• @[email protected]
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    196 months ago

    Ya you just suck at communicating. It’s probably why most of your relationships fail.

  • @[email protected]
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    I feel badly for the lots of men that believe their life is to please women.

    this group includes me

  • Lido
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    26 months ago

    Maybe I’m wrong, but I read this as a woman’s response to Republicans.

  • @[email protected]
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    I feel like as.a.woman I.have to.point out that, many times, a woman orgasming or not is not.your fuck’s fault.

    I would also.like to point out that it is harder to orgasm in “normal” sex than is it with oral, so.if your girl didn’t orgasm don’t take it personally, pull your pants up and go down on her

    • @[email protected]
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      286 months ago

      I’m surprised this is news to people but I guess sex education varies between countries maybe.

    • Ricky Rigatoni
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      I understand you are a woman but you really need to get control of your periods here.

    • @[email protected]
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      466 months ago

      There’s also women who can not orgasm by in-and-out movements (like: the act of fucking) and it just hurts them after a while. Had to find that out the hard way.

      • @[email protected]
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        I think people would be really surprised at the wide variety of shapes for women insides. Some shapes just don’t get rubbed the same way.

      • Captain Aggravated
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        Positions and angles of attack can matter. Something that feels good for one girl does nothing for or hurts another. And it’s not necessarily a matter of “I like this position” because it’s about how your two bodies interact. It’s very possible you both like different things. I had a girlfriend fairly early on where we pretty quickly realized I liked this and she liked that, and we’d take turns doing the other’s favorite. Dynamics of sexual relationships became a lot less adult after high school.

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      Or, first ask for directions, go down and stay down, keep listening and doing exactly what she says, until she gets there first. THEN bring your dick to the party. For many of us the second and successive orgasms are much quicker and easier to achieve, even from penetrative sex.

      • @[email protected]
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        26 months ago

        This is the way. First, second, third base and home.

        Although doesn’t have to be every time. Can skip bases, go backwards, etc.

    • Jo Miran
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      2376 months ago

      I believe your comment is suffering from irregular periods.

      • @[email protected]
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        136 months ago

        The phone adds it auto and I never had the patience to go change it lol. My family is also very annoyed by it

          • @[email protected]
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            196 months ago

            I use and recommend HeliBoard. It’s foss, it’s customizable, it’s privacy conscious and, other than weird ideas about capitalization sometimes, it’s working flawlessly in two languages simultaneously for me ❤️

              • udon
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                Does it do swipe and how well? Github says a blob library is needed for that. Can’t be bothered with typing individual letters anymore on mobile

                • SeekPie
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                  Glide typing (only with closed source library ☹️)

                  • library not included in the app, as there is no compatible open source library available
                  • can be extracted from GApps packages (“swypelibs”), or downloaded here (click on the file and then “raw” or the tiny download button)

                  Haven’t tried it yet. GitHub does say it is possible by downloading the library.

          • @[email protected]
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            16 months ago

            It would also help if these dumb fucking developers wouldn’t put the period right next to the god damn space bar. That might solve a problem or two but noooooooooope it’s gotta be right next to the space bar.

    • @[email protected]
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      86 months ago

      Agree. Let me add that some women don’t orgasm at all or do orgasm and don’t like it - yes, the world is a diverse place.

      Communication is key in any relationship.

  • @[email protected]
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    I dumped a woman when she told me she faked her orgasms. Good sex requires honesty, trust, and communication. It’s impossible to get better when either person is being dishonest.

    • @[email protected]
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      186 months ago

      Good, fuck her. Or not fuck her in this case. I’ve dated two or three guys that had honesty issues, and the relationship crumbled very quickly after I figured it out. Without trust there’s no respect, no cooperation, no kindness.

      • @[email protected]
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        Oh and that is fine but then you have to ask yourself if you want to have a partnership with bad sex. If not, break up, or “teach” by communicating what you want, what is good and what is bad. There is no alternative, accept bad sex, break up, teach.

        (Technically, you could let them have sex outside of the partnership to study, but… Well, not my cup of tea)

    • SendPicsofSandwiches
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      Right? My immediate thought was just that is is awful communication and everyone would have a better time if they just said something in either scenario

  • @[email protected]
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    106 months ago

    I am of the opinion that orgasming is one‘s responsibility. One orgasms with their partners. I see sex as a kind of shared masturbation.

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    I don’t give a damn if the hooker orgasms or not. I just want to bust a nut and dance with the hooker dressed up to look like my mom.

    • Flying SquidM
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      I kissed a girl and I liked it, but as I’m a heterosexual man, that’s not especially transgressive.

      • @[email protected]
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        Let’s be honest, two girls kissing, I have never seen anyone have an issue with that as long as they also kissed boys. Also kiss is a euphenism here. Yes lesbians were seen as wgtow and somewhat persecuted but bi-curious hetero girls? Absolutely never seen that even hinted at. In fact a lot of pop culture put that on a pedestal. Because it’s hot.

        • @[email protected]
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          Unavailability to men, real or perceived without monastic levels of chastity is often where the persecution comes in. It tends to be directed towards lesbians, but bi women often face it once they are seen as not partaking in men’s fetishization of them

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            Are bi women not seen as available? I mean, are they bi sexual if they don’t consider men as potential partners? It seems to me if they don’t, then they’re lesbians and yes I agree this is more stigmatized by the diseased culture.

            • @[email protected]
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              Well my friend’s wife is still very much bisexual despite being monogamously married to a woman.

              Another friend’s fiancée decided to stop pursuing men before she met her wife to be, but she remains attracted to men.

              My two friends in these situations are, like me, lesbians and just not attracted to men, as opposed to choosing not to pursue them for other reasons