A senior official with the Dutch Olympic committee has insisted that a convicted child rapist in its beach volleyball team is not a paedophile, in an email seen by the Guardian.

A concerned British man who has lived in the Netherlands for more than a decade, wrote to the Dutch Olympic committee and called the inclusion of Steven van de Velde in the team “a stain on the Dutch national side”. In a reply the Dutch Olympic committee spokesperson wrote: “Steven is NOT a peadophile [sic]; you really don’t think that de Dutch NOC would send someone to Paris who IS a real risk? No, he isn’t a risk.”

There has been mounting public anger at the presence of the beach volleyball player Van de Velde, who was convicted of raping a 12-year-old British girl in 2016. Earlier this week the International Olympic Committee faced calls for an investigation into how a convicted child rapist has been allowed to compete at Paris 2024. The IOC has said the selection of athletes for the Games was the responsibility of individual committees.

There has been mounting public anger at the presence of the beach volleyball player Van de Velde, who was convicted of raping a 12-year-old British girl in 2016. Earlier this week the International Olympic Committee faced calls for an investigation into how a convicted child rapist has been allowed to compete at Paris 2024. The IOC has said the selection of athletes for the Games was the responsibility of individual committees.

  • @sartalon@reddthat.com
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    41 year ago

    So if they chose him to represent them, then clearly child rape is endorsed by Denmark. At least that is how the committee seems to be presenting it.

  • @floofloof@lemmy.ca
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    961 year ago

    Van de Velde, who is now 29, was sentenced to four years in prison in 2016 after pleading guilty to raping the girl in Milton Keynes. He had flown to England to meet her in 2014 with full knowledge of her age, having met her on Facebook. He served 12 months in a British prison, before being transferred to his home country where he was released after a further month.

    This does sound just a tiny bit pedoey.

    • @idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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      141 year ago

      Yeah, in what world is he not a pedophile (don’t @ me about ephebophilia)? I thought the rub would be that he was 14 months older than her or something. He was 19 and traveled to another country to have sex with a preteen.

    • @dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net
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      421 year ago

      Yeah. It would be extremely questionable but still a little believable if the situation was “we met at a club that was supposed to be 21 and up and I thought she just looked young.” The reality is he traveled to another country to rape someone he knew was a child.

    • @kaitco@lemmy.world
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      261 year ago

      I’m sorry, but in what world does this not make him a pedophile?

      He went to a location to have sex with a 12-year old. There are loads of people in ass-pounding prison right now for those exact acts as pedos.

      He’s a pedo and a rapist. This is some asinine Brock Turner level nonsense. The Dutch should be ashamed to have even accepted him back home let alone send him to the Olympics.

      • @harrys_balzac@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        201 year ago

        Most men who commit these crimes aren’t sexually attracted to children/adolescents. It’s the power trip behind it and the feeling of control. Unfortunately, they end up targeting children because they are so vulnerable.

        Pedophilia is rather rare and can be treated easily but society and the media have done so much damage that people who are truly pedophiles are afraid to seek help.

        Brock Allen Turner and this guy are sociopaths. Entitled, narcissistic shits who think they can have or do whatever they want.

          • @harrys_balzac@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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            131 year ago

            Definitely sick. The main point is that they really don’t care about the identity of their victims - just that they can satisfy their own desires. This guy would probably just as likely rape a passed out 50-something woman if he thought he could get away with it.

        • @Zetta@mander.xyz
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          151 year ago

          Unrelated to the main post but your comment brings up a point I think is important for society to understand. “pedophiles are afraid to seek help.” Pedophilia is a mental disorder and doesn’t inherently mean someone is a criminal, or ever will become one. But because it is such a violent and life destroying term to be labeled as a pedo those who have this mental disorder and are struggling to not offend will never seek the mental help they desperately need, this in turn leads to children being harmed.

          Everyone is responsible for their actions, and pedophiles who rape or hurt kids are also responsible for their actions, but society as a whole contributes to more children being harmed by the way we represent and treat the mental disorder.

  • @Honytawk@lemmy.zip
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    61 year ago

    Our justice system might not be perfect, but it is the best option we have.

    So if they convict someone, it is pretty much the truth until proven otherwise.

    Some official doing damage control doesn’t get a say in this.

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    1891 year ago

    Let’s briefly set aside the fact that she was 12.

    He was convicted of raping another person… period. That alone should disqualify him from representing his country at the Olympics.

    Now back to your regular scheduled world wide publicity for Steven van de Velde, who repeatedly raped a 12 year old girl.

    • Meldrik
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      691 year ago

      Yea, wtf is this shit? He’s a convicted rapist. The end.

      • Echo Dot
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        121 year ago

        But apparently not a pedophile. Not sure how that works, I’m also unclear on why it’s even relevant.

        If he’d murdered someone would that be better or worse?

        • @Zaktor@sopuli.xyz
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          181 year ago

          They just want to clarify that he’s not selective, he’d also rape adult women if given the opportunity.

        • @Hawk@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          151 year ago

          The Dutch wikipedia explains that according to research, 25% to 50% acts because of a sexual preference for minors.

          The others only act because they see an easy opportunity to have sex, or worse, want to exploit them.

          I guess that’s what he bases his statement on?

          Just a bunch of downplaying stuff with definitions and nonsense talk in my opinion.

    • @AA5B@lemmy.world
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      Presumably did his time, but you have to let criminals who have completed their sentence rejoin society.

      A child rapist is another story

    • @GeoGio7@lemmy.world
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      331 year ago

      Well actually, If you set aside her age it wouldn’t be rape at all, since it’s statutory rape. She technically consented and did things herself. But of course since she’s a child she can’t consent, she was manipulated by someone much older.

      My point is her age is very important and should definitely not be set aside.

      • @exanime@lemmy.world
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        441 year ago

        She technically consented

        He got her drunk… Not only she was too young to consent, he made her drunk this invalidating any chance for valid consent even if she was much older.

        • @GeoGio7@lemmy.world
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          41 year ago

          They talked for a long time through messaging before hand and talked about having sex. Either way, she couldn’t consent she was just a child. Disgusting.

          • @lightnsfw@reddthat.com
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            21 year ago

            Nothing you are saying mitigates this in any way. She was 12. None of the shit leading up to it should have happened either. If anything that makes it worse.

            • fmstrat
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              While controversial, comment OPs point is a response to taking age out of the equation. All they are saying is that you shouldn’t do that. They’re not saying “It’s not rape,” or that he “isn’t a rapist.” Which… You seem to be agreeing with.

                • @candybrie@lemmy.world
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                  31 year ago

                  If adults talked about having sex, got drunk, and had sex, I don’t think people would generally consider it rape. That one of the people involved was 12 is what makes it absolutely rape and utterly disgusting.

  • @EnderMB@lemmy.world
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    551 year ago

    Alongside the rest of the comments…imagine being an elite-level volleyball player, being told that you’re going to represent your country, and then being asked to partner up with a nonce.

  • modifier
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    811 year ago

    Okay, WHEW. I was getting worried that NL was going to let a pedophile rapist represent their country but it turns out they are merely letting a rapist of 12 year olds represent their country which, as we all know, is way better.

    • @M0oP0o@mander.xyz
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      51 year ago

      Don’t worry, as they say he is “not a risk”. I mean i was not thinking of an Olympic athlete raping children at the olympics before that statement.

  • @Emerald@lemmy.world
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    341 year ago

    The whole situation aside… what is up with the email skills of the Dutch Olympic Committee? This email is legit worded like a text message or a Lemmy comment

    "Steven is NOT a peadophile; you really don’t think that de Dutch NOC would send someone to Paris who IS a real risk? No, he isn’t a risk.”

  • Lad
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    61 year ago

    Steven van de Velde is a nonce

      • @ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one
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        11 year ago

        Nonce - a person who commits a crime involving sex, especially sex with a child.

        To use it in a sentence - Steven Van de Velde is a nonce.

      • @TheFarm@lemmy.world
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        61 year ago

        It’s British slang for a pedophile that stands for “Not on normal courtyard exercise”. Meaning if they are in prison, they are not sent to exercise with the others as they are at high risk of being beat up.

        • Hegar
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          Not on normal courtyard/community exercise

          That’s almost certainly a backronym. There aren’t enough records of its use to say for certain, but nonce probably shares an etymology with “nancy” as in nancy boy, or possibly with “ponce” as in perfumed ponce.

  • @lepinkainen@lemmy.world
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    631 year ago

    Meanwhile a female equestrian was banned for hitting a horse.

    Maybe she should’ve fucked it, that would be fine it seems? 🤣

    • @Blackmist@feddit.uk
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      191 year ago

      I suspect if it was a man hitting the horse, it would have been brushed away as “part of the sport”.

    • @angrystego@lemmy.world
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      221 year ago

      Let’s not compare that, I’m happy she was banned. I know you don’t want to say it was ok, but the comparison could be used to pardon her behaviour.

    • @14th_cylon@lemm.ee
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      11 year ago

      cruelty to animals have no place in 21st century and she should have been banned - for her, that is her punishment.

      for him, some would argue that he already went through his punishment. he is probably still piece of shit, i don’t know the details of the case.