• UlyssesT [he/him]OP
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      167 months ago

      If it wasn’t for his obscene wealth he’d be just another incel screaming into the void.

      You are so very right there.

      My chuddiest biological relative is basically exactly him but with less money. It’s a miracle he isn’t divorced yet, considering he’s already cheated on his wife many times over and he makes SV “jokes” about his own daughters.

      • Belly_Beanis [he/him]
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        67 months ago

        SV “jokes” about his own daughters.

        Shit like that is a red flag. You’re right to put that in quotes because a lot of those “jokes” aren’t jokes. It’s hard to approach the subject with children. You want to get them away from that situation but directly asking if their father is abusing them can backfire if it isn’t done at exactly the right time.

        • UlyssesT [he/him]OP
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          37 months ago

          You want to get them away from that situation but directly asking if their father is abusing them can backfire if it isn’t done at exactly the right time.

          I haven’t seen any immediately visible injury marks on their hands or wrists or necks, but I was anxious about that and expressed my concerns with his wife. The fact that he sometimes raised his hand in anger in a “want to hit them” motion but didn’t because “he just felt that way” even without landing the blow when they did something as rage inducing as… not getting their seat belts on fast enough… made me feel a little sick inside too.

      • SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]
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        117 months ago

        My chuddiest biological relative is basically exactly him but with less money. It’s a miracle he isn’t divorced yet, considering he’s already cheated on his wife many times over and he makes SV “jokes” about his own daughters.

        I have a chud uncle that cheated on my aunt too, these people are pigs.

        • UlyssesT [he/him]OP
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          7 months ago

          The most bewildering part about that is that the chud I mentioned called me to brag about it while his mistress was giggling, high as a kite, in the background where I could hear her.

          He lost his shit when I immediately told his wife, whined that he was “betrayed” and even accused me of sleeping around with his wife. grill-broke

          • Gay_Tomato [they/them, it/its]
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            97 months ago

            So the only reason he could concieve of that you would care about his wife more then him is that you must also be “getting something out of it?” undyne-disgust

            • UlyssesT [he/him]OP
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              97 months ago

              Pretty much, yeah. He was one of those “all social interactions are transactions” creeps. One of the biggest mistakes I ever made with him was asking for money for a medical surgery, which he held over me constantly as an asshole flex.