• @[email protected]
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        You’re not alone, I’m the same way, albeit a bit more open to somewhat masculine traits (my attraction extends to twinks or sufficiently effeminate men). This made it hard to understand if I was bi or something else, but eventually I concluded that the words we choose to use are inherently imprecise because we create them to represent definite categories that only approximate reality.

        My attraction to all women, some men, and trans women with and without bottom surgery I guess makes me approximately bi.

    • @[email protected]
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      42 years ago

      Non-op is totally a thing. There are downsides to bottom surgery, and not all transfolk want it.

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        22 years ago

        I know. Also top surgery. I don’t think surgery should be forced on anyone who doesn’t want it. If they do want it it’s a different matter of course