Your skin is too thin. Words are words. You choose to get provoked by me just like you’ve obsessively spent the day subjecting by yourself to me. Your apparent tormentor.
Here is the issue, you want me to engage you in good faith but I don’t want to engage you. It takes seconds to write a troll reply but seriously ask yourself if the amount of time you’ve dedicated to this couldn’t have been spent better somewhere else. You really need to learn to let things go. This reply and the one previous have been the most time I’ve spent dedicated to this conversation. Can you really say the same? You’ve been stewing about it for hours. Don’t you have something else to spend your time doing other then subjecting yourself to misery?
I suggest a hobby. I’ve been making videos recently. Helps me stay balanced and keep me from getting too upset about stuff. My therapist recommended to me and I gotta say I agree with her advice. It’s nice to put your energy into those kind of activities instead of trying to convince people you hate to try to see things your way. You aren’t going to win everyone over and not everyone is going to play by the rules. It doesn’t matter how smart you are. Someone always gets under your skin eventually and sometimes that’s just the way it is. We aren’t ever going to see eye to eye unfortunately but at some point is all of this energy worth trying to win me over?
This is the internet. People are mean sometimes. Deal with it. Goodnight sir.
You keep saying I want you to engage in good faith, I do. And you reply you don’t want to engage.
That’s fine. Not engaging at all is perfectly valid.
The issue here, and the one I’m trying to get you to see, is that you keep picking the third option:
To try and get at me.
Now, if I couldn’t take that, I should walk away. But I can, so the far more productive option is have you learn to choose to stop, or at least start you on your way. Then, maybe someone who can’t take it, won’t have to.
Of course people are mean sometimes! You think I’m vehement because my skin is thin, but I can do this precisely because it isn’t. I can engage with people who would drive others to kill themselves.
If my hobby of trying to kill trolls with kindness wherever I find them gets to even a fraction of them… Why stop?
What is there to see eye to eye on? Are you trying to claim that your behavior was perfectly reasonable, and not worth improving? It doesn’t matter what we were arguing about, the moment you turned mean, my goal became to make you see that you should do better.
Nope. I’m not doing shit for you. If I want to be better it’s because I made that decision. I’m not letting some basement dwelling neckbeard who can’t let something go try to convince me that he is the reasonable one.
You’re an absolute unhinged lunatic. You need mental health aid. The difference between us is that I’ve already got it.
And back to strawmans, too, you were able to maintain the facade of kindness for what… Three comments?
You’re literally proving me right. Doubling down on the behaviour I’m trying to get you to acknowledge and improve isn’t exactly making me look like the crazy one.
Now your offer to help just looks like a feint, a pretend reaction in the most extreme way you could think of, in order to faze me.
Rejecting truth because it was spoken by a peasant and not a King, isn’t wisdom.
My core message here is that you turned mean when you didn’t have to, can you honestly claim I’m wrong?
Then again, mentally diagnosing someone over Lemmy isn’t something an honest person would do… I can only assume that you’ve come to equate persistence with crazy.
The only reason someone would openly admit to refusing to read the words of another while actively provoking more, is to be mean.
The solution is simple, either end the matter properly, or engage in good faith.
Instead you tried to use words as a weapon of pain, not logic. You should be ashamed.
Your skin is too thin. Words are words. You choose to get provoked by me just like you’ve obsessively spent the day subjecting by yourself to me. Your apparent tormentor.
Here is the issue, you want me to engage you in good faith but I don’t want to engage you. It takes seconds to write a troll reply but seriously ask yourself if the amount of time you’ve dedicated to this couldn’t have been spent better somewhere else. You really need to learn to let things go. This reply and the one previous have been the most time I’ve spent dedicated to this conversation. Can you really say the same? You’ve been stewing about it for hours. Don’t you have something else to spend your time doing other then subjecting yourself to misery?
I suggest a hobby. I’ve been making videos recently. Helps me stay balanced and keep me from getting too upset about stuff. My therapist recommended to me and I gotta say I agree with her advice. It’s nice to put your energy into those kind of activities instead of trying to convince people you hate to try to see things your way. You aren’t going to win everyone over and not everyone is going to play by the rules. It doesn’t matter how smart you are. Someone always gets under your skin eventually and sometimes that’s just the way it is. We aren’t ever going to see eye to eye unfortunately but at some point is all of this energy worth trying to win me over?
This is the internet. People are mean sometimes. Deal with it. Goodnight sir.
You keep saying I want you to engage in good faith, I do. And you reply you don’t want to engage.
That’s fine. Not engaging at all is perfectly valid.
The issue here, and the one I’m trying to get you to see, is that you keep picking the third option:
To try and get at me.
Now, if I couldn’t take that, I should walk away. But I can, so the far more productive option is have you learn to choose to stop, or at least start you on your way. Then, maybe someone who can’t take it, won’t have to.
Of course people are mean sometimes! You think I’m vehement because my skin is thin, but I can do this precisely because it isn’t. I can engage with people who would drive others to kill themselves.
If my hobby of trying to kill trolls with kindness wherever I find them gets to even a fraction of them… Why stop?
What is there to see eye to eye on? Are you trying to claim that your behavior was perfectly reasonable, and not worth improving? It doesn’t matter what we were arguing about, the moment you turned mean, my goal became to make you see that you should do better.
Nope. I’m not doing shit for you. If I want to be better it’s because I made that decision. I’m not letting some basement dwelling neckbeard who can’t let something go try to convince me that he is the reasonable one.
You’re an absolute unhinged lunatic. You need mental health aid. The difference between us is that I’ve already got it.
And back to strawmans, too, you were able to maintain the facade of kindness for what… Three comments?
You’re literally proving me right. Doubling down on the behaviour I’m trying to get you to acknowledge and improve isn’t exactly making me look like the crazy one.
Now your offer to help just looks like a feint, a pretend reaction in the most extreme way you could think of, in order to faze me.
Rejecting truth because it was spoken by a peasant and not a King, isn’t wisdom.
My core message here is that you turned mean when you didn’t have to, can you honestly claim I’m wrong?
Then again, mentally diagnosing someone over Lemmy isn’t something an honest person would do… I can only assume that you’ve come to equate persistence with crazy.