I thought she just didn’t want to do sex stuff or cuddle or show affection…

Anyway I just thought it was important to let the world know that you can be volcel army and still be in a committed ten year relationship. In fact isn’t that what true comradeship is built on?

Weapons grade cope aside, I think I’m one of those weird types of humans who needs affection and so on. Am I really going to have to start dating again? FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK

  • Kuori [she/her]English
    10•1 year ago

    i’m actually in a nearly-identical situation, including the “nearly 10 years” bit. it’s…difficult, particularly if you’re the sort of person who, as you said, doesn’t want something unless it’s enthusiastically offered.

    i don’t really have any useful advice, unfortunately, but i just wanted you to know you’re not alone. i hope you can strike a balance that works for you both.

    • JustSo [she/her, any]OPEnglish
      7•1 year ago

      I really appreciate the supportive words. It does help. I’m sure we’ll figure it out eventually.

      I hope your situation develops for the better too.