• Tankiedesantski [he/him]
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    191 year ago

    solidifies the role of the patriarch, who probably wont be cooking because cooking is gay or whatever

    Fellas, is it gay to be able to feed yourself?

    I really don’t get it. Chefs are masculine coded, wilderness survival guys cooking meat is masculine coded. Even grilling is masculine coded. But do any of that shit in a home kitchen and suddenly it’s gay or girly or whatever.

    • EllenKelly [comrade/them]
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      121 year ago

      a chef is a professional, a homecook is a hobby artist, some background work that that goes unnoticed and doesn’t come with the glory of showing the outside world the mastery of your craft (like mowing the lawn am I rite fellas?)

      I’m being sarcastic btw for the most part, but i’ve met guys who unconsciously act like this