• Flying Squid
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    12 years ago

    How exactly do you think she’s going to find a girlfriend if no one knows she wants a girlfriend?

    • @[email protected]
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      12 years ago

      Getting to know someone as a friend and if it seems like there might be more there, and some trust, share and see how things go? Broadcasting it doesn’t sound like it’s going well, as it sounds like that information is getting to a lot of people who shouldn’t be trusted with any personal information, because they’ll use it against her. Although it sounds like the genie is already out of the bottle, continuing to make a a focal point vs letting it just be some known thing people aren’t thinking about so much, could still go along way.

      13 year olds are generally awful when it comes to making fun of someone’s vulnerability. I think that’s where a lot of defense mechanisms are born. I used invisibility, for better or worse. Hopefully whatever she finds is a healthy way to process it and deal with it.

      • Flying Squid
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        12 years ago

        I thought you said kids had to be LGBT in order to be accepted. What you’re saying now sounds like the opposite.