• @[email protected]
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    62 years ago

    Mildly infuriating my arse.

    The only future outcomes are wholly and completely infuriated to the very core of your being if the ex escalates past phone harassment to real life.

    Or

    The feeling of smug self satisfaction of dodging the fucking firing squad when this person leaves your life without further fuss.

  • Tedesche
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    382 years ago

    That’s not “mildly infuriating,” that’s straight-up scary. Call the cops.

  • @[email protected]
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    172 years ago

    If you don’t contact the authorities at least make sure lots of your loved ones know about this.

  • @[email protected]
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    This person needs psychiatric help. But OOP needs to call the police and I’d wager that has far more priority.

    *Edited OP to OOP, since OP likely didn’t receive these messages themself.

  • @[email protected]
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    422 years ago

    This is what inspired someone to create the “block number” feature on phones. Wow. Sorry you’re dealing with this person. Hopefully they will quit this soon

    • @[email protected]
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      122 years ago

      If possible on your phone, I recommend filtering instead of blocking. If you can set it to auto-archive texts and not send notifications, then they won’t bother you but you’ll still have the texts on your device if you ever need them — e.g. as evidence for police.

  • animist
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    1052 years ago

    Is blocking people illegal in your country

  • @[email protected]
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    622 years ago

    This is called “start a chain of paperwork with the police”. They of course won’t do much to help but it’s good for future restraining order proceedings.

    Because you’re gonna have future restraining order proceedings.

  • @[email protected]
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    102 years ago

    Damn take care of yourself OP.

    Also… there are plenty of less crazy fish in the sea. Let this one swim.

    • MuchPineapples
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      302 years ago

      Maybe not even a bad idea. The police probably doesn’t do shit, but the mom (or dad) might smack some sense into him. At the very least they can keep an eye on him with other girls.

  • Nine
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    92 years ago

    Reminds me of my ex with BPD…

  • @[email protected]
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    162 years ago

    It’s incredibly difficult to take this seriously when they can’t even be bothered to spell whole words.

    • @[email protected]
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      -92 years ago

      Yes, because only people with perfect spelling and grammar murder people, as we all know.