To me it feels like a matured Reddit. (At least most of the time 🙃)
I never had a reddit account so I used it’s implosion as a push off to set me free from 4chan but also not going to that overly policed place.
I think Lemmy is a nice middle ground.
Small, fun community. Excellent shitposting experience. 7/10
Personally, I find the people here very elitist and unwelcoming, and I have found myself spending less and less time here because of it.
Interesting, really? Maybe I just don’t engage with people that much, but it seems pretty chill or at least definitely no worse than Reddit in that regard
Have you not seen the Linux fanboys on Lemmy? I see a post every day at least about how Windows is terrible or how x browser is inferior to Firefox.
Mmm, well yes the Linux bias is pretty strong but I don’t really like windows either hahaha. I see where you’re coming from though, that could be a little off putting if you aren’t at least a little into Linux
It definitely depends on the community. I’m mostly noticing it in the meme communities. A high percentage of jokes in the memes that I see are at the expense of a group that I am a part of, and I guess I just don’t really relate to the people here. So I just don’t come back very often.
That could explain the difference in experiences. I filter out those communities as best I can given the tools available.
Yeah, it’s really horrible. Never experienced this level of hostile, argumentative know-it-alls anywhere else.
I have to assume half of Lemmy is people banned from reddit for being like this. Im worried they’re slowly scaring away everyone else and its distilling the ecosystem into a toxic pit
Could be worse, at least it’s not Voat, which consisted of ALL people and communities banned from Reddit (and usually for good reason aka racism, sexism, fat people hate)
And argumentative and pointlessly contrarian. Reddit had that problem too, but it seems more ubiquitous here.
It’s a human problem. Only way to avoid it is to not use social media. I’m about to hop off everything it is making me lose hope in my fellow humans seeing some of the comments I see. It’s also baffling how genuinely stupid some people come across, or sometimes it’s clear they just don’t understand what the words they are reading are even conveying.
I like it but tbh I miss the NSFW Gifs/Videos. I also have learned some topics not to talk about. Like Windows/Linux, bashing furries, or anything that is not far left (gender stereotypes, guns, etc.).
I don’t browse enough maybe to find active niche communities. Typically spend most of my time browsing all on top 6 hrs. Else I see the same posts for like 2-3 days.
It’s a change but feels more like… I’m talking to real people instead of guessing who’s a bot.
I’m really happy with it. People here are mostly thoughtful, smart, and post interesting content. Less fighting, less toxicity, no shills in political discussions because it’s not big enough, no corporate astroturfing (the closest we come to that is adderall spam ha ha).
It feels healthier to me than reddit, which I think I had probably been addicted to. Being on Kbin I never have to run out of content because of the “microblogs” section which has Mastodon, and my multireddit style “collections” (like this news one). But I also find it easier to put my phone down.
Also I find it hilarious that although I do still see occasional screeching about US liberals, over here it’s because the poster wants “the libs” to be more left wing not more right wing.
It really is fantastic here. Lot’s of cool people with interesting nuanced perspectives. What I miss are the niche subs with solid activity and conversation.
Like a lot of people, I came here around the API protests at Reddit. Back then Lemmy was filled with “fuck reddit” circlejerking which was made worse by the relative lack of other content. But I have watched this place grow and mature into something I would consider a suitable replacement for the most part. That said, the amount of content here still pales in comparison to Reddit back when I was actually there. As for all the complaints about the culture here, you get what you dont filter and I filter the trash out of my feed.
I wish there was a hide comment function. Other than that, it’s fine.
Fucking A. A hide post function would be great too!
Hell yes. I see posts I want to block,but if I do,I lose a page I enjoy. So I deal with the annoyance just to keep that page. We need hide post badly.
As someone who spent around half my life in IT and half in humanities, there’s a lot less humanities content here than in Reddit or old Twitter. You might not notice it because you might have gravitated towards the IT side of those sites but it’s noticeable here
Yeah, I love Linux, but man, I get it, you use Arch…
I’m only here because of an unjust reddit ban, and I’m very sad to say that I still would prefer reddit to this. The shear scale of reddit means there was always something interesting me through the far more varied and active communities available there. Lemmy is great and all, but I feel way less engaged with anything going on
I was active, and even a recognized name on some subs where I was particularly active, but here, those same communities are either woefully underpopulated and inactive, or just straight up don’t exist. When I need to ask questions or get a wide variety of opinions, or even share a story, I knew reddit had enough activity for me to get at least some traffic. Here, I haven’t even made a post
Sorry, Lemmy, but we’re only together because reddit left. You’re my rebound
Also here cause of an unjust ban (and because of the 3rd party app fiasco). I reported too many blatant advertisements as spam and got kicked out due to “report abuse”. But anyway, this is why I split my time between Lemmy and Imgur now. Imgur is no better than reddit (at least when it comes to 3rd party apps), but at least it helps fill a void.
yeah reddit is just simply too big to failed and with how confusing using lemmy for non tech savy, it makes people feel reluctant to switch
You should make a post, even if you don’t think it’s an amazing post. If you want to see more activity than get involved.
I imagine reddit was this small and niche at one point in time and it only grew because people posted whatever they liked instead of waiting for someone else to do it.
Same here.
same, but got a new account on reddit that didn’t get banned (after first rediculous ban I couldn’t make new accounts without being autobanned) again so I spend more time there now. we shat on reddit a lot at the start but at least we can have actual discussions there that aren’t just calling each other fascists and tankies
How long did you wait until getting a new account? After my ban, I was getting my new accounts autobanned within minutes
I had the same problem and gave up. Then a few months later I built a new PC, and thought I’d give it a go. worked fine and has ever since. I guess they fingerprint your browser maybe, you might be able to try uninstalling and re-installing browser? All just to participate in some hobby subs!
I actually appreciate the slower content on Lemmy. Keeps me from continually scrolling for that dopamine hit.
I like a few of these communities, and I’ve had some nice conversations on some things I’m passionate about. But it seems like the population outside my small communities is dominated by violent wanna-be political activists competing for who can express the most outrageous sentiment.
Advocating against violence against one’s parents in a hypothetical situation where a parent developed the wrong US politics not only got me downvoted, but also replied to by some asshole from Australia who wanted to rub it in that I was clearly in the out-group.
I don’t normally reply when I see things like that, but after seeing so much vitriol I felt the need to leave a comment. I won’t be doing it again.
Same. A bit more mature user base (but not too mature. Poop!, teehee…). Plus I like that it’s generally smaller, and therefore avoids a lot of the negative effects of huge communities.
I was enjoying it, but two things are getting tiring: the lack of social sciences and humanities, and especially the misogynistic ‘tone’ of some users.
As a sociology major who is also a fan of the humanities, I totally agree with you. While I’ve always been much more of a lurker than a regular poster–even while I was on Reddit–it still seems like there isn’t a lot of content here that I feel I can really contribute to or engage with. The most prevalent posts all seem to be tech related or are just doom and gloom stories. It makes this place feel cold and bleak.
And yeah, the casual and even blatant misogyny from some of the users is appalling (I still remember that post about the career fair for women months back that got overrun with angry men).
I really wish there was a bigger psych community here.
It really feels like Reddit circa-2023, particularly the bad ways. Lemmy.world is the worst for that.
I miss the content and niche communities of Reddit. Remember you can still be in both as long as you’d like. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
Edit: I also am sad that big news events like the Superbowl don’t have nice vibrant live threads. Hopefully we have more good content for non Linux peeps.
I just got tired of finding new Microsoft products appear on my taskbar and the looming threat of having to sign into a Microsoft account.
