• @[email protected]
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    TIL I’m mostly a good person but sometimes I am also no better than an animal and an absolute savage who will only do right when threatened. Interesting. Another thing is that I’m grateful for other savages who don’t put their carts back cause I don’t have to walk so far to get a cart.

    • XIIIesq
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      If you piss on the toilet seat, do you clean it up (free labour as you call it) or hire a cleaner?

  • @[email protected]
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    48 months ago

    Hey, I have asthma and there have been days where I’ve barely had enough energy to make it back to my car let alone put a cart back. Not everybody is having the same day you are.

  • @[email protected]
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    Stop giving away free labour to large grocery stores! They want to merge and jack up prices and somehow we are bad if we don’t bring the carts in so they don’t need to hire someone to do it?

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      138 months ago

      This had to be a bad joke. Only a low level trash scum of our society could write something like that unironicly.

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      Work in a grocery store for a month and tell us again how we should all be jerks in a way that will never impact their corporate bottom line but will absolutely make the workers’ lives harder.

  • @[email protected]
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    In my country we have dedicated people in the parking who literally follow you, can even push and collect the cart from you.

  • @[email protected]
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    No one will punish you for not returning the cart

    My opinion on this is reason number 8735 why I will never, and should never, be in charge of a country.

    • @[email protected]
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      I often think about how much better the world/ my local area would be if I was allowed to taser people at will for things like that. 😀

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      I too have thousands of reasons why I shouldn’t be in charge of a country, however I do have one good pitch.

      My appointment to dictatorship would be guided solely by autism. I guarantee my powers will only be focused upon my two fixations that deal with the general public, trains and healthcare.

      If made supreme leader I will not only make the trains run on time, there will be more trains, more hospitals, we would even have trains that can take you to your job at the hospital. I would shape the perfect world for me, and vicariously a more efficient and safer world for you.

      Demand Me for dictator 2024

      • @[email protected]
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        Why not put the hospital in the train? Instead of taking the train to the hospital, the hospital comes to you

        • BougieBirdie
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          Imagine if there was a train to the hospital that also did triage.

          So you get on the hospital line and a nurse determines if you need urgent care. They could take you to a less crowded hospital further down the line or dispatch paramedics to next stop.

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          Because that is essentially what an ambulance currently is, and it conveniently comes right to your house, park, or business where you are dying. There are very few immediate life-saving measures that can be done at the hospital and not in the ambulance. Ambulances with paramedics are referred to as MICUs for a reason.

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          Tbh, I would love to see it. But our railway infrastructure is dog shit atm, and we wouldn’t be able to expand the network fast enough to accommodate something as luxurious as a railway hospital until much later.

          My first goal would be to expand the network to the point where cars are unnecessary for the vast majority of my citizens. This would both increase rail traffic to acceptable levels and help alleviate the unnecessary healthcare cost and harm of motor vehicle accidents.

          Become my peon, every peon gets healthcare and can apply to drive an electric train. Me -2024

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    Another possibility is that people that don’t return the cart may not be having their needs met. A person who is tired after walking across the hot parking lot may not return it out of a desire to maintain a modicum of health. Or, perhaps, they may not think about it because their cognition is temporarily hindered by hunger, exhaustion, or some other carnal need.

    On Maslow’s hierarchy, I’d say if a person meets all of their physiological and safety needs they are more likely to return the cart than those who do not.

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      If they’re so tired after walking around the shop and walking back to their car that they can’t do that tiny bit more and return the cart to the corral, maybe they should be seeing a doctor to see if they are eligible for disability (sounds like a severe case of lazybonesitis) and use a handicapped spot. Or you know, stop being so fucking lazy and making excuses.

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    That goes for everything you can return but don’t have to. You can throw your trash away after the movie, you don’t have to leave it in the theatre.

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      Germany are good at this. Not great, mind you, but good.

      I wonder what Japanese movie theatre’s are like

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      Not all return situations are equal either. There is a difficulty factor. I’ve returned carts every time in my life except once. I was about 50 car rows deep in a massive crowded lot and I realized there were no cart corrals at all. At the back of the massive lot and much, much closer to me was a bunch of carts. I pushed a few together and added mine. The difference in this scenario was not me.

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        See this is an exception that proves the rule. The fact that there was no way for you to return the cart to a cart corral means that it was a noticeable and memorable event, a deviation from what should normally be the correct way of doing things. If you had been a person who’d never returned carts, this would have just been a day ending with the letter “y.”

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    Look man, you can occasionally be selfish or lazy without immediately being an absolute drain on society. Is not putting the cart back ultimately a dick move? Yeah, but its also an incredibly minor dick move, and maybe I’ve already used up all of my fucks for the day.

    Edit: Ok, yall have convinced me. I’m going to start wheeling shopping carts into the most inconvenient places in the parking lot on purpose now. It’s really funny how much it ruins all of your days, thank you for giving me a mew source of joy. I wouldnt be surprised if I tipped and treated service staff a hell of a lot better than most of you considering how much you’re all itching to feel superior to others over extremely minor things

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    Around here there are definitely consequences in the form of pesky looks and headshakes. Well at least coming from me.

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      58 months ago

      I’ve even helped by putting my nose in the air and saying, “that’s ok, I’ll put it away for you”

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        If a disabled person used a cart all through the store, and to their car, their disability should therefore not impede their ability to return the cart.

        If someone is using the mobility scooter, that’s a different story.

        Edit for clarity, if it does impede the ability, it does. That’s the end of the story, and the meme.

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          I don’t think you know what you’re talking about. Disabilities are really diverse and the US at least has shit healthcare. I can totally imagine someone using the last of their strength or energy to get back into their car. I wish everyone returned their carts, too, but I have empathy for people who just hit the end of their rope.

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            Obviously every disability is different. It’s a meme, I’m not writing comprehensive policy here

            Edit the point is if you normally navigate the grocery errand, make it to your car without issue, are not incapable of returning the cart, but choose.to.just ditch it because you are lazy, then the meme is talking about you.

            If you aren’t able to move the cart any further, ideally park near the return spot, or tell the staff, or get the accomodations you need.

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              It’s a meme, I’m not writing comprehensive policy here

              I’m responding to your comment, not the post. This part:

              If a disabled person … their disability should therefore …

              You really can’t make generalizations about disabilities like this.

              Lots of people think disabilities are visible and easy to categorize. They’re not, and this attitude leads to scenarios like random people harassing actually disabled people for using a handicapped parking spot.

              My point is, like, mind your own business and don’t make judgy proclamations about what disabled people can do.

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                Return your cart if you can. Don’t if you can’t.

                It’s simple shit.

                If you can’t, the meme isn’t about you.

                It is however reasonable to suggest a journey that is 99% over and has been completed successfully, can be completed to 100%.

                But if not, refer to the beginning.

                That’s it.

                Edit if you leave it anywhere because you are lazy, not incapable, then the meme is about you.

                You didn’t quote or seemingly read that line.

        • @[email protected]
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          If you need to use the scooter, then you’re not using a cart. You just have to be able to hobble between the store itself and your car. And sometimes you can hand it to someone to drive back to the store.

          As someone who has recently needed it for several very different temporary medical issues in the past 4 or so years (better now tho- it’s been a very weird time for me lol), I’ve seen that a lot of randos in the parking lot will even enjoy riding it back for you lol. Kids love it.

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          I am pro-“cart abandoners deserve the gulag”, but we’ve also gotta recognize that some disabled people may need the cart for balance, and if they return it, they now have to walk across the parking lot without that crutch. Maybe the right answer is to put cart returns next to disabled spots?

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            If only there was a device they could use to place their walking aid in (assuming they don’t need a full on walker) to carry it while their hands are full of shopping cart

            If my friend with a CASTED LEG could manage to return their cart then it’d take a disability that means you probably shouldn’t be out and about on your own to not return it

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            So what actual disabled people do is just to talk to the cashier, who will say “oh let me flag down one of the Noble Cart Lads” or “oh just leave it, we’ll have someone out in a couple minutes anyways”. It’s standard to have someone on staff that helps mobility impared (or otherwise disabled) people load their car. If a place has mobility scooters, they absolutely have one of these people too.

            What you’re doing here is advocating for accommodation on a largely solved problem, without just asking the people you’re advocating for about the problem, and trying to signal your virtue while doing it. Stop it.

            (The reason for no cart returns next to disabled spaces is that many people will just sorta fling their carts at the returns, creating a whole lot of obstacles right where you least want them.)

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            So they were able to get to the cart station before their shopping unassisted, but are unable to return the cart because the walk back is unassisted?

            I don’t buy it.

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            I think it’s fair to assume the target of this meme is not that scenario.

            Edit also generally agree

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        The disability here is almost always selfishness or lack of consideration for their fellow man.

        Nobody is judging based on carts left by handicapped spaces.

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        I take it from the downvotes that this is not a place for discussion, this is a place for confirming your biases. Carry on.

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          They’re getting downvotes because they’re implying that people with a disability can’t return their carts, which is ableist as fuck. People without a disability might not know this, but you can just ask for assistance at the check-out, and someone from the store will typically help you to your car and bring the cart back for you.

        • @[email protected]
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          I know this isn’t the way it’s supposed to work “per the rules”, but I think downvotes are an incredible tool for discussion. It’s a way to simply and clearly make your opinion known without taking the time to write a comment. But because Spez and co. decided that downvotes “aren’t supposed to work that way” 20 years ago, the worst people on the internet will scold you for using the voting system just like everyone else does.

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        There should be a requirement for cart return spots next to the handicap parking. In places where there is a return 10 feet from the spots I still see a ton of carts in the parking spots.

        I get that it can be hard, but it seems way too frequent that they could do the whole store but just couldn’t make that last 10 feet. Like sure, occasionally that is inderstandable.

        So I will judge them while also grabbing the cart and either using it or putting it away because that is the right thing to do.

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          Same with the nearest bus stops to the grocery store. I feel like it’s unappealing to be tripping over shopping carts in the bus shelter.

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          So the reason you don’t do this is because cart returns create a cluster of obstacles. Many people just go cart curling, aiming generally for the return and walk off, which can make an insurmountable obstacle for the handicaped person. Also handicapped spots are at the entrance to the store - if someone is going to return their cart, they’ll go the extra 50’ to do it. If they’re a fuckin asshole that doesnt return their carts, its better not to give them a target around which to cluster their assholeness.

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      I hate this guy. Call people out, sure, but keep your stupid magnets off my car.

      The stores don’t give a shit. The customers don’t give a shit. The only one that gives a shit is this guy and his followers. Also, he’s a fucking creep. Watch his video where he went to Australia and followed a pair of women to their house to shame them for walking their cart to the house.

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        Put your trolley away and he won’t magnet your car

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        He’s fucking hilarious and you’re a suspected lazybones.

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        It’s telling that you side with (what is almost always) the giant billions-dollar corporation and don’t even mention the worker who is probably already being exploited. That’s who cares. That’s who gets extra work, especially out in the cold/rain/wind/snow/hail, with no extra pay.

        In line with the original post you’re right: no one will fight for them and no one will fine or arrest you, but don’t pretend people’s selfish laziness impacts no one…

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          How am I siding with a corporation? The only people involved are the guy harassing people for YouTube views and the people he’s harassing.

          The stores aren’t involved in the altercations at all, other than to say “we don’t give a shit if you leave your cart out. If we did, we would do something about it.”

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            If we did, we would do something about it."

            Like build conveniently placed cart returns with “please return your cart” written on them?