• @[email protected]
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    155 days ago

    I’m a man and I need a bro to explain me

    why are men attracted to younger women?

    I’m interested in women my age ± like 5 years ish.

    when I was a teen I was into teens, in my 20s I was into girls in their 20s…

    the idea of dating a 20 years old as a 36 year old man seems gross and annoying.

    • @[email protected]
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      105 days ago

      Because they don’t want to date (i. e. have some kind of personal engagement), they want to play nut and bolt.

      • @[email protected]
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        25 days ago

        i get that, I also want hook-ups, but I don’t see the attraction of someone 18 years younger than me.

        • @[email protected]
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          85 days ago

          I mean, people in their 20s are incredibly un-chill and very not sure who they are. Dating someone like that sounds kinda awful.

          I am on your team with this.

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      5 days ago

      So many mid responses to this question, so here is the actual answer.

      Men are raised to be more overtly sexual and have the most income (yes yes… my culture, my country, not worldwide, stfu we all know…) , because of this advertising has been focused on men while bombarding us with their image of perfect feminine beauty (which tends to be youthful qualities) to get us to focus on their products, seeing this your entire life you adopt that framework of what beauty is.

      Ultimately though its because the majority of the world are NPC’s following a script.

    • @[email protected]
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      25 days ago

      Purely physically speaking, pretty much everyone gets less attractive as they get older.

      There is, of course, a maturity gap, which is a whole different problem.

        • @[email protected]
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          25 days ago

          Apart from obvious attractiveness in younger adults, I’d probably chalk it up to societal norms (and maybe there’s an evolutionary component to it as well) for males’ perceived value on being the bread winner.

          So dating younger is how you ensure they are dependent on you, and thus fulfill your purpose as a man.

            • Guy Ingonito
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              34 days ago

              There’s absolutely a ton of men out there who are looking to trap a young woman into marriage. I’d say that’s the biggest risk of an big age gap relationship for a woman.

                • Guy Ingonito
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                  24 days ago

                  It is legal and they do so long as you’re a Christian and get the parents to agree.

                  • @[email protected]
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                    14 days ago

                    it’s insane how it’s (sadly almost) universally accepted that pedos are the scum of the earth, yet somehow as a national, that’s allowed.