Completely understandable problem, same for me where I have managed to move some smaller part of my community to xmpp but most would want to move to matrix.
With the way things are in my communitty I will prob just selfhost matrix server just to see how it goes.
Cause discord is stupid af, move to xmpp/irc/matrix.
The thing though is, that the communities I’m in don’t just move.
Completely understandable problem, same for me where I have managed to move some smaller part of my community to xmpp but most would want to move to matrix.
With the way things are in my communitty I will prob just selfhost matrix server just to see how it goes.