talking about the spike in popularity around 2016. I’m not talking about the topic being popular before that, because there is a specific difference in the two time frames, where interest in the topic reached a fever pitch. And yes, it is ‘slowing down’ compared to said fever pitch ~2016. But ‘slowing down’ mostly means returning to baseline.

        • @[email protected]
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          It’s not exclusive to woman either – guys (especially young guys) watch police bodycams of shootings, combat footage, and gore-porn TV shows or movies. There were entire subreddits dedicated to actual videos/pictures of people dying – and I’ll give you one guess as to what the demographics of their user bases were.

          It’s almost as if a lot of people are morbidly curious about death and violence.

    • JokeDeity
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      I get so annoyed listening to true crime stuff on YouTube these days and having the audio cut out any time a person uses the word suicide or rape, but not the gorey details of murder; no that’s perfectly fine to hear every excruciating detail, but lord forbid your precious ears here the letters S-U-I-C-I-D-E in order.

    • FancyLad
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      To be fair, it’s pretty bleak to use someone’s grisly murder as a means of entertainment. Our society is weird

      • @[email protected]
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        612 years ago

        “Hey there all you horror sweeties, I’ve got a sloppy poppy oopy goopy murder of a three year old little girl brought to you by Squarespace”

      • @[email protected]
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        42 years ago

        Humans have had a taste for the macabre at least for as long as we have written history. Public executions used to be a past time activity (even Jesus’ crucifixion is told like it was a public show), the morgue of Paris was a tourist attraction, even the sanitised (and controversial) Body Worlds exhibition has no trouble finding an audience. Maybe what’s weird is our relationship with death and putrefaction. It happens to everyone yet it’s somehow in bad taste to talk about it.

      • Dizzy Devil Ducky
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        12 years ago

        If I was murdered and the case went cold for a long time, you bet I’d want everyone hearing about it after the case finally gets solved. But that’s just me.

    • @[email protected]
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      52 years ago

      I just want to know how she was pronouncing it IRL that conveyed that. “Lee dollar-sign be-anne”?

  • @[email protected]
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    1182 years ago

    Everyone else is circle jerking about the censorship, meanwhile, I’m wondering how murder, rape, suicide, sex, and lesbians all came up in a bumble chat.

  • Draconic NEO
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    This kind of newspeak censorship is absolutely evil. We should absolutely go against any people or entities pushing it forward.

    I’m not going to say exactly what I’d want to do to them because it would likely violate the Geneva convention, though honestly I feel like it shouldn’t if we should also be allowed to punch, shoot, or otherwise violently attack Nazis, why not these evil people trying to suppress us and Push newspeak right now? Ultimately they’re being civil right now but once they have their way they’ll be beating and arresting us (Just like the polite Nazis would).

    • @[email protected]
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      62 years ago

      Yeah why shouldn’t we violently attack and murder anyone who does anything we don’t like? We’re good people and they’re bad people therefore anything we do is right and good!

      • @[email protected]
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        32 years ago

        “We shouldn’t hurt Nazis, Nazis are real people too who deserve love and respect like all other people.”

    • Queen HawlSera
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      Yeah I used to find “Unalive” quirky and charming, but now it’s… Getting a little too Demolition Man in here…

    • @[email protected]
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      82 years ago

      If I’m on a platform that penalizes using problematic languages I at least find a poetic way of expressing what I mean. “Suic*de” is fuckin stupid. Escaping this mortal coil of my own volition is cool. Well, it’s not, but the words are

  • raubarno
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    582 years ago

    Cannot resist bashposting:

    ~ $ bian='nd me money pls'
    ~ $ echo le$bian
    lend me money pls