I have noticed that I interact a lot more in Lemmy than I ever did in any social media. Let it be Reddit, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter… I am used to be the lurker, but here for some reason things are different. Wonder if more people feel like I do.

  • LCP
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    22 years ago

    Definitely posting more than I used to on Reddit.

    I’m currently the most active on Lemmy, followed by Mastodon, Tildes and Hacker News.

  • @[email protected]
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    22 years ago

    Significantly more here. I never really liked Reddit, but a couple of my hobbies had communities there so I felt like I had to use it. I stayed away from anything that wasn’t a niche personal interest and avoided the bigger subreddits and front page. Here I check out the front page frequently and am pretty generous with upvotes. It feels more like an investment in a community I want to be successful, and not like there’s anything intrinsic to Lemmy that encourages it.

  • @[email protected]
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    2 years ago

    I was quite active. But less and less as time goes on, sadly.

    The content is drying up, the only really active communities are either tech or political, and my main interests either never left reddit or have a home elsewhere. The nail in the coffin for me will be when my instance dies, which is looking increasingly likely given that the admin is AWOL.

    It’s ok here, but it’s too fragmented to be a full replacement for anything else.

  • @[email protected]
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    162 years ago

    You want an honest answer?
    No. No I don’t.

    I comment and share links at about the same rate as I did when I was primarily on Reddit. I’m less interested in Reddit these days and probably split my time 50-50. I’m pissed at what they did and continue to do, and the quality of the content has clearly taken a hit across the broader Reddit community but it’s still SO MUCH BIGGER than the entire fediverse that there is hundreds if not thousands of times the people and content.

    I’ve tried to get a couple of groups off the ground, but I’m just not that guy and wasn’t on Reddit either.

    I am not commenting on Reddit much anymore tho, due to the aforementioned behavior by Spez et al.

    • @[email protected]
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      72 years ago

      that’s honest.

      i miss reddit, too. been 3.5 months since leaving and i used to spend 12 hours or more at a time scrolling and reading. it was like a good friend or partner.

      but i really NEVER posted there. and i do here, sometimes.

    • Rentlar
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      32 years ago

      Hey, thanks for being honest about it.

      You’re right, the sheer size of Reddit means it’s hard to deny that the variety of discussion topics is much greater than on Lemmy. The decentralized servers model also means it’s slightly more difficult to find and grow small communities.

      What I like though is that in general, posters on Lemmy, even the ones that repost old memes from elsewhere, try to genuinely engage with other commentors.

  • @[email protected]
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    52 years ago

    Definitely, there are less posts here that I feel if I comment its just going to end up going south - especially if I have a differing opinion. Which isn’t to say that doesn’t happen here on Lemmy, there are certainly topics where if you go against the grain, the exact same thing will happen (some of those topics make sense and are worth “fighting” for, others not so much).

  • @[email protected]
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    62 years ago

    I comment far far less here than on Reddit. Reddit was much much better at showing communities I actually cared about and sprinkled in cat pics or memes. And most posts already had a little bit of engagement.

    Lemmy’s just throws garbage new posts at you with no comments, no interactions, and it was posted 30 seconds ago. It also groups together posts when someone crossposts something to 30 other communities so you just get a block of 5 posts of the same thing.

    As it’s matured more I think it’s gotten better, but it’s not good.

  • JWBananas
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    62 years ago

    No, but the replies are often more strongly charged.

  • @[email protected]
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    62 years ago

    Yes, even though a lot of my opinions are considered controversial here. On Reddit, unless you sort by newest posts, you’re going to get buried in the comments section.

  • Xusontha
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    122 years ago

    Yes, definitely by a huge margin

    Partially because I feel like people will actually notice, partially because I feel more a part of a community due to the smaller size and seeing the same people multiple times

  • @[email protected]
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    182 years ago

    Lemmy feels very different to me as well. People seem more mature, skeptical, genuinely left-leaning, interested in discussion, and the moderation isn’t totalitarian. Plus Reddit really seemed like it was controlled by moderators with an agenda. I’m not a flagrant asshole (I think), yet I was banned from a few subreddits for not following seemingly arbitrary rules. For example, I was banned from my city’s subreddit for making a post asking a question that wasn’t directly about the city, it was more about the state’s culture/history. I just wanted to know what my neighbors thought. Apparently someone decided that wasn’t what the subreddit was for.

    • @[email protected]
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      52 years ago

      I also have found the discussions more mature, usually, even in some cases where the other person is to my right or left on the political spectrum (I am in the progressive / social democrat range). Of course there are always some that post in bad faith but it seems like the ratio of those to others is lower here, thankfully.

    • @[email protected]
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      82 years ago

      People seem more mature, skeptical, genuinely left-leaning, interested in discussion, and the moderation isn’t totalitarian.

      You’ve finally found the right echo chamber for you!

      Kidding, kidding. But really, I don’t find people on Lemmy that much more mature or skeptical than Reddit, and I’ve had fewer productive discussions (though those have also been rare on Reddit for several years now). It’s definitely more left-leaning, though.

      Moderation seems more friendly, though, I agree with that.

      • @[email protected]
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        42 years ago

        You’ve finally found the right echo chamber for you!

        It’s been a very, very long search, lol