I genuinely feel like no matter what I do, psychopaths can always pretty much immediately defect me as the perfect victim.

I think it’s partly because I’m ugly, partly because I’m sensitive, and they can just tell I’m a weak person.

It’s making my life a living hell, no matter how hard I try I just can’t blend it, I can’t force myself to act a certain way, it’s exhausting to me

Help…

  • @[email protected]OP
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    03 months ago

    Idk. Like, interpersonal psychopaths don’t scare me as much cause I can always just ghost them for the most part.

    My issue is with workplace ones (cause it’s hard to find a good job) and also with the ones in my apartment complex. There’s no effing way it can be dealt with I’m just screwed.

    • Lady Butterfly
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      03 months ago

      Workplace ones are awful, there’s loads of research showing bullies often go into management. Best way I’ve found to manage it is not to tell anyone I work with anything about me so they have nothing to use against me.

      Have you got much support in your life? If you’re missing a dad’s support you can find it at [email protected] it’s great and supportive dad posters.

        • Lady Butterfly
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          23 months ago

          I hear you. Counselling can really help, it helps you take control of your own life and reduce the amount of problems you have.