For me Its quite simple. My brain decided it. Literally. The days I found out I’m trans, my brain would do this weird thing, where I could think about completely different stuff and suddenly my now chosen name would “fly” into my mental Field of View, like an asteroid in star wars or so. I told that name a close friend and 4 weeks later when we went to the club together I told him, that I will stick with it, because I didnt had a better idea (and it was the only name I really felt comfortable with).

  • Torn Apart By Dogs
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    12 days ago

    my butch great aunt born in the 1910’s hated it and went by her middle name

    SO I FUCKIN STOLE IT YOINK

  • @[email protected]
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    13 days ago

    I stole mine from a Greek goddess. It is only part of her name though. This goddess also was known by Kori, so it actually seems like a perfect choice. (My chosen name isn’t currently in my display name.)

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    43 days ago

    swapnote girl is adorable and always stuck with me

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    4 days ago

    I kept my name. It’s unisex, and a search of it on LinkedIn actually shows like a 70-30 split of female to male respectively. I’m comfortable with it and used to it and, living in the US rn, I don’t want to deal with all the name change issues.

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      104 days ago

      Ayy, samesies. I love my name, and like you said, it’s a very common female name. There’s also a certain sense of power that comes from being un-deadnameable.

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        64 days ago

        My government name is 99% masc, but I only hear it at work and it isn’t worth the hassle of changing it. All my mates and friends just call me “Cat”.

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    34 days ago

    Video game player, thru many (mmo)rpg genre, had to make many fantasy names. Went known thru most common one, then picked some irl name that was similar. (not related to my lemmy username).

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    64 days ago

    I just took my birth name, shortened it and that happens to be gender neutral. Then I expanded it but the female version of the name.

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    264 days ago

    I was thinking about Satan on my walk and figured that “Lucy” is short for “Lucifer”, and then was like “Lucy actually sounds pretty nice…”

    I returned home and told about it with my friend (also trans) and she was like “wow so cool!!!” so I went with it. That’s it :3

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      54 days ago

      And I just thought of random names until I found one I liked. lol

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        134 days ago

        It’s a character from Attack on Titan. Iirc the character is called Sasha and she gets shouted at for eating a potato during a military drill. Her response is to offer the drill sergeant part of the potato. (Been a while since I watched AoT)

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    Codsworth from fo4 could say certain prerecorded pc names. Thus, I found out i preferred the name Assface

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    104 days ago

    I used it since I was 13 on IRC ““catfishing””, well it was not catfishing actually, it was me expressing how I wanted to live, but I didn’t realised at that time. Then, I came out at 27 and remembered those days and rescued the name.

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    104 days ago

    I was chatting about names with my wife and she suggested it. Tried it out, it fit, and now I’m legally stuck with it :3