I’m fully aware that only I myself can decide whether or not I’m bi, and I know I probably will eventually, but I recently broke up with my girlfriend because I realized her gender wasn’t that attractive to me, and I wanted a boyfriend. Not a girlfriend. Men, I definitely prefer, and they’re more attractive to me.
I thought she was attractive to me, but I view her as more of a sister or friend, which we are now (friends). Can someone help me out, please? I don’t want to claim to be something if I’m not, but I’ll still be an ally if it turns out I’m straight. (I’m a nonbinary genderfluid person so I’ll still be LGBT).
Labels are for soup cans. Don’t stress too much about it, just go with what feels comfortable to you.
Very much with this. You are you. And that’s it. If the person you build a relationship with gives, shares & cares as you do then you’re onto a winner. That’s what’s important.
Also don’t fret if what is right for you feels like it is changing or if you are realizing different things about yourself. That’s what is important: learning more about yourself and what makes you happy.
Let the label stay on the soup can