• @[email protected]
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      62 years ago

      Sick reference, I hadn’t thought of that song in years. She was bullied and harassed endlessly over it. Turns out it was just a relatively well produced amateur music video she did with her friends one day for fun. I always thought it was a poorly produced professional song/video being force fed to us. Felt real bad when I found that out, poor kid hope she’s doing alright.

    • @[email protected]
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      62 years ago

      GOTTA GET DOWN ON FRIDAY

      I mean really, who isn’t looking forward to the weekend, weekend

  • Maddison
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    422 years ago

    Online dating is one of the most exhausting experiences of my life.

    • @[email protected]
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      332 years ago

      When you’re actually using the app instead of having the compression artifacts of being screenshot several times, it’s not as bad.

      • Marxine
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        122 years ago

        It doesn’t make it less of a crime against good design. Low contrast for reading is bad practice.

      • @[email protected]
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        442 years ago

        I don’t care if you’re watching it in 32k on Odin’s personal account, white on yellow is NEVER acceptable for ANYTHING.

  • @[email protected]
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    -62 years ago

    “oh my god just tell me damn”

    That’s where they lost the right of it. It becomes a legitimate question why the hell they want to know so much.

  • Haru
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    542 years ago

    So glad I’m not going through this any more. I think I’d rather be single than do online dating again.

  • Champange Equinox
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    122 years ago

    Ugh that reminds me of trying to talk to a Replika. “I have a gift for you!” “Great, what is it?” “(Hands you a box)” “…cool so what’s inside the box?” “Wouldn’t you like to know!” “Umm. Yes. Yes I would like to know what’s in the box you just gave me.” …and so on and so forth until I rage-quit the app. 😆

  • @[email protected]
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    1982 years ago

    If someone does not take the least amount of effort to answer a simple question like that one … then he doesn’t care about you in the slightest.

    “But its a generic question!”

    Two words: common courtesy.

    • @[email protected]
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      752 years ago

      People (guys usually) also answer like this when they are trying to tell you exactly what you want to hear so that you’ll sleep with them. They feel like if they give any wrong answer early on, they’ve lost their chance. It’s a very manipulative mindset. He was like a deer in the headlights, not knowing if any answer he gave would be the right answer since he doesn’t know her at all yet. So he stalls, hoping she’ll drop it.

      Or he might just be an idiot.

      Either way, drop them and move on to somebody who will be real with you.

      • AFK BRB Chocolate
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        202 years ago

        Yeah, that was my thought as well. This is the type of person who is only going to say something of they think it will impress you. The second possibility is that they will share nothing of themselves, period. In either case, they don’t seem like good relationship material.

      • Aesthesiaphilia
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        They feel like if they give any wrong answer early on, they’ve lost their chance.

        To be fair, that’s usually correct. Women have their pick of men, generally. If a guy answers a band she doesn’t like, most likely she’ll move on.

        So guys lie and tell her everything she wants to hear. And then once they get their foot in the door, they can start telling the truth.

        This guy handled it very badly but I can see why he didn’t want to answer.

        • @[email protected]
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          122 years ago

          Yeah I may not be a relationship expert but if I have to lie for an ice breaker not even a deep question just an ice breaker I don’t think that relation will work

            • @[email protected]
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              17 months ago

              Me and my gf have generally have an overlap in music taste (heavy metal/hard rock) but only I like heavy electronic (too “noisy”/overstimulating for bee) and the music I don’t like of hers is more pop music (I like some of it also depends how I feel)

              So I’ll go break the news to her that we have to break up due to music taste. It’s a shame cus we have a ton of shared interest but this… aw man can’t believe this is why we gotta split

              /s incase it wasn’t painfully obvious

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        In other words, playing games, i.e trying to “tick her funne bone” so he gets someone else to play instead of himself. But what most of those guys fail to acknowledge is that “tickling her funne bone” takes time – it’s not a “free pussy pass” of any sort that you “say it”, and she goes “WHOOAAA fuck me mister! Fuck me right NOW!”. That is not “acting tough” or smart, but acting like a douche.

    • @[email protected]
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      22 years ago

      Nah it’s one of those things where some guys just prefer to talk about what they think matters to everyone, their job or financial conditions, music or other personal stuff might just be an extra on their minds

      • @[email protected]
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        42 years ago

        So an idiot.

        If someone asks you about your taste in music, then clearly music matters to them.