I’m looking for a new instance since lemm.ee is closing by the end of the month. What’s a good instance to be on these days?

I’m looking for a instance with the fewest trolls, bots, and anyone that likes to take things to the extremes.

  • @[email protected]
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    20 days ago

    Problem isn’t so much defederation policy in and of itself, as much as it is just the general level-headedness of the admins

    Lemm.ee’s lead admin had exactly the type of philosophy towards managing this platform that I want to see in wherever I go next.

    This post alone is what convinced me to create a primary account there. It’s professional, level-headed, nuanced, well spoken, and you can tell they’ve actually thought a lot about the big picture in an unbiased way. Not aggressive, preachy, standoffish, snarky, snobbish, and above all, not reactionary. Seeing the instance as infrastructure is what I want to see more of, but I also just want to see admins with this attitude overall.

    • db0
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      1420 days ago

      Unfortunately that philosophy led them to close down their instance due to burnout, so maybe it’s not exactly a winning one 😅

      • @[email protected]
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        319 days ago

        I beg you, please take care of yourself if it’s needed, take time off, relax, get help from others. I think you have a philosophy to not take money out of the donations, but speaking as one of the contributors, I think that’s unfair considering the amount of work you put in.

        What I’m saying is just do what it takes to not let it lead to burnout. I don’t think anyone that understands the value of this instance would mind.

        • db0
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          919 days ago

          I’m not close to burnout but thanks for the concern. I don’t run my instance like lemm.ee does for a reason ;)

    • hendrik
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      320 days ago

      Fingers crossed, but we also know Lemmy might not be ready for that type of philosophy. I mean I still don’t know what exactly happened, but lemm.ee wasn’t successful in the end. And the underlying issues are still there. So the next admin team might face the same dynamics.

    • @[email protected]
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      519 days ago

      Seeing the instance as infrastructure is what I want to see more of

      Yes, exactly! A good manager to me is the one that is just focused on solving the problems that are on the way of the rest of the team.