• @[email protected]
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    522 months ago

    I know I should go to therapy but then I feel bad burdening a therapist with things like, “I’m so angry that the only thing that helps me sleep is imagining the entire current administration getting hit by a very localized meteor,” because like, this shit is too big and we all have our coping mechanisms, right? At least mine isn’t substance abuse or self harm.

    • burgersc12
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      112 months ago

      I’ve always wanted to traumatize a therapist by explaining how we live on a planet that is being systematically dismantled piece by piece.

      • @[email protected]
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        32 months ago

        I’ve always wanted to traumatize a therapist by explaining how we live on a planet that is being systematically dismantled piece by piece.

        Most therapists have a good understanding about systemic problems. If they are social workers that is basically all of what social work school is about. So you can’t say anything they haven’t heard.

      • Brave Little Hitachi Wand
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        172 months ago

        Therapists aren’t made of psychic porcelain, they actually go to therapy to process the stuff they deal with.

        • burgersc12
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          72 months ago

          But it fills my heart with joy to imagine it. Never gonna actually try to, I know they could handle it.

    • @[email protected]OP
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      432 months ago

      Oh, I encourage my clients to imagine stuff like that if it helps. Totally valid way to cope.

      • @[email protected]
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        122 months ago

        Are you telling me that, after a breakup, when I imagined my ex and the guy she went back to having horrible things happen to them as a way to fall asleep… I wasn’t being a sociopath?

        • @[email protected]
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          112 months ago

          Told my therapist that I often imagine running my ex over with my car, and he said that as long as I’m not planning on doing that irl that it’s perfectly normal and understandable.