• AceofSpades
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    331 year ago

    I already have two kids. Is it too late to adopt this lifestyle?

  • @[email protected]
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    251 year ago

    I very much enjoy the lifestyle that comes with it. It’s less stress overall. And it’s not exactly a fun place (current state of the world) for me to want to bring a mini me into.

  • @[email protected]
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    591 year ago

    Gee, it’s almost like it’s important for the long term success of society to have systems in place that make sure it’s not a burden to create new people to take over for your generation after their bodies are too old and broken to keep working and society functioning.

    Then again, the decisions have already been made by the people with the power to make them, and technology/automation are in line to replace workers. They’ll be a little loud and problematic until the numbers naturally even themselves out, but we’ll be left with an enlightened society of capitalist asset owners being supported by a massive technological network.

    • @[email protected]
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      181 year ago

      It would be a shame if a new Luddite movement came and broke the machines putting humans out of work they want to do.

      Or give us a universal basic income and let humans do what they want to do to make themselves happy while the machines do all the work.

      • @[email protected]
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        51 year ago

        Makes a fascinating short story:

        Jimmy thought his job at the data center was easy, clock in, watch the cameras, do the rounds, clock out. Good pay, low effort…

        then 10,000 people showed up with hammers and crow bars. Jimmy was about to have a very bad day.

      • lad
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        11 year ago

        I so much hope it’s going to be rhe second. I doubt it will 😢

        • @[email protected]
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          21 year ago

          What value is a universal basic income to the shareholders? That is the question to ask in this capitalist hellscape.

          • lad
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            11 year ago

            I’d say that sometimes it may even be beneficial to shareholders because they will not have to deal with people in the company that are there only to up the workspace numbers. You know, those job positions that only exist because of how wrecked the system is now

        • @[email protected]
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          11 year ago

          Maybe one day many, many years from now when there are far fewer humans and machines have taken over nearly all production. UBI isn’t feasible on this side of the coming demographic boogaloo.

  • Swarming
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    21 year ago

    Sad reflection of just how deep the neoliberal ideology has succeeded in reshaping people into pleasure-seeking consumers

      • @[email protected]
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        21 year ago

        Quick math suggests that it takes about 2190 bananas to raise a child, with an average of 1 banana every 3 days. This cost does not incluce therapy sessions for the parents though, so is not a complete breakdown of the cost of raising a child.

  • HexesofVexes
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    71 year ago

    I’d be ok with having kids if I could keep the job I like, but to afford it I’d have to leave academia or start playing politics to climb the ladder.

    The option is there, but I’d invalidate a lot of work to take it!

  • @[email protected]
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    1 year ago

    Even with dual income you can be homeless.

    Say what you will about previous generations but the ilk of Brian cheskey leading the way for destitution know money hoarding from unchecked capitalism more efficiently than ever before.

  • @[email protected]
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    291 year ago

    Bummer when my friends now don’t have kids. It robs me of the schadenfreude while they enjoy their childfree blissful and carefree lives.

  • @[email protected]
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    661 year ago

    My wife finally are in a point where we can afford to have children, but we are kinda getting a bit old to have children. So we are also choosing the dual income no children life style,

    But a big part of that is our age and how long it took to get to a comfortable place financially.

    Now we want to focus on saving for a house and retirement.

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    211 year ago

    I always feel cheated as an asexual/aromantic person. We shouldn’t be forced to live with roommates for the rest of our lives just because we don’t want to get married, which isn’t really a choice, it’s just our orientation like anyone else’s. It’s also so much harder when neurodivergence and/or social anxiety is an issue.

    No one should be forced to get married or have roommates (or both) just to keep a roof over their heads. Everyone is entitled to have a little bit of privacy and comfort in their lives, especially if they work hard for it.

    I can’t believe I feel like I have to justify the desire for a studio apartment with no roommates.

    • WookieMonster
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      51 year ago

      Amen, AroAce SINK, with no partner to pick up any slack…I’m lucky currently to live with family that I get along well with, but they’re older and not in great health, so that’s not going to last forever.