• Midnight Wolf
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    10 months ago

    Replace “inventor” with “Hilton” and you have a home run

  • @[email protected]
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    210 months ago

    I got one of those Purple Pillows. Felt like an ass spending $100 on a pillow, but I was flush and my neck hurt.

    It’s great on the bottom and seems like it’ll last the rest of my life. Doesn’t crush or absorb smells, water hose will clean it off.

    OTOH, it’s too low for a single pillow, but I still dig it.

    • @[email protected]
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      1510 months ago

      I’m fascinated as to why “not absorbing smells” and the ability to be hosed down were major selling points to you.

      • @[email protected]
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        510 months ago

        LOL, ya got me.

        Seriously, washing pillows often jacks them up into scrunched up balls. Also, ever smelled a pillow after it gets old? Not much you can do to renew it. A rubber pillow isn’t going to have issues like cloth. Just change the pillow case regularly.

    • @[email protected]
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      110 months ago

      It’s great on the bottom and seems like it’ll last the rest of my life.

      No pillow is going to last 10years. Your brand recommends changing every 2-4 years depending on the type, of course they are biased to make that number lower, but you still are going to be hurting yourself if you leave it too long. If you wake up with a stuffy nose every morning that could be your pillow for instance.

      If longevity is your biggest concern I would recommend something like a buckwheat pillow, when it ages out you can just replace the stuffing for cheap and the waste buckwheat is fully biodegradable. I love mine!

  • MrScottyTay
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    310 months ago

    I make a nice gentle curved slope with three pillows. Layering them offset to each other, with the back one being both the thickest and close to being vertical and the front one, also the thinnest being closer to horizontal.

    My head probably isn’t even over the first pillow, but it allows the getting two to be at a more comfy angle.

  • Lenny
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    110 months ago

    Years ago my husband bought a random pillow from Amazon. I liked it so much I also bought one, but I guess it was a different manufacturer and I hated it. He’s not fussy so we swapped, and I swear to god this is the best pillow I’ve ever used. It was like $23 and the link is broken now.

  • @[email protected]
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    110 months ago

    Get a quality bamboo pillow with crushed memory foam filling. You can control how much fill goes into the pillow, and if you change your mind you can always add or remove some of the fill.

  • @[email protected]
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    1810 months ago

    Reading the comments is making me feel like a psychopath. I guess I’m the only one who occasionally uses no pillows because one can be too much for me

    • @[email protected]
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      1710 months ago

      Yeah you’re definitely a psychopath. My neck would be absolutely killing me without a pillow.

    • Bob
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      10 months ago

      But you must rest your head somehow if you lie on your side? Or are your shoulders 1cm broad?

    • @[email protected]
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      210 months ago

      I think I sleep more often with a pillow on top of my head or hip than actually using the pillow as intended. If you need head/neck support, the comforter is better suited for the job as you can fold it to the right shape.

    • @[email protected]
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      510 months ago

      Are you a back sleeper or someone who sleeps on their arm? If I get in my side sleeping position without a pillow my ear isn’t even touching the ground.

      • @[email protected]
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        110 months ago

        I usually sleep on my back but if I sleep on my side I always use a pillow. I have a pretty big head so if I’m lying flat with no pillow my neck is straight and not bending backwards

    • Drusas
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      110 months ago

      I sometimes prefer not to have any pillow when I’m sleeping on my stomach.

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    10 months ago

    Latex pillow. They do NOT lose shape/consistency at all. Trust me, I bought a latex pillow and I pretty much always use the latex pillow now. I use the larger memory foam pillow when I want a harder/thicker pillow, but otherwise I prefer the latex pillow since I don’t have to worry about constantly fluffing it up or anything. I still flip it around sometimes to get to the cold side of course, but not as much for other pillows. Some people want “ergonomically-shaped” pillows, which have a bump for neck/spine support, and those kinds of latex pillows exist too.

    A lot of people swear by millet pillows and buckwheat pillows (and other hull-filled/non-synthetic pillows) too. What I can say about them is they’re firm and heavy (buckwheat pillows are harder and millet pillows are softer), they stay cold, they have a strong smell, and they whisper statistics into your ear when you’re trying to sleep (they’re very noisy, especially ones using a less soft/less stretchy fabric like canvas or sateen). They’re probably better if you want more neck support. People like PineTales pillows, especially side-sleepers (I’ve never tried them though).

    The best praise I’ve seen a pillow brand get though is Purple pillows, again from side-sleepers, but they’re $100-200 and I haven’t tried one. I don’t particularly want to finance a pillow.

    Every time I have to use a typical pillow I’m like “wow this fucking sucks” and I have to fiddle with the pillow constantly because it loses its shape/firmness after a few minutes and stops feeling comfortable. Not something that happens with good latex pillows, and it’s less of a problem with memory foam & hull-filled pillows than in other pillows.

  • Fushuan [he/him]
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    310 months ago

    Idk man, I just have a good pillow that’s big AF so that when I’m sideways it fits well and when I look up it compresses.

    If you need more space maybe buy a bigger or a sturdier one (so you compress it less)

    • Drusas
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      110 months ago

      That comforter looks even better than the pillow.

      • @[email protected]
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        210 months ago

        Can’t speak to the Birch comforter’s quality, but recently I got my first set of really nice sheets too. If you’re patient, you can find some Frette sheets for surprisingly cheap on one of their sales.

        • Drusas
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          110 months ago

          High quality sheets are one of those great luxuries that isn’t remotely necessary but is so, so nice to have. Especially on a hot summer night. In my experience, they don’t last nearly as long as cheap sheets, but if you can afford them, it’s worth it. I’ll definitely check out Frette.

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      1210 months ago

      Birch, I ain’t paying over $100 for a freaking pillow. There’s gotta be a more affordable way.

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        810 months ago

        I had to save up for it, but I’ve always slept poorly and wanted to go all in on the new bedding. Maybe I’m crazy, but I think it was worth the money.

      • Drusas
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        10 months ago

        You don’t need to pay quite that much to get one, but investing in a nice, expensive pillow really upgraded my sleep quality dramatically. I won’t even let my houseguests use cheap pillows anymore. The difference is just too dramatic.

      • Lord Wiggle
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        810 months ago

        100 seems like a lot for just a pillow. However, you use it every night and it helps you waking up without back or neck pain. So, investing 100 dollars into something you use 1/3 of every day seems like it’s basically nothing. My pillow costed almost 200 euros, my matrass was 1800. I’ve had it for 10 years, so it costed me 2000/3650= ~0.548 per night, 7 to 8 hours per day. Almost 55 cents for proper back and neck support, so I don’t wake up stiff and sour. The longer I use it, the cheaper it becomes, but I think in a year or two I’ll buy a new set so I’ll be sleeping like a princess for another 10 to 12 years.

        Plot twist: learning to sleep without a pillow is even better for your back and neck. So, there’s your cheap option.