Hello,

I’m trying to send something to my gf’s friend (~50gb)

I tried creating my own torrent and was able to dl it on another device, but on her machine it stayed at 0% and wouldn’t let me connect to seed

Is FTP a good option? I set up a proxmox server last night but I don’t really know what I’m doing yet

Any guidance greatly appreciated, thanks.

  • @[email protected]
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    311 months ago

    Just to throw another option into the mix:

    Maybe create a VPN connection with wireguard, then you can just transfer them however you’d do it in a local network? Tailscale would be an easy solution to achieve this.

  • @[email protected]
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    1411 months ago

    Don’t put FTP on the Internet if you don’t know how to secure it.

    If you’re relatively nearby, you could just use a flash drive. Or mail one. If not, the other comments have good suggestions.

  • Brickfrog
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    11 months ago

    I tried creating my own torrent and was able to dl it on another device, but on her machine it stayed at 0% and wouldn’t let me connect to seed

    At least one of the torrent clients needs to be fully connectable (port forwarded) for torrents to transfer data. You need to test that e.g. test your torrent client’s incoming connection port with a port test website like https://www.canyouseeme.org, https://www.yougetsignal.com/tools/open-ports, etc. & make sure those port test websites can successfully test connect to your torrent client’s incoming connection port. If the test fails then you need to look at opening the port via your OS firewall and/or router firewall.

    Is FTP a good option? I set up a proxmox server last night but I don’t really know what I’m doing yet

    Probably best to avoid FTP if you don’t know what you’re doing, it’s not all that secure… you’d want to at least configure SFTP or FTPS which is just going to be more complicated vs fixing your torrent issues. And technically you still need to make those connectable (port forwarded) too, just like your torrent client.

    All that aside it’s probably easier to use Syncthing if you can’t get the torrent working.

    You could also try one of those file transfer websites that use WebRTC to transfer data peer to peer e.g. https://file.pizza or similar. Not sure how well they work for huge amounts of data but their github page mentions that Firefox is better for that, apparently Chrome starts to choke with data 500+ MB.

    • Vitaly
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      111 months ago

      So how is it different to Wormhole?

      • @[email protected]
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        I’ve never heard of Wormhole before now but by the looks of things:

        • croc is open source
        • croc does not store files on the server at all, ever – it waits for both ends of the connection to be open to start the transfer
        • croc cannot do true P2P – the sender uploads to the croc server which then streams it in realtime to the receiver
        • croc does not work in the browser :(

        for a true browser based p2p solution that uses WebRTC I’d suggest www.sharedrop.io

  • originalucifer
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    1311 months ago

    yep, id use sftp. my mail provider (proton) also gives me like 500gb in a ‘drive’ which is great for transfers like this

  • exu
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    411 months ago

    Maybe check out Tailscale. It’s mainly a mesh VPN for your own devices, but they have a lot of options included so you can share stuff with other people.

    • @[email protected]
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      211 months ago

      I’ve set up tailscale in the past week and fallen in love with the ease of use. So, this has my vote too. But, if i was doing this, i would chop the file into, say, 500mb parts using 7z or WinZip and then transfer it through SCP (WinSCP if using windows) over tailscale IPs.

  • @[email protected]
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    911 months ago

    Create a multi-part archive (…probably about 250 parts…) with a strong password, upload each part to whatever the current equivalent to Megaupload is, and let them download it at their leisure.

    With no accounts on either end, should only take about three months for each to be complete.

    Alternatively, you could put it on a thumb drive and drive it over if they live fairly close.

    • pbjamm
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      811 months ago

      you could put it on a thumb drive and drive it over if they live fairly close

      or drop it in the mail if they dont.

  • @[email protected]
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    11 months ago

    Btw: Might be that you’re behind a NAT (router) and that’s why bittorrent doesn’t connect. You’d need to figure out which port your torrent client is configured to listen on and then do “port forwarding” of that port to your machine in the router you got from your ISP. Or use something like UPnP that does this automatically.

    Not sure if that applies in your case and it’s unsolicited advice… But a fairly common issue with bittorrent.

    • FiveMacs
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      611 months ago

      Why not just make it a torrent file then and let it seed? I don’t see why paying for a service is required in this instance.

      • @[email protected]
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        611 months ago

        Because he’s having trouble getting it to connect that way, and for reasons I don’t completely understand, Resilio Sync connections seem to be quicker and more reliable than using a traditional tracker as the only seed.

        • @[email protected]
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          211 months ago

          for reasons I don’t completely understand, Resilio Sync connections seem to be quicker and more reliable

          Resilio runs a “relay” server to facilitate connections where neither peer has properly set up port forwarding. Only downside of Resilio is its not open source, so you just kinda have to take their privacy policy at face value. As long as op isn’t sending something super sensitive though, it probably is no big deal.

      • Subversivo
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        711 months ago

        1 - Its not paid for personal use.

        2 - OP said it can’t seed. Resilio have a discover helper service fot this situations.

  • @[email protected]
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    4111 months ago

    Could send it over ATP - Avian Transfer Protocol.

    Does require a USB stick and for your friend to train a pigeon though.

    • Malgas
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      2411 months ago

      Never underestimate the bandwidth of a station wagon full of hard drives speeding down the highway.

      • @[email protected]
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        811 months ago

        This makes me wonder, what is the difference in the environmental cost of uploading/downloading this data vs. shipping a USB.

        I would guess that shipping emissions would be higher than digital ones, but I don’t have any basis for that theory. (I’m just curious, not trying to say or imply anything here)

      • Uiop
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        611 months ago

        magnetic tapes or something