I can’t even imagine how shitty online dating has gotten since I found someone and got married. And the “touch grass” alternatives (including the memetastic “go to le bar”) sound horrible in their own ways for single people.
yeah, Im struggling to make friends personally. I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there. i think i need a hobby like roller derby. I hear roller derby is mostly queer women and enbys. but i gotta get in shape, and buy roller skates. theres one near me that is proudly trans inclusive and they need people.
I can’t even imagine how shitty online dating has gotten since I found someone and got married. And the “touch grass” alternatives (including the memetastic “go to le bar”) sound horrible in their own ways for single people.
yeah, Im struggling to make friends personally. I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there. i think i need a hobby like roller derby. I hear roller derby is mostly queer women and enbys. but i gotta get in shape, and buy roller skates. theres one near me that is proudly trans inclusive and they need people.
That is such a real mood and it’s haunted me for decades without putting it to such words.
haha glad I could help