Until yesterday I used to have long hair. Due to unusually high tempetures I started having problems with the skin on my head. So, to avoid problems. I shaved it clean and it will remain that way until the skin in treated.
Now that I’m bald, I now know what’s it’s like. It sucks. My old hair suited me perfectly. It was messy just the right amount, perfect length, made me look different than the rest and handsome as hell. Every girl would look at me where ever I went to. Compliments floating over the air, jealous looks from other men etc. etc. It made me feel powerful.
But most importantly, it suited my personality and clothing. It was perfect! But now it’s gone. I hate bald me. I will never look back at this bald version of myself.
It feels weird. I don’t feel that bad but still it’s disheartening.
Own it
To echo much already said… As a dude that had magnificent curly locks. I wtarted balding at 18 and now have a hairline of an 18th century monk… If you can shave your head do that. I also have eczema…so that’s out. So hats and just being cool with it. If you try to hide it … people know. Just own that shit. Frankly ladies don’t seem to mind it… Personality goes a long way. Humor goes further
I find whenever I make a drastic hair change that after a few days, I couldn’t imagine going back to the old style
It’s like if you shave a mustache. “Where’d your lip go?!” then 2 days later you look normal again.
wait til you dont have a choice. uhg
Half of looking good is how good you feel about yourself. Your issue might not be the lack of hair, but the lack of self esteem. I’m sure that once you get adjusted to it the looks will come back.
Are you Samson? What kind of magic hair did you have?
Althrough I think a good cut is good for a good first impression. It’s not a big deal, they will eventually grow back. You can cure other aspect of your style.
I voluntary shave myself in the summer, and I know very well that I am more handsome with long hair. But I don’t care and so do others.
There are some good aspects of a bald head eg. Time efficency when I shower and feeling fresh during the day.
I think he
ought to become your role model now. You know how many girls went crazy for that dude (and his shaved look)?Getting older I can only say: looks are overrated. During my time I used to have all kinds of hair styles: metalhead with long hair, medium length, short hair, almost no hair, and right now I have like half a centimeter, because it’s so hot weather and I sweat a lot and felt uncomfortable. Last time I cared about “how do girls look at my hair” was probably in my teens but even then I went against the stream, because metalhead long hair was far from being desirable.
IMO you should focus less on how do other perceive you (your look) and more on how you feel yourself. Having less (no) hair has so many benefits I can’t even think of going back to anything longer than ~inch. Sure I might look dumb, but that feeling of air breeze on my skull is so refreshing I couldn’t care less. Another benefit is much easier care. When I had long hair it felt like a chore to use shampoo, conditioner and brush the hair while it felt almost instantly “in need” of the procedure again. Now? Tsssch, I use whatever: shampoo, regular soap or just water, fast rinse and hair are almost immediately fresh feeling and also dry (huge plus imo).
And the most important note. If you ever find/found a partner who is/was with you just because your fabulous hair, I can assure you it is/was not the right one.
You’ll get used to it. Find a few nice hats you like. It has more to do with temperature control than vanity. I find I get cold easier.
What issues were you having?
Just don’t give a flying fuck about anyone else’s opinion about you, it works for other things also. Good luck!!
I use to have long hair and a ponytail. I started to lose hair, like all men in my family, around ~25 yo. (I swear I don’t do roids or testosterone treatment)
I just jumped the gun and shaved i all.
I really enjoy being bald:
- It feels great to be able to scrub and moisturise your scalp after every shower
- Sometimes, I will let my beard grow for a few days, and groom it real well (shave clean the bottom half of my neck, and the top of the cheeks). I believe I look good.
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If you’re worried about male pattern hair lose, but don’t care about having a libido: Prescription Finnesteride. It a testosterone blocker specifically for the one that causes male pattern baldness. I was hitting stage two, and a long with the HRT I’m taking, I am seeing a lot of clawback on spots I thought would be bald forever.
I only pay like $15 for three months through GoodRX.
HRT is magic for hair loss.
but don’t care about having a libido
This is a small minority of men or so they say, it’s not a guarantee
I started shaving my head when my hair started thinning in my early 30’s. That was 25 years ago. I used to love my hair, but now I would not go back to having hair if I had the option. It took a few weeks to get used to for me.
