Edit: LOL love the responses. You ain’t wrong…
Edit2: I posted this for giggles and have enjoyed it immensely. Thanks for the “parenting advice” (rolls eyes). My daughter is a shit show, but I wouldn’t trade her in for anything. She has three daughters, one of which is exactly like her and the two others are not. So…
I’m not like that but sometimes I throw two or three things on top of everything and everything gets clean. My only problem with her organization is it’s not efficient, the machine would hold double the amount of dishes
It’s your fault, accept the shame and teach her.
To the shame corner with them!
Shame 🔔🔔🔔
I wouldn’t put it that bluntly… but yeah. OP you can’t shame your child for not knowing something you should have taught her. Teach her, kindly, explaining why things are done a specific way.
Kindly.
I try to help my gf but she gets insanely annoyed at me
Try explaining it very slowly while raising your eyebrows and carefully enunciating.
Also, bring a Flipchart and Crayons, I’ve found that helps a lot.
But don’t be condescending (that means talking down to people)
“(that means talking down to people)”
Thanks for simplifying that big word condescension for us…🤔
They don’t learn some things, even if you teach them a 100 times.
Then you’re probably teaching wrong.
It’s your fault, time for the late-term abortion
ftfy
Just to be clear it is called a post birth abortion and its really only ethical if they are 10 or less
So like, everybody?
I can’t speak for you, but I’m over 10 years of age.
You can bring a horse to water but can’t make it drink
But don’t whip the horse for not immediately finding the water on its own.
Or drinking it
Okay not sure about this based on on the other responses but…sure why not, so here goes:
“It looks like you already have”.:-P
This comment section is saucier than OP’s dirty dishwasher!
My almost adult son once tried to convince me that dishwashers work better when the dishes aren’t rinsed first.
I watched this video a long time ago which I thought explained this really well. https://youtu.be/_rBO8neWw04
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Sir/maam, you’ve raised a Psychopath.
This thread is full of clearly basement dwelling non parents. So many AKctually it hurts from laughing.
Exactly the people.who should be made to do manual.labor
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Have you considered sitting down with them and savagely beating them?
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That is why you only hit them with an orange in a tubesock on the back and thighs, won’t damage those organs and will show them who is boss; plus you can juice that behavior correction citrus and get some vitamin c after.
We need an Onion episode… Oh wait, here’s one:
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I live in a dry climate and very tightly meter my water usage and running the dishwasher twice uses less water than doing it once by hand unless I am extremely careful and use a single basin of water and a rag to rinse. That takes longer and is extremely annoying to do.
Maybe she never used a dishwasher and has only done dishes manually heretofore?
That’s me. I’ve only lived in one apartment with a dishwasher, and that was only for a year. We just used it as storage for pots and pans. My folks have a dishwasher now, but any time I go visit them I just wash stuff by hand, at least partly because I don’t know how to dishwasher.
Same here. I have no idea what the issue is.
Believe it or not its the opposite for me. I help take care of my elderly parents keep them independent and they both do this. I am compelled to physically take dishes out and rearrange them to reclaim like a second loads worth of wasted space. Some days I’m also tempted to disown them!
She’s from group B. Group A loads correctly. Group B does this stuff on purpose so we in group A will just stop letting them screw this up and they no longer have to load it.
There’s also group C which I was part of, you just say that you just pooped or scratch your butt whenever they ask you to load/unload and they’ll immediately offer to do that for you instead.
No problem the chemicals and heat will fix that
You would get a “wash your hands” from me.
And then group c proceeds to grab the first dish with some flippant saying about it being no big deal. It’s not just weaponized incompetence or avoiding any help at that point, it’s being an asshole. Living with others that don’t have cooperation as a goal is a nightmare.
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Not necessarily. Some of us are ADHD and we do things like put regular dish detergent in the dishwasher instead of the proper one and make a huge mess, or we load and wash normally but forget we ever did that so the clean dishes just sit in there long enough until they probably need to be rewashed.
Arranging dishes in the dishwasher neatly is only for when there are a lot of dishes that wouldn’t fit otherwise. If there are only a couple of dishes, then it’s whatever, as long as they get clean, it doesn’t matter.
I would encourage you to be more considerate: your daughter is an adult, with her own thoughts and feelings, and her own family. If I were her, I would certainly not appreciate if one of my parent tried to shame me in front of strangers on the Internet over how I load my dishes and threatening to disown me for it, even “as a joke”.
You’re doing just great at shaming yourself to strangers on the internet. Keep it up.
Just teach her about gravity. Dont feel bad - for a lot of people it’s not the first priority.