~500 comments about our instance and admins in the past week. Talk about needing to touch some grass…

  • @[email protected]
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    It’s funny how butthurt they always get about the simplest shit. It’s kinda hilarious.

    Their instance has always been blocked on my end since the second lemmy added the instance block feature, but since that only gets rid of posts, my individual user block list has grown to about 40 hb users by now. Life gets better every time I add one to it. I hopped over there for a second and saw them gloating about banning you from their instance like it was some huge win. And then shitting on db0 because they’re “not real pirates” because they… don’t support dictatorships or something? Lol wtf?

    Do not ever try to reason with them because you are burning your breath. I am surprised you have tolerated them this long. Quite literally, the only thing that can ever be done with hardcore radical trolls is blocking or defederating. Removing their voice always hurts them the most, because their only source of energy is controversy.

    I think the rest of us reasonable folk really love what you do here db0. This has been by far the most stable, cleanest instance I’ve been on so far, and i’ve tried 3 or 4 of them. don’t let the assholes try and pull you down for not kowtowing to their weird ideology. Keep it up!

    Edit: And as expected, the downvote brigade is monitoring this post, lol.

    • KillingTimeItself
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      91 year ago

      And then shitting on db0 because they’re “not real pirates” because they… don’t support dictatorships or something? Lol wtf?

      the dbzer0 shitpost was funny lmao. Cry harder next time.

      dbzer0 is honestly one the better instances out here (though im biased obviously)

  • the post of tom joad
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    251 year ago

    I think everyone who hates hexbear should just… Make a hexbear.net account and go hang out there. That’s what i did, waaaay back when sh.itjust.works defedded. I hadn’t heard about them before and i just had to see what the food was about first-hand.

    It’s not the den of wolves people seem to fear. In fact, i spend nearly as much time hanging out in their threads as on this instance. I have always liked learning new perspectives and stuff, and i believe I’ve gained quite a bit from making that place one of my innanet homes

    • @[email protected]
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      51 year ago

      I don’t think people view it as a den of wolves more so a small car filled with clowns. Their instance code of conduct requires a trigger warning to show a picture of an egg.

    • Cowbee [he/they]
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      181 year ago

      100% agree. Largely, defederation from Hexbear by the larger servers has resulted in a sort of vastly inflated mythology surrounding it.

      Just visit it, and see for yourself what it’s actually like, it won’t hurt.

      • Cowbee [he/they]
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        141 year ago

        Not who you asked, but it really is just a group of rowdy leftists that do not tolerate liberalism of any manner. Defederation has resulted in an inflated mythology surrounding them, as though they are a pack of rabid animals, but if you go on their site it’s pretty normal for a leftist space.

        • @[email protected]
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          121 year ago

          but if you go on their site it’s pretty normal for a leftist space

          A dirtbag left space, certainly. You’ll get dogpiled for most any dissenting opinions, but it’s generally “here’s [link] where you’re dumb and wrong, do better” not “kys bootlicker”.

          I don’t get ppb as the peak of comedy, they can keep that

          • the post of tom joad
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            71 year ago

            I tried finding the point of that opinion piece you linked and found only frustration. Not going after you but the author really. On a different note, could you tell me what ppb is? I looked it up and only found parts per billion

            • @[email protected]
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              71 year ago

              I think that’s the point, no? They’re enthusiastic, but turn that energy into online spaces to argue. Yes there’s organizing in meatspace, but largely devolves into online circle-jerks. Like us all.

              Ppb

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                To your point about organizing there are seemingly more folks on there who do it for real, i don’t have numbers tho just vibes from hearing peeps on there talking about their work. Ymmv. But you’re not chiding them for not being political enough are you? They have no more responsibility to do that than you or i do (a responsibility i personally haven’t risen to since Bernie).

                Ppb

                Ahhhahaha i should have known. But i love ppb (and all their cool custom emojis) so we’ll have to disagree on that one.

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        They definitely aren’t china/russo spies or the funnier ideas ive seen folks have. They skew about the same age range and nationality as the rest of Lemmy. Lotsa yanks yaknow? They aren’t afraid to show you your own ass if you drop trou around them, and they have the mental acuity to expose every pimple, so you better have a thick skin if you want to speak on something you aren’t as informed on as you think you are. I do have one (id like to think) and i got my clock cleaned over there once, had to touch grass for a few days. But i didn’t get banned or harassed for it. (Probably because i didn’t double down on my opinion) in fact i am still friendly with those same people, even the ones who hurted my feefees.

        I think maybe the shock many commenters feel going over there is actually whiplash from the perspective change. From arguing politics from a position of “the left” towards people on “the right” political spectrum.

        When you’re talking communists as a liberal, you are the right wing. This whiplash is dizzying and difficult, and not at all pleasant. Unless you plan to learn, and go there with the idea that you are going to learn something, it’s not going to be a fun expedition. Proselytizing types get mocked and banned.

        Reason i say one must learn isnt to say one must convert, there are simply a lot of things we have been told about what communism/capitalism actually are that are simply untrue. In addition, there’s a lot of additional historical context those who don’t dedicate themselves to the subject just won’t know that kinda changes the way one views how we came to be where we are today.

        And one doesnt have to believe or agree with the conclusions drawn to gain this insight and perspective, but i feel knowing more is always better than Knowing less. At the very least you may find yourself understanding where they come from, and agree with many points they make.

        Ive just read my ramble and i don’t know if it is descriptive or helpful at all haha. Lemme just say in closing i think those folks have good heads on their shoulders and I’m quite glad i found them. taking the time to try to understand what they’re about was a lesson for me in both political theory and history and i am better for it

        • @[email protected]
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          Thank you! Sounds point, and I appreciate you typing all that. I will check it out with an open mind. But that will be difficult. I come from a place where socialism/communism was implemented, in which the message was “being rich is a bad thing,” and the government is just a bunch of hypocrite authoritarian corrupts. So I have my reservations.

          But I’m always willing to learn.

        • @[email protected]
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          121 year ago

          Yeah I agree with a lot of what you’ve said here. I actually switched to db0 from lemm.ee as my primary instance when hexbear defederated from ee. I mostly lurk anyways but I do like seeing their posts from time to time, at the very least it’s good to get a wider perspective on things. Tbh Lemmy in general and especially the leftist instances have made me reconsider some of my long standing beliefs and have contributed greatly to my radicalization lol

          • @[email protected]
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            11 year ago

            What do you mean by “radicalization”? I know you’re talking in hyperbole, but are you saying that you’re more fervent of your original ideas, or that going over there made a huge impact on the things you believe in?

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      I swear 90% of the people deriding hexbear were offended by one post and never went back or saw a post that was entirely full of sarcastic comments and thought it was unironic. I’m not even ML, I call myself an anarchist and argue about all kinds of shit on hexbear and I have found it to be a very caring community, and actually doesn’t tolerate transphobia or imperialist apologia unlike most online spaces.

      • Armok: God of Blood
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        131 year ago

        Hexbear sends their commissar clown car around to threads they disagree with, especially in political/news communities, and brigade them with their tankie bullshit ideology.

    • @[email protected]
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      I’m on an instance federated with them, and subscribed to a couple of their comms, but their most popular politics boards are exactly what you’d expect from it being where r/chapoTrapHouse went.

  • @[email protected]
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    121 year ago

    The only part I hate about lemmy is this. Constant whining about other instances. Can I block this instance on my app and still be able to access piracy instance?

  • YeetPics
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    71 year ago

    Pissing off tankies just means you’re a net positive to the planet. Rejoice.

    • Cowbee [he/they]
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      In my personal experience, Hexbear is a group of rational actors with strongly held beliefs and 0 tolerance for liberalism. If you aren’t a liberal/conservative/fascist/some other right winger, and you aren’t a left-sectarian, it’s a pretty reasonable space.

      The bulk of the “mythology” surrounding Hexbear comes from people defederating from it and allowing that mystique to fester in their minds. I suggest people just go there and check it out, you don’t have to agree with them, but it does eliminate the idea that they are a toxic instance.

  • KillingTimeItself
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    131 year ago

    hexbear the instant someone even so much as dares to comment a dissenting view point.

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    I had a Hexbear account for about a month, and noticed whenever I logged in or refreshed the webpage that someone else’s username would momentarily appear at the top right of my desktop screen where mine would normally be, and then mine would appear.

    This had never happened with any of my user accounts in other instances, and I was considering deleting it out of fear that my username (and, perhaps, login credentials) might somehow get compromised.

    Anyway, I ended up deleting it for something else – the very same reasons often mentioned in the comments here, after experiencing some of that toxic shit firsthand. Good riddance!

    • @[email protected]
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      Hexbear and lemmygrad are the only instances I blocked in-client, and it was a drastic instant improvement.

    • db0OPM
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      There’s some good peeps there and they help in keeping the crypto-fash in check. But their clannishness is unchecked.

      • Unruffled [they/them]
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        631 year ago

        Do we really need their help keeping fascists in check? Problem is hexbears consider everyone who’s not on ml or hexbear to be an ipso facto fascist, and act accordingly. There’s zero room in their ideology for anyone with more moderate political views. I’d say the majority of our users are probably left leaning, but unless they happen to want the violent destruction of the western liberal democracies, then they just aren’t left enough for hexbears to accept.

        Having said all that, I feel like we’ve managed to successfully remove most of the overt political trolling from hexbear on our instance lately, so our own communities aren’t too affected. But they really hate the fact we’ve been clamping down on them.

        I’ll also acknowledge the majority of hexbear’s users don’t go trolling. They seem to have a bunch of well meaning people who are focussed on community building, a bunch of political history/theory enthusiasts, and a bunch of awful trolls who are just there for the lulz. You can see in their own modlogs that there’s tensions within their instance between those groups.

        So, it’s a complicated situation to deal with, and depending which groups you interact with, you might have a very different experience. From my own experience I’d say the bad far outweighs the good though.

        • db0OPM
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          I think it’s because you and me face the brunt of their ire for trying to defend our instance inside their toxic comms, and that colors our perspective. But I try to step out of this and see things less personally when it affects more than just me. Just my take. I generally appreciate having the chance to be challenged from the left on occasion. None of us is perfect at the end of the day.

        • db0OPM
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          but unless they happen to want the violent destruction of the western liberal democracies

          Btw, I think we also need to be cognizant when they exaggerate, but then again, a lot of their users will be the first to say “Lol, they think we exaggerate” so it’s not always clear since they’re too many levels deep in irony, which has it’s own impact on their userbase’s mentality. Similar statements generally require discussion and deconstruction before one can decide if that person deserves some sort of sanction.

          • Unruffled [they/them]
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            251 year ago

            I think we just need to take what they say at face value, because it’s all to easy for problematic users to pivot to “just joking” when they get called out.

            • Draconic NEO
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              Yeah I couldn’t agree more, they’ve caused enough issues to prove that it really isn’t and hasn’t been a joke for a long time.

      • @[email protected]
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        they help in keeping the crypto-fash in check

        Unless your users at large are crypto fascists I don’t think you need crypto authoritarians to keep crypto fascists in check.

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          Well their criticism of the current system is on-point, and they can help counter pro-capitalism ideologues. It’s just that their praxis tends to be shite when they try to be all “vanguard of the proletariat” or overuse their “bullying” as a tactic.

          • DessertStorms
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            they can help counter pro-capitalism ideologues

            Only with authoritarian ideals, and while supporting places like China and N. Korea, giving capitalists every reason to mock what the tankies falsely present as communism.

            Like, you do you, but personally simply having anti-capitalism in common isn’t enough to overlook the oppressive ideas they preach and support (even if indirectly, by using that instance specifically, they actively endorse and condone those ideals), just like having anti-stateism in common isn’t enough to overlook the oppressive ideas "an"caps preach and support.

            They’re telling you who they are, the best thing you can do is listen (and if any of these users really are that chill and not at all tankies like you give them credit for, they should understand why being affiliated with authoritarians is a red flag to most users, and have no problem creating an account on another instance that isn’t bringing mass defederation on to itself by brigading and harassing anyone who doesn’t agree with their oppressive views)

  • @[email protected]
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    131 year ago

    These threads are so fuckin’ weird from my instance. They keep coming up like clockwork every couple weeks.

  • krolden
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    171 year ago

    Maybe stop being so cringe and acting like a baby

    • YeetPics
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      51 year ago

      Lmao, pot meet kettle.

      Something about you .ml types, you can’t seem to take accountability. It’s always “blame it on that fella over there” type. dodging reality. Sad.

    • Unruffled [they/them]
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      Just remind me again, which instance produces hundreds of hate comments every time one of their shitty takes is removed from another instance? Hint: it’s not us. They have zero tolerance for us, so why should we be tolerant of them exactly? I’m curious to know your logic.

      Edit: and every downvote is from .ml. Wonder why they are wading in on this? Lol

      • @[email protected]
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        What hate comments are you talking about? I legit don’t know what you are talking about and I post there almost exclusively. You say ‘not us’ but what is this post full of attempted shame on hexbear then? Have you seen the hex thread about defederating? The hex users share kindness for dbzer0 users, the reasons for the banning seemed pretty reasonable and consistent with their policies, and they voted against defederating. From my perspective this whole situation seems a bit immature.

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          This whole thing started because one .ml poster got salty than we removed one post of theirs from piracy and went there to whine as they know hexbear loves to just believe any disinfo that reinforces their dislike. At which point it was a thread full of insults and hate (as usual). When I tried to explain calmly why we actually removed the post, there were a few initial positive interactions which were followed by Americans waking up and starting the bad faith arguments with a bit of ableism sprinkled in for good measure.

          Finally I misused one unwritten rule, once, by following the example of someone who used it towards me (which I respected) which their mod used as an excuse to insult me, remove all my comments and ban me.

          I gave them a piece of my mind for that behaviour and the rest is history.

          This post is the only attention I’ve given hexbear in this instance since months (the second such attention in total) , while they’ve had multiple of them in the past month alone. Not to mention 1000-comment brigades full of toxicity and sealioning in the past year. Hell they even made a thread explicitly to ridicule my pfp for good measure 😁 I’m not even allowed to vent in my own space apparently.

          But sure, we’re immature.

          • @[email protected]
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            I wasn’t saying you were immature, I said the whole situation was. The impetus for the whole thing, deleting of the post, also seemed to make no sense to me at all. But to elevate the situation after that was what I meant was immature really. And from there it just seemed like a schoolyard fight or something, all of it just being a waste of time distracting and taking energy away from everyone involved.

            • db0OPM
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              Yes it was immature to allow that post in the dunk tank immediately believe the salty person and just start hurling abuse and spreading disinfo about our admins again. Their admins once again dropped the ball, but whatever.

              Maybe you argue we should be the better people and let other just misrepresent us openly to ferment even more hate towards our instance? I don’t quite agree with that and I felt compelled to calmly set the record straight. Was that so wrong?

              Sure, I admit I lost my cool when their admin among all the toxicity they enabled towards us, finally found the flimsiest gotcha to delete all my comments and insult me on top for good measure. I’ll take my “immature” label for that, but I’m only human after all.

              • @[email protected]
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                Well yes I think all of us should be the better person, obviously easier said than done! I’m not a fan of ridicule or bullying of course (except against actual nazis maybe) and I feel bad if you or anyone has been hurt by harassment. I am mostly just trying to say this sort of infighting is all just taken too seriously, and arguing about ‘tankies’, which can mean any number of things to different people, doesn’t seem helpful to anyone in my view.

                For what it’s worth, like another comment said I do really appreciate the work you and others have done to make this instance possible! I don’t have any resentment for anyone in this situation and I hope hexers and us here can all come together better in the future, we have more alike than in difference.

                • db0OPM
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                  You know what’s funnier? The reason they’re so obsessed with me is because I don’t take this infighting seriously. I don’t know if any of my comments remained after they banned me, but my modus operandi is to just self deprecate or be sarcastic towards insults. This, it appears, has been intolerable, which is why their admin was looking for any excuse to ban me.

                  However what is actually frustrating is the follow up propaganda, where they pretend and keep repeating that they banned me for being “reactionary” and “harassment”, both of which are blatantly false. But they’ll keep repeating it forever now, attempting to character assassinate me every opportunity. It’s this dishonesty I just can’t stomach.

          • krolden
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            11 year ago

            Citation needed on all this abuse you keep talking about

            • db0OPM
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              41 year ago

              There’s at least 10 threads in hexbear about me and the instance full of insults and disinfo. Also this is not Wikipedia

              • krolden
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                31 year ago

                So what that’s their instance. They can post what they want there just like you can delete their posts here.

    • db0OPM
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      251 year ago

      I was born in cringe. Molded by it…