• @[email protected]
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    68 months ago

    False Consensus Effect and Narcissistic Personality go hand in hand. Can’t tell you the amount of times my narcissistic coworker starts trash talking people I like a hell of a lot more than them assuming I agree.

  • @[email protected]
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    78 months ago

    I’m out here actively going against my biases and selling someone else’s house above market value 😤

  • @[email protected]
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    118 months ago

    What’s interesting is how, even when knowing these biases, one has a tendency to often have and display at least some of them.

    (At least, that’s the case for me)

    • @[email protected]
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      138 months ago

      Knowing these helps with self-talk. You trip over a curb and start scolding yourself. Then you can say to yourself “this is just spotlight bias”, and move on with your day, avoiding the impact of negative emotions. Or, you might be more open to a change in restaurant plans because you know of the false consensus effect. There’s subtle but real power in just naming things!

      • @[email protected]
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        38 months ago

        I tripped and fell spectacularly walking in a supermarket. I was annoyed that no one helped me up or checked if I was okay (I didn’t need help but it made me think less of my fellow man) and that my partner was waiting in the car and didn’t witness it, because it was actually really funny.

        I left embarrassment in my 20s. Don’t have the energy or interest in it now. And I know I’m not the main character - everyone’s living their own lives, the impact you make on strangers is minimal. At worst someone said when they got home from the shops ‘i saw this chick stack and it was kinda funny’.

        Reminding yourself that no one really cares about people that don’t know is a helpful way to shut down the negative self talk.

      • @[email protected]
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        28 months ago

        How to develop the mental discipline to jump to naming the bias in emotional situations like that though??

      • @[email protected]
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        48 months ago

        That’s a good point.

        Ever since I’ve became more aware of those I’ve found myself doing similar kind of “disarming” of such falacies when I notice I’m using them.

        My point it’s that it generally feels like swimming against the current.

        • @[email protected]
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          38 months ago

          You’re absolutely right there. We’re hard wired to think this way and it’s a constant battle.

  • @[email protected]
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    258 months ago

    What bias is it if the only entry I’ve read in this table is the one for confirmation bias?

  • @[email protected]
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    128 months ago

    Actually the reason I order the last item the server mentioned is because of crippling social anxiety

    • @[email protected]
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      78 months ago

      Same for not standing up in the middle of everyone to go out from watching a bad movie in the cinema.

  • beefbot
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    88 months ago

    What’s the cognitive bias for believing that any given chart is the ULTIMATE CHART. Yes yes, YOUR chart is gospel, the exhaustive definitive final chart 🙄

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      Oh ffs it gets worse with the Don’t Forget To Like And Subscribe whine beg plead for internet fart points at the bottom

  • @[email protected]
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    28 months ago

    This is basically how I see NT myself being in the spectrum. Not to say I dont do any of those, on the contrary, Im guilty of many but I feel like they are more common on NTs (specially ones like Bandwagon Effect or Authority Bias)

  • @[email protected]
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    288 months ago

    YSK: the Dunning-Kruger effect is controversial because it’s part of psychology’s repeatability problem.

    Other famous psychology experiments like the ‘Stanford prison experiment’ or the ‘Milgram experiment’ fail to show what you learned in psych101. The prison experiment was so flawed as to be useless, and variations on the Milgram experiment show the opposite effect from the original.

    For those familiar with the Milgram experiment: one variation of the study saw the “scientist” running the test replaced with a policeman or a military officer. In these circumstances, almost everybody refused to use high voltage.

    • Rhaedas
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      Controversial in the sense that it can be easily applied to anyone. There is some substance to the idea that a person can trick themselves into thinking they know more based on limited info. A lot of these biases are like that, they aren’t cut and dry but more of an gray area where people can be fooled in various ways. Critical thinking is hard even if it’s taught, and it’s not taught well enough or at all.

      And all of that is my opinion and falls into various biases, but oh well. The easiest person to fool is yourself because we are hardwired in our brain to want to be right, with rewards to ourselves when we find things that help confirm it even if the evidence is not valid. I think the best way to try and avoid the pitfalls is to always back up your claim with something. I’ve found myself often(!) erasing a response to someone because what I was going to reply didn’t have the data that I thought it did and I couldn’t show I was correct after I dug a bit to find something.

      I almost deleted this for the very reason, but I want to see how it hits. I feel that knowing there’s a lot of biases that anyone can fall into can help form better reasoning and argument.

    • @[email protected]
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      28 months ago

      but how will other redditors know how smart I am if i dont regurgitate what i read on reddit

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      What bias would that fall under? One could assume the variation has to do with the average American’s trust of law enforcement vs their trust of a qualified person.

      (Assuming the repeat experiments were done in the US that is)

  • ShaunaTheDead
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    For negativity bias my wife just told me a great technique that she uses for that. Come up with a list of people whose opinions matter to you. Any time you question yourself, imagine how each person on that list would react to what you did. Since those are the only people whose opinions matter to you, if it’s mostly positive, then you should feel proud of your choice.