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  • bigboopballs [he/him]
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    71 year ago

    Apps and bars are a no go for me. And in a more rural area that’s all there is.

    I’m too mentally ill and introverted for bars and I have even less idea how I’m supposed to begin talking to someone on an app (and matches are rare + women expect to not have to do anything and for me to do all the work anyways).

    Even in my city of 100,000 people, apps and bars are all there is agony-deep

    • kristina [she/her]M
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      1 year ago

      when i was dating i loved being the initiator, women in general are missing out i think, it makes dating so much easier.

      • bigboopballs [he/him]
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        31 year ago

        when i was dating i loved being the initiator, women in general are missing out i think, it makes dating so much easier.

        that’s great. I wish women wanted to initiate @ me. but I am undesirable due to being a loser by society’s standards

        • kristina [she/her]M
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          31 year ago

          There are some apps that encourage it, but yeah a lot of apps and stuff seem really bad and corporatized now