• HornyOnMain [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      Reading the post like: internet-delenda-est

      Even if this isn’t real there 100% are loads of people who actually think like this

    • 6daemonbag
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      92 years ago

      The husbands of some of my acquaintances are exactly like this. While I’m generally repulsed by the term Low Value Male, these are the types of men that I think fit the bill. Manly homophobes crippled by their ingrained toxic masculinity

  • Hextic
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    1112 years ago

    I bet cash money that husband has a secret Grindr account.

      • @[email protected]
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        492 years ago

        Claiming that someone’s homophobia is because they are secretly gay is ultimately blaming the gays for said homophobia.

        It’s also entirely possible that someone is just a hateful piece of shit.

        • Uriel238 [all pronouns]
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          Um, I’d argue that it’s blaming the people that drive others to subvert their own tendencies, e.g. the gay-is-icky crowd of which the Christian national movement is a subset.

          If gay was truly okay, and we didn’t have guys who felt pressured to be alpha masc, then no-one would blink twice when a toddler liked flowers and rainbows.

        • @[email protected]
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          92 years ago

          I get what you’re saying.
          But usually it’s really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about.

          • @[email protected]
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            172 years ago

            i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay

              • @[email protected]
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                112 years ago

                … i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people?

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                  Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize

                  That’s embarrassing

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                  no you’re not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it’s screaming insecurity rather than homophobia.

        • LemmyLefty
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          162 years ago

          Women can be sexist and nonwhite people can be racist: being a member of a marginalized group unfortunately doesn’t inherently keep someone from perpetuating the discrimination against said group. It’s absolutely true that a lot of, and definitely the majority, of homophobic people are straight, but a lot of the terror-based homophobia stems from projection.

        • @[email protected]
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          52 years ago

          ?? It’s blaming a gay person for being homophobic, by what logic does it apply to all of them?

        • @[email protected]
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          52 years ago

          Yeah, he may be just a POS, but he seems to think so hard in what looks gay or not… looks like he’s hiding.

    • @[email protected]
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      292 years ago

      She provides baby food. Why wouldn’t the baby prefer her more. Heck I’ll hang out with someone more if they gave me food.

      • @[email protected]
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        62 years ago

        More importantly it sounds like she doesn’t judge and criticize everything the son does, at one year old

  • @[email protected]
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    362 years ago

    Kid put a banana in his mouth. Yeah kids put everything in their mouths! Be glad it’s food and not random carpet lint.

      • Bizarroland
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        52 years ago

        That must be where I went wrong. I put carpet in my mouth and a banana in my ass

    • Dirk Darkly
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      92 years ago

      Only a gay baby would feel actual love towards a parent, especially if it’s their mom.

  • Jo Miran
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    172 years ago

    I genuinely feel sad for people that love in such fear and anger. It sounds exhausting.