Hello lemmies,

Yesterday was a bit of a shocking moment for me as my dentists told me I need to get braces to fix the alignment of some of my teeth. For context; as a young kid (11years)I broke my four front teeth, and had them replaced with fake ones (i believe they are known as veneers in English). They are now slowly falling off, as I have had them for a while (I am now 24). But before they can put on new ones, they want me to straighten out the positioning of the current ones, with braces.

Obviously this is the right choice, but I’ve always hated the thought of getting braces, especially this year as I will soon be starting work life and meeting new people.

Was therefore wondering what experiences people have with braces, especially if you had it as an adult / young adult. Anything I should know for upfront?

  • Vanth
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    31 year ago

    Obviously this is the right choice

    Is it? It’s ok to get a second opinion from other dentists.

    If their current position isn’t causing you pain or tooth/jaw wear problems, then straightening them is a cosmetic decision. And if you didn’t even realize they were that crooked until the dentist suggested straightening them, then the cosmetic aspect hasn’t been bothering you.

    In my country (US), dentistry is notorious for upselling unnecessary cosmetic procedures.

    For example, I went to a new dentist and he found two “developing” cavities he wanted to proactively drill out and fill and a “flaw in the enamel” he could fix with a veneer. I thought that was weird since I have never had a cavity before in my life and the “enamel flaw” was cosmetic only and never bothered me. I went to another dentist for a second opinion and she told me my teeth were fine. 5 years later and those “developing” cavities never formed.

    • @[email protected]
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      21 year ago

      Yeah, I had to switch dentists because of a move, and my current dentist won’t stop recommending me braces.

      “It’s not just cosmetic. It will help the functionality and longevity of your teeth.” I mean, my teeth aren’t absolutely perfect, but they function and look fine to me. I have only ever had one other dentist mention that as a suggestion forever ago when I was a kid, and they didn’t keep harping in about it.

      It makes me super suspicious about it because the last dentist I had never mentioned a thing about braces, and my current one keeps bringing it up unprompted. My current one also tried to sell me a $300 toothbrush.

      Get a second opinion.

      • @[email protected]
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        21 year ago

        Well that’s not wrong though. Misaligned teeth can wear down faster, causing issues down the road. Also it can cause headaches and a bunch of other issues.

        As for the toothbrush, was it the oral b IO? Mine did too, and I reluctantly bought it. The reason is I press too hard when brushing and I was affecting my enamel and gums. My dad and brother both do the same and both had to get gum grafts. The toothbrush notifies you with a light if you press too hard (or too gently), so it helps train me. I’m liking it

  • @[email protected]
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    481 year ago

    Correcting your teeth is something you’ll enjoy the rest of your life. Don’t let your worries about how people will precieve you now impact the rest of your life

    • LunchOP
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      151 year ago

      Thank you, i believe this is the right way to think about it; just difficult to grasp. But you’re absolutely right!

      • Diplomjodler
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        51 year ago

        Yes. Do this. It’ll be unpleasant but you’ll regret it for the rest of your life if you don’t do it.

  • @[email protected]
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    21 year ago

    I’m in the mid 30’s and I have braces for a year now, go for it if you can afford! It will hurt for some days but it’s worth it.

  • @[email protected]
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    71 year ago

    50s and just spent a year in braces after dental surgery the year or so before screwed up my teeth. Now I am in my retainer. In all that time I cannot think of a single person who wasn’t excited for me or at least interested in the fact I was wearing braces to get my teeth aligned.

    • @[email protected]
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      31 year ago

      Same! And it turns out like a dozen coworkers have Invisalign too, just never noticed till I got it.

  • Bizarroland
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    51 year ago

    I got some knockoff Invisalign from smile direct club, I wouldn’t recommend them because they’re undergoing a chapter 13 realignment or something but before 1850 bucks they did the job.

    I have a much better smile, I don’t hide half of my teeth when I’m smiling, honestly it was one of the better decisions I’ve made.

    I’m sure there’s some other company out there that can do just as good of a job, but ask your doctor if you’re a good candidate for Invisalign and if you are then go for it.

  • Lvxferre
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    111 year ago

    I’ve seen even people in their 40s using them. I don’t think that it’s a big deal, or that it’s too late for that.

  • @[email protected]
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    21 year ago

    My wife did the Invisalign thing in her early 40s. Worked great! Nobody even knew she was wearing them. She’s much happier with her smile now and everyone benefits from even a small daily confidence boost. Expensive, but money well spent imo.

  • @[email protected]
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    81 year ago

    I had braces in my early 20s. Its not a big deal. Just be ready for it to feel like youve been hit in the face with a train.

  • @[email protected]
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    121 year ago

    I’m 43 and am doing Invisalign as we speak.

    I had braces in my teens but my orthodontist was an escaped nazi scientist who reveled in cruelty. I completed the course, but it gave me a phobia of dental work so I kinda… avoided dentists after.

    Long story short: Invisalign and modern orthodontics is a world away from the 90s. No more mallets to hammer bands into teeth, no more night braces, etc. 3d models, computer aided treatment, it’s all like magic.

    Do it, you’ll be happy you did. If you want more deets hit me up

    • edric
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      21 year ago

      My wife wants to try invisalign and we’re in our late 30s. She just wants to straighten her upper front teeth (slight overbite). Did your orthodontist say anything about expectations for adults and if there’s any difference?

      • @[email protected]
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        51 year ago

        Nope no difference! Other than adults can be more trusted to wear them (some kids take them out and don’t put em back in so generally kids get normal braces). He figures if an adult pays and doesn’t wear them, not his problem.

  • @[email protected]
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    121 year ago

    I had them as an adult. They were annoying but worth it once they were removed.

    No one made a big deal about them. They could make my teeth sore when I first got them or had anything adjusted, but again - more of a minor annoyance than outright pain. Nothing to be afraid of and I’m glad I did it now.

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    1 year ago

    I’m just going to comment on work life - the truth is, the older I get the less I care about things like appearance. Depends on the profession of course but for f.e. office work - people don’t care. Especially not if it’s for medicall purpose (they could even have a problem with HR). I meam look at the older colleagues, they themselves look like shit, they don’t care.

    But I remember my mid 20s and I was exactly the same, now I look back and it’s a bit funny. It’l be good, go for the braces :)

  • @[email protected]
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    There’s low level constant pain that’s not easily comparable to anything else, which gets worse the day after any adjustments are done. And make sure you get a retainer you can wear each night.

    My mistake was not asking for an alternative retainer, and grinding teeth at night kept breaking my retainers until it got too expensive to keep getting new ones. Now I’ll have to get braces or Invisalign or something to redo the straightening.

    Good news is, I can still eat better than I could before I got braces.

    In other news, seeing the Ear, Nose, and Throat specialist about my sinuses ended up curing the grinding along with mouth breathing and swollen sinuses.

  • @[email protected]
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    81 year ago

    Don’t be put off by the initial discomfort. It’ll feel weird at first.

    Periodic tightenings are also slightly painful, but if you’re a weirdo like me then you’ll actually come to enjoy the feeling when it happens.

  • @[email protected]
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    61 year ago

    Braces on adults are common enough that most people don’t care. There are options like Invisalign, ceramic or clear braces, and lingual braces (brackets behind the teeth) that you can ask about. If you work somewhere with a strict dress code you might want to stick to clear and white colored rubber bands, too. Though outside of that, people still won’t care and colored rubber bands are cute.