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    9 months ago

    I’m already happy, so happier than this?maybe some more money but just for practical purposes.

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    49 months ago

    The exact amount of money I have in debts at the moment.

    If I was 100% debt free I could work 3-4 days a week with the same amount of money left as with debts.

    This would reduce stress and give me more time and energy to improve myself

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    39 months ago

    Relief of stress, which is currently made by lack of money. So money, I guess. I think in smaller terms this chocolate chip banana bread will make me short term happy though.

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        29 months ago

        You know what, id stick it out for a little bit just to raise some hell. Probably wouldn’t make it long, but it’d be fun while it lasted

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    the only thing that could “make” me happy is a change in mindset, perhaps forced by brain damage.

    as far as how I will make my own happiness, it comes down to making choices informed by my own values, painstakingly discovered through mistakes, introspection, and connections with others

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        29 months ago

        I could try, but I’m not a woman, I’m not even on hrt yet, I’ll start diy as soon as my package arrives, but even then I’ll never pass. And it’s all my fault, I knew it since I was 13, but didn’t do anything about it, cuz I’m a fucking retard or something. everything in my live is just dark-gray and the only way to brigthen it up are drugs…

        anyway, how was your day?

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          29 months ago

          Wish I could support you better. I don’t think it’s the end of the world whether or not you pass. As we’ve seen lately in the media, it actually might make you feel more like a woman having people question the nature of your body.

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          29 months ago

          If you can get professionals involved that would probably be safer than doing anything DIY. Even just one appointment to discuss it with someone.

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      39 months ago

      I feel this one bud ❤️ its manageable condition, don’t give up hope, and remember that no human has perfect perception

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    79 months ago

    Ultimate dream? To have my mortgage paid off so I can have a bit more breathing room every month. I’ll get there eventually, I’m just impatient 🙂

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    “OK, you’ve finished your first play through. Now go back a handful of decades and don’t do the same fuck-ups.”

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    39 months ago

    A job that: I’d love, is at a desk, pays well, is project based, asks me to set my own goals, holds me accountable, makes me feel like I’m contributing something positive for other people.

    Right now, I would feel more fulfilled in life with something like that.

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    89 months ago
    • A solid, reliable, trusted, friend group. I’ve got a handful of people but some folks I know have like a whole crew.
    • At least one smart, hot, kind, loving, partner with at least one shared, actionable interest.
    • Power. Like, give me the infinity stones and I’ll fix the world.

    No other crisis at the moment, but you never know when you’re going to wake up with double cancer or whatever. I try to appreciate the nice moments.