Keeping the weekly post warm until @alyaza comes back 🙂
What’s everyone been up to? Any plans for the weekend?
Processing the fact that I’m living in my office now. Bought some stuff I needed and fixed some small things like a statue and a lamp and so on. I hope I’ll get back into first gear again sometime soon.
I’ma be real, it’s a mixed bag. A lot of things have gone drastically wrong, even one going so far as to make me unable to walk. Yet I’ve had like two things that shocked me and made life slightly more tolerable.
Mostly I just want a hug. Was my birthday a couple days ago and I realized it’d been 13 years since I’ve had a hug. Broke me a little.
Virtual hugs incoming!! I can’t ingraine how difficult that is for you :/
Someone stole my identity, and the bank that they used keeps telling me they can’t help me if I don’t contact them with the email address I used to sign up for an account. Reminder! My identity was stolen! I didn’t sign up for shit!
It’s mostly good! The only really sad thing for me is that my girlfriend and I are probably not going to marry next year already, because apparently (meaning, according to the internet) the location should be planned and booked 1 to 1 1/2 years in advance. And since we originally hoped for an autumn wedding, we would have to do nothing but check with locations the coming weekends. But those weekends are already scheduled for family and friends and finishing our camper van.
Depending on what y’all are thinking for your wedding, you could always book a location that wouldn’t typically be considered a wedding venue, since those won’t book up as fast. I’ve had a couple of friends get married in mountain picnic areas, for instance.
Mhmm, unfortunately we’re looking to book castle ruins and even if they’re not super typical wedding locations, they’re still very expensive x.x
Ah, yeah that definitely complicates things! I hope you’re able to get your dream wedding, even if it’s further down the line than you’d originally planned.
Thanks, it’ll probably work out, since we both make not bad sums of money. We’re not rich by any means, but going from growing up in families that almost always were in the red to suddenly almost always having to tick the second or third highest income bracket in public surveys is a big step up. It just sucks how expensive everything is, not just weddings; even with our combined income, no children (two dogs, though, to be completely fair) and saving up for years, we’ll only be able to afford a very narrow slice on the housing market (think stuff built in the 1950s and in need of heavy renovations).
Like a colonoscopy: Uncomfortable, embarassing, and with a shitty ending.
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Hope your weekend has a better prognosis
Went pretty well.
This needs to be pinned like the last one, by the way. I can’t keep track. Please pin it and unpin the previous one.
Not a mod so can’t from my end unfortunately
awww, you’re into it like I am. We are both into it mega style. Let’s get together and make the mods pin this. As a weekly thing, it is the thing to pin. Do you know how to convince the mods to pin this? I support it.
Shifting the pin for this week, thanks for posting this while alyaza is out 😄
Awful, sadly. Somehow i feel more and more alone in this world. It’s probably a joke from the universe “you’re gonna kill yourself anyway, why don’t I make it faster and easier for you”
(Don’t reply to this, I just need to let it out, not interested in reaching out)
Not great, that’s all I’ll say.
Week is going OK, busy like everyone else, but some lights at the end of some tunnels. Going to build a Docker instance on the home server this weekend to play with self hosted Beeper. Very hot where I am but also hoping to get some outside time anyway.
Going camping for a friend’s bday Thursday through Saturday in Malibu Creek State Park! Verrrrry excited as I’ve been wanting to go camping so bad, it’s been a few years since I’ve gone and it’s such a crucial reset for me. I think it has to do with growing up and camping a lot. Lots of memories to rekindle, lots of moments for reflection and processing. Anyways, hope you all have a great weekend!
OMG. I love Malibu. I guess it isn’t Malibu Creek, but whatever. I’d totally go camping in Malibu.
Hope you have a great time!
I’m from the UK so forgive the ignorance, but I thought Malibu was mostly beach?
Not a huge fan of camping personally but I LOVE a campfire and looking up at the stars. So peaceful
My week couldn’t be better. Thank you for asking.
This past weekend had to do a bunch of house repairs and yard work. This week/currently, is going okay; been worse been better. But getting along. I have things I want to get done personally, things I need to get done, and things I have to get done. Unfortunately not in that order.
damn this thread is depressing. my week is good! got back on Sunday night from a vacation to Colorado with my partner. Been catching up on work and enjoying being reunited with my precious baby boys (aka our two cats). now it’s Friday and I couldn’t be happier! Game night tonight with the pals, and then i’m applying for new jobs this weekend. I’ve been at my current job for like 6 years, so that’s a new adventure to look forward to.
Edit: oh and ALSO we just finished the season finale for Righteous Gemstones and I can’t stop thinking about Baby Billy’s Bible Bonkers. if u want to discuss that with me in the replies i am HERE
Questions that invite introspection often end up that way I think. I don’t mind, sometimes you just need to shout into the void.
Sounds exciting, good luck with the job hunt!
Also cat tax please 🙂
Cat Tax ! And thank you for the kind words 😊
It’s not been a good week tbh…
Had a very rough patch with my partner that we’re trying to work through, but it’s tough.
A lot of tears, some minor self harm, emotions on an erratic seesaw.
Weekend plans are some shopping, see my new nephew, some time with my daughters and preparations for vacation next week.
