• Omegamint [comrade/them, doe/deer]
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    4210 months ago

    I literally did both? I still hold records at my school but also would spend all of my free time at home in a computer. Sports by itself is not going to change what you do in your free time at home

        • RyanGosling [none/use name]OP
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          110 months ago

          Considering that I’m abnormal, depressed, lazy, alone, and hate everything and everyone, I don’t see how I’m any less evil.

            • RyanGosling [none/use name]OP
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              110 months ago

              Yeah but I honestly don’t care about any of that beyond the abstract because I’ve gone through life without experiencing basic, normal milestones a person should.

              • ashinadash [she/her]
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                210 months ago

                gone through life without experiencing basic, normal milestones a person should.

                Almost all queer and neurodiverse people can relate

      • blame [they/them]
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        4010 months ago

        You can change things you dont like about your life as an adult. Not everything of course we still have to pay rent and eat and shit (on the landlords doorstep). But if you were a weird teenager you dont have to be a weird adult. You can go to the gym and therapy and get a girlfriend or a boyfriend or a gundam.

        • HexBeara [none/use name]
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          1010 months ago

          I think I understand a little. Like the muscle memory would’ve already been instilled and gains already made, knowledge already had. I didn’t do sports besides recess or p.e. but that was only because I never had transportation (and had a mother who was struggling to deal with it all and her traumas). Would’ve been great. Now my gains are only for the swoletariat.

          • blame [they/them]
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            510 months ago

            i dont think thats necessarily true, i did sports growing up as a kid and was very uncoordinated despite playing competitive sports year round until i was about 16, which is basically when you age out of a lot of youth sports if you’re not good enough to carry on into competitive jr and adult leagues. So that being said my gains are also only for the swoletariat. solidarity

        • Chump [he/him]
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          2810 months ago

          The world is your oyster. Get a girlfriend, a boyfriend, AND a gundam.