@[email protected] to [email protected]English • 6 months agoIt's your first date and she/he asks what type of music you like. What's the guilty pleasure you won't tell her/him about?message-square119fedilinkarrow-up180
arrow-up180message-squareIt's your first date and she/he asks what type of music you like. What's the guilty pleasure you won't tell her/him about?@[email protected] to [email protected]English • 6 months agomessage-square119fedilink
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink65•edit-26 months agoWhy isn’t it just common practice to just use “they” instead the entirely cumbersome “he/her”? Like it’s just so much easier to type out and say, and it’s just better to use regardless.
minus-squareEvkob (they/them)linkfedilink18•6 months agoNot only is it more readable and aesthetically-pleasing, singular “they” is more inclusive of people outside the gender binary!
minus-square@[email protected]OPlinkfedilink7•6 months agoLove how the top comment doesn’t even answer the question. But TIL, I guess. If I had known this option existed, I probably would have used it. I’m going to play the “not a native english speaker”-card on this one.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink33•6 months agoThe fun part is that you’ll have people complaining about it either way!
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink32•6 months agoYea, but the people who complain about “they” are assholes so we can safely ignore them.
minus-squaresnooggumslinkfedilinkEnglish11•edit-26 months agoI am offended by your use of ‘people’, that excludes folk and kin! Rawr!
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish1•6 months agoI was taught this very aggressively in school, but it turns out that it’s just not true and there’s a long history of singular they.
minus-squareAlinorlinkfedilink40•6 months agoIt doesn’t though. They has been used for singular without knowing the gender for a long time.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink15•6 months agoLike at least since English has been a language.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink21•6 months agoMy friend forgot their umbrella at the office. They nervously answered the phone. They’re a lazy motherfucker. I gave my friend a hug and wished them a speedy recovery. Any of those sound unusual, or like they’re referring to more than one person?
minus-squareEvkob (they/them)linkfedilink29•6 months agoSingular “they” actually predates singular “you”.
Why isn’t it just common practice to just use “they” instead the entirely cumbersome “he/her”?
Like it’s just so much easier to type out and say, and it’s just better to use regardless.
Not only is it more readable and aesthetically-pleasing, singular “they” is more inclusive of people outside the gender binary!
Love how the top comment doesn’t even answer the question. But TIL, I guess. If I had known this option existed, I probably would have used it. I’m going to play the “not a native english speaker”-card on this one.
The fun part is that you’ll have people complaining about it either way!
Yea, but the people who complain about “they” are assholes so we can safely ignore them.
I am offended by your use of ‘people’, that excludes folk and kin!
Rawr!
You were not appreciated in your time.
Because “they” refers to multiple people?
I was taught this very aggressively in school, but it turns out that it’s just not true and there’s a long history of singular they.
It doesn’t though. They has been used for singular without knowing the gender for a long time.
Like at least since English has been a language.
My friend forgot their umbrella at the office.
They nervously answered the phone.
They’re a lazy motherfucker.
I gave my friend a hug and wished them a speedy recovery.
Any of those sound unusual, or like they’re referring to more than one person?
Singular “they” actually predates singular “you”.