I hope everyone had a great week! Hang out. Chat. Talk about what’s going on. Have fun :3
I think I have been very dysphoric lately, and it’s possibly because I have done very few gender affirming things. I just am too nervous to be perceived.
You know, it’s funny. I find my gender dysphoria can actually get really bad if I do too many gender affirming things and then suddenly have to switch back to do something like boymode at work
I’m really sorry you’re feeling like that though :(
sometimes i wonder if i’m really “trans” or not. i always respond to that by recalling just how long i genuinely, desperately, earnestly tried to be a cis man
it didn’t fuckin work, and i need to remember that
It was a little jarring to get together with some of my guy friends and they were talking about weight/lifting and then they started teasing me for being small (I’m objectively not). I never realized how much being large was tied up in masculinity. Like obviously being tall would be, but I didn’t realize how much weight was. They all just wanted to bulk up and get huge.
…and I just don’t.
cw for body hatred and ED
I’m always missing the days of when I was smaller, even if I wasn’t any healthier. I hate how big and gross I feel.
worried about being trans
I’m scared. I don’t want to be trans. Why can’t these feelings just go away. I don’t know if I’m a transwoman but I’m still scared. Why can’t I just be a normal guy. I hate society. If it weren’t for this FUCKING SOCIETY it would all be okay. I could shave, I could dress how I want, maybe even give hrt a spin. But I can’t. Its just too hard. I’m crying. I hate gender. Goodnight Hexbear. Sorry for the trauma dump, this one got out of hand.
Been trying voice training, and I showed my wife my femme voice, and she, very supportively said, “it sounds really good. You sound like contrapoints :)))”
🤮 🤮 🤮
segue into becoming a valley girl just to not sound like contra
I, like, totally, couldn’t handle that!
Having a voice that doesn’t pass Voice training
just become nonverbal lolMy phase where I decided I was just gonna write on a notepad instead of speaking, before I quit giving a fuck
punching shit into my spell and speak
“EFF! YOU! CEE! KAY! TEE! EEE! ARE! EFF! ESS!”
trying to figure out your trans when you’re bisexual is really weird and hard. like, both are great? i don’t want to look like a man, but at the same time, men are really fucking hot??? what gives?
YES
Yes. Also - is it gender envy or sexual attraction: the game.
But yes being bi and trans is very confusing also idk if it’s like this for you but like my attraction to men is completely different than my attraction to women. So like how will I choose -.-
The bi-cycle can be a real motherfucker, especially when your tastes are so varied.
Yeah I simultaneously want to be a lwsbian muscle mommy and be made to feel small and fragile by a man. I feel like I exist like in the middle lol
is it gender envy or sexual attraction: the game.
actually the only consistent answer i ever get to this question is “both” and honestly i think that’s a great answer
So true it pretty much is mostly both haha. I was watching this totally trash TV show last night called love island, which is basically hot straight people being hot and straight and I think I mostly get envy from the women on there, cause for the most part straight girls aren’t that attractive to me (I want their legs though).
Side note: they should make a dating game show like that with all bi people. That would be entertaining af
Genderfluid partner who can do both?
Adventure time giving me so much gender envy lol
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The masculine urge to shave my entire body
Forced feminisation, but instead of just being a kink you are on a mission to awaken all transfemmes to their identities :)
DBZ scouter but it shows egg levels.
Extended They Live fight scene where the eggs refuse to put the scouter on
Why is my dislike of being a guy getting stronger
This was not supposed to happen
You’re being affected by hexbear trans radiation
This is my personal Chernobyl.
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i feel like the easiest way to pass is to simply have long hair
Can confirm, which kinda sucks because having cool.short dykey hair should not preclude you being gendered correctly. But people assume, no goofyass MAN would keep such an incredible wavy butt-length waterfall in such amazing condition ✨
It’s pretty funny. All these transphobe are like “I can always tell” and then as soon as you grow your hair out 6 inches doing nothing else, they act like you’re Snake under a cardboard box
Yeah, especially if you live somewhere where men don’t usually have long hair, that’s why I get called “daughter” all the time
I got identified as a girl a lot in coubtries like that, was kinda nice, even when I thought I was cis.
“oh I totally enjoy this because it’s humorous and I’m just a silly troll haha”
speaking of which, they kept referring to me as a girl while I was waiting in the bread line right now
I got bullied out of having long hair in high school.
But nobody can stop me now.
-explaining to a gamer-
Okay, you know how sometimes you start a game, and you have to pick a build, but nobody really tells you anything about it, so you just pick the one that is recommended and looks easy? But after some time, you realize that you aren’t having fun with that build, but people around are used to you playing that build? You want to respec, but respeccing costs money, and once you respec, there’s gonna be a long period of you being really bad at playing your new build?. It’s like that.
