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HexaSnoot [none/use name] to [email protected]English •
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My friend wants to have sex with more people. What are some red flag signs to watch out for and avoid? Or rules of consent to set? Why?

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My friend wants to have sex with more people. What are some red flag signs to watch out for and avoid? Or rules of consent to set? Why?

HexaSnoot [none/use name] to [email protected]English •
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  • Othello [none/use name]
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    tell them that when you have casual sex with someone you still owe them the same courtesy, consideration, and transparency about your intentions as you would in a less casual relationship.

  • itappearsthat [he/him]
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    Okay this is a weird question for several reasons but basically #1 rule is that missing out on having sex with someone is not a big deal, if consent is not enthusiastic and obvious just err on the side of not getting it on. Unfortunately difficult to convince young people who haven’t had much sex of the truth of this, but whatever. Rule #2 is be honest and don’t lead people on. Of course this one will be broken because people are dicks but whatever it has to be said.

  • LesbianLiberty [she/her]
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    What, is this for you or your friend? What are you gonna do, lecture your friend the information you’re presented with here?

    • HexaSnoot [none/use name]OP
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      Both. They asked me for advice if I had any. Turns out I need that advice too.

    • itappearsthat [he/him]
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      27•1 year ago

      sitting my friend down on the couch and ceremoniously unfurling the Scroll of Horn Dog Rules to intone at them

    • SacredExcrement [any, comrade/them]
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      God I hope not

  • Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]
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    Don’t fuck anyone that hasn’t charged their JO crystal recently

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  • RyanGosling [none/use name]
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    “With more people” implies they’re already doing that with some people. So… just apply the same standards, but to more people.

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    • TraumaDumpling [none/use name]
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      8•1 year ago

      i need to stop posting as soon as i wake up, the above was sad and i have fully accepted my isolated loveless fate of eternal suffering and alienation as A Good ThingTM like a good little stoic sisyphus

      • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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        :meow-hug: I understand sad posting

  • panned_cakes [none/use name]
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    Always keep a GPS tracker in the buttplug so your friends can assure your safety

  • SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]
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    29•1 year ago

    Watch out for any guy advertising his un-vaxxed loads on craigs list.

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