• Frogmanfromlake [none/use name]
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    382 years ago

    This guy is learning that being tall and ripped aren’t magic recipes to get women.

    The whole six foot and ripped thing is overrated anyway. Most women aren’t absolutists who will reject you just because you’re under six feet. They prefer it, but they can make exceptions. Same with being ripped. They prefer that too, but again, exceptions can be made. Those factors are only really important if you want to get laid easily and nothing more.

    • RyanGosling [none/use name]
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      Those factors are only really important if you want to get laid easily and nothing more.

      Online right wing dating mentality is so weird.

      Like 40% of them are MRA/pick up artist types that hate women but whose entire self worth is based on women’s responses to them, so they’re getting laid but nothing lasts, especially if they’re rich enough to just pay prostitutes and models (since paying someone isn’t a transferable skill in forming real relationships)

      The other 50% want to be like the former, but they just want a secret pornstar as a wife who will present herself modestly to outsiders.

      The last 10% are guys who don’t get laid but have read a bunch of psudeoscience and misinterpret data and present themselves as Anonymous, Faceless Experts on Women and Becoming Chad on forums and YouTube

  • Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]
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    Women be saying for decades “I don’t care about looks or money I just want to date a decent human being who shares my interests and ideals.”

    And men be like “Nah but what do you really mean.”

    Like holy shit maybe listen to what women say instead of insisting they’re all liars. People don’t like being assumed liars for a start so maybe that has something to do with why these fucks can’t get a gf.

    So many sexist motherfuckers trying to avoid the obvious answer that women won’t date them because they’re sexist or have niche interests that make them incompatible.

    • The_Jewish_Cuban [he/him]
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      192 years ago

      I don’t get dates because I’m a terminally online communist

      You don’t get dates because you’re a sexist pig who’s terminally online.

      We’re not the same

    • RyanGosling [none/use name]
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      352 years ago

      I know a guy like this. He doesn’t think he’s some alpha male, but he thinks they’re all liars, liberal, want to be disrespected, and have a child-like mind. He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and say whatever to get him closer to getting laid.

      I don’t think he’s bad looking. He works out, has money, decently tall, and extroverted.

      He hasn’t had a successful relationship in a while, if any at all lol. Every time I talk to him he’s complaining and getting angry about dates failing. Now, some of the girls are indeed assholes. But, I feel like when you’re not hideous, proudly admit these mindsets, and every date turns into a disaster, then maybe it’s time to reevaluate.

      For context, I’m not exactly slaying out there, but he keeps asking me if “these bitches are stuck up” or “everything become PC after third wave feminism.” I’ve never encountered these types of people outside of twitter screenshots. Even the feminists I know will casually joke about inappropriate, traditionally “politically incorrect” stuff because they don’t think I’m suspicious

      • DragonBallZinn [he/him, they/them]
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        left-leaning

        they want to be disrespected and have a child-like mind

        Pick one. Most women that fall into the latter category are CHUDs.

        Constantly lies about his views

        Why? Right-wing beliefs are the most fashionable of all ideologies. It may all be completely idiotic, but people think it’s cool to subscribe to its thought-process. Like, I’m the one who has to constantly hide my power level to make sure I don’t end up completely isolated from others.

        • RyanGosling [none/use name]
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          52 years ago

          Some conservative views are popular accepted, like monogamy and marriage, but that’s small ‘c’ conservative. He’s like Joe Rogan/Jordan Peterson/GOP type of conservatism.

          Conservatives have always complained about dating in urban areas because the truth is women aren’t attracted to dudes who think they know about female bodies from reading tweets, or think crypto will change the universe. So they try to lie about what they believe and realize being insincere is easily detectable

      • Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]
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        352 years ago

        He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and says whatever to get him closer to getting laid.

        The thing that these guys don’t seem to understand is that women can usually tell when these guys are putting on an act or lying to get something. He’s probably putting out a million red flags lol

        Women have had to become human lie detectors, but for some reason, it’s women who are painted as liars or manipulators. Crazy world.

  • Great_Leader_Is_Dead [none/use name]
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    572 years ago

    I’ll be honest, I see other women freak out about this more than men. Like a woman will see another woman dating a guy “below her league” or whatever and assume something is awry and start asking the couple intrusive questions to figure out what is up.

    Dudes just seem to assume the guy has money and leave it at that.

  • invo_rt [he/him]
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    672 years ago

    Yet another one of these incel dorks trying to boil interpersonal relationships down to some kind of math equation. You know when they say “it defies ALL logic”.

    • DayOfDoom [any, any]
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      472 years ago

      It’s because they believe their only hope is to to try to grind up “status” from working out, dressing better/looking slightly better, and having money. Anything to do with not having a disgusting personality is anathema to their consumeristic worldview.

      • bigboopballs [he/him]
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        It’s because they believe their only hope is to to try to grind up “status” from working out, dressing better/looking slightly better,

        My personality is not disgusting (I swear) but I am not attractive to anyone as far as I can tell, so I don’t know what else to do.