• Vodulas [they/them]
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    523 hours ago

    Join a hiking group/club, and don’t do it with the express intent of dating. I’m not saying don’t hope, but don’t because you enjoy the activity

    • Dark Arc
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      13 hours ago

      I haven’t seen any good hiking groups in my area. The ones that exist on meetup.com are mostly “people with grey hairs” … and there’s nothing wrong with that other than I just turned 30 last month.

      It’s been that way throughout my twenties.

      I’d joined a “young professionals” group and was starting to meet some people that way but … it ended up dying out over the pandemic.

      • Vodulas [they/them]
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        112 hours ago

        Is there an outfitter like REI in your city? They often have classes and clubs as well. You could also try something new. Maybe since you like video games, give board or tabletop games a try and go to a local game shop for a game night.