What should I do if I don’t have anything to enjoy and I don’t have a bright future to work for/ wait it?

As an extra note, I started to hate dealing with humans and I don’t have any friends.

  • @[email protected]English
    0•3 months ago

    Goddamn I wish I could. People describe it as pleasurable and then relaxing. But I’ve never been able to do it. It’s like either the nerve endings aren’t hooked up right or there is some sort of brain defect, but I lack the ability for pleasure there, myself.

    Sorry, I’m not the OP.

    • Rhynoplaz
      1•3 months ago

      I’m almost afraid to ask, but are you sure you’re doing it right?

      • @[email protected]English
        0•3 months ago

        I’ve tried various different areas. If there is some sort of secret technique that everyone just magically knows, I could never figure it out.

              • @[email protected]English
                1•3 months ago

                I mean…I’m old enough and have tried on and off for years at this point that that advice isn’t particularly helpful. Maybe if I was in my teens or twenties, sure. But people say things like “oh you’re just a late bloomer” or “oh you’ll just figure it out, it comes naturally” have never been all that helpful to me.

        • Rhynoplaz
          1•3 months ago

          Without much else to go off of, the best all purpose advice I can give is: lubrication. Best wishes to you!