I bet this male has never interacted with a left leaning person his entire life and is just wildly swinging.
@FlyingSquid “Ok, then. That was always allowed!”
He must have been tired of people whistling at him from behind… Hmmm
i love the hanky
So he’s saying he’s a proud, boy?
You’re not a man until you’ve had a man
There was that meme that I read that I can’t remember but paraphrasing.
How straight people will never ever be 100% confident they’re straight. But if you sex a person of the same gender and don’t like it, only then can you with no uncertainty, be 100% confident you’re straight.
Even then it might have been the wrong person. I never felt attracted to another man so far but how can I be really 100% (!!!) sure there is not ‘the one’ out there unless I meet them all? :D
Only way for 100% certainty is to bone them all. 🏳️🌈
But what if they’re just performing poorly the first time? Shouldn’t we give everyone at least a second chance?
What if you did that and kinda liked it, but the uncertainty is still there? Asking for myself.
ah yes the ye ol’ adage does proclaim as such:
You are what you eat! ;)So I am a three Turkey sandwiches and six cans of Mt. Dew code red on this day.
That’s a very complicated way to spell “insecurity”.
These idiots take other people being proud of who they are as a personal attack against males. I debate if it’s insecurity or ego to think it’s all about them. You can be proud to be male, it’s just kind of dickish since society has literally never cared about you being male.
I do find it quite weird when people claim to be proud of something for which they did nothing to achieve it. Like, his shirt literally says that he was born male. I guess, he did manage to get successfully born, so uh good job?
It’s a last resort.
Nationality, race, sex all are things that can’t be taken away from you. Even the lowest of the low lives still can look down on mexicans, blacks, women because at least he’s not that!
Attacking these last resorts by making them not matter, is an attack on the flimsy sense of self worth these people have. You can’t be proud to be a man if it doesn’t matter that you’re a man.
I mean chance/luck is a huge part of everything. Sure you can nudge things a bit here or there but you really shouldn’t be proud of anything you “accomplish” if you think about all the luck involved.
I’ve never been prouder of that time I rolled 2 dice and got 12. A breathtaking, crowning achievement where all my years of hard work or education or whatever paid off.
They WERE 20-sided, though…
You should now lecture others (who can’t even afford to buy 2 dice) how you did it and they can do it, too.
In a hyper-individuelistic society where everyone is constantly being compared and judged, the feeling that you’re better than everyone else brings incredible relief. Of course the concept of being better than others is deeply flawed but you never learned to question these things. So how do you achieve the feeling? Study hard, lift others around you, save your money. Sure, but that takes years, and it’s hard work. So what if you’re inherently better than others-- that solves it. Race, language, gender, nationaliry… All things that cost you no effort. There’s another shortcut to these feelings. All you have to do to in order to become better than most of the population and get into to heaven is say that you believe the Bible. That’s it. Just gotta say you believe it and you’re in the club. Zero effort, all the dopamine. Supporting some sports team. Buying a particular car. Using what you buy to signal to others something about you. Bumper stickers, adding a ribbon to your profile picture, posting some cringe on LinkedIn, attention seeking on your birthday… All attempts to showcase how excellent you are with minimal effort.
So if your entire sense of self worth is based on attributes about you which you were either born with or cost you no effort, you’ll want to support anyone who places importance on those things. Nationality, consumerism, race, gender, religion, etc.
Ironically this man is very very gay
I mean, the shirt does say that he’s fucking male…
Actually, it says he’s “fukin’” male. Lol
And invites you to “deal” with it 😘
I question the fuckin’ part. Don’t think he’s getting laid.
fukin’, even. Fuin’!
According to the handkerchief code, he’s a bottom that gives handies
I used to wear a black kerchief around my left wrist when I was hiking, for wiping sweat and washing face, TIL I’m a strong SM top when I’m on the trails. Not quite sure what that means but I’m willing to learn.
Do you need a hiking buddy? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Always! I can even carry some of your stuff, I’m quite strong and experienced!
That’s some real top energy right there
I had a yellow one sticking out… and found out about the codes that evening.
It means you’re a dom
His vest says he’s proud of fukin’ males. So, that checks out.
I think being bottom is about getting fucked.
Are you familiar with the phrase “power bottom”?
American queer people were like, “hankies!” and British queer people were like, “they’re going to treat us like criminals, so let’s use the secret criminal language.” And then they were like, “fuck you, we’re teaching it to everyone else.”
Well, we take the hankies out when someone catches a whiff of Lily Law or Jennifer Justice.
But for real, both are really cool means of coded communication. Hankies are definitely less of a “Gay men” thing than a leather community thing, though that’s getting into niche enough subcultural divisions that it’s not the sort of thing most people care to learn and there’s really no point for them to. But yeah the hankies partly served the same role as polari, it’s a way to communicate illegal desires in a way that requires being taught the code. It’s actually quite similar to learning drug slang, except with a higher barrier to entry back in the day.
Really I just like introducing people to Polari because I think it’s cool.
That’s fair, I love the language (or is it a cant?), especially considering it’s the only language I know to be descended from thieves cant. The use of language for such purposes is fascinating because it’s easy to see how many people have or had some version of something like it in our own lives, just slang we use so only people we want to understand us do, especially as teenagers.
I cannot with these codes… “Cop”. “Copsucker” 😭
Man, and I thought Pokemon was complicated.
The trick is you only learn the ones you like, the hell nos, and the common ones.
Red/white gingham referencing park sex plus mosquito netting referencing outdoor sex has got me rolling
Fist fuckee
So many slight variations of red… that could get confusing with how different each one is lol.
TIL the LGBT scene is gatekeeping out the colorblind
Damn you beat me to it lmao
You identify as a cis heterosexual he/him and AMAB?
Good for you, you know that was always an option regardless of the LGBTQ movement?
I ‘love’ it when someone belonging to the most priviliged group there is acts like they’re oppressed. Like, oh you’re a cishet male he/him? Good for you, I don’t care.
Some people would have just cut their hair to give the societal cue about their gender, but I give this guy credit for making a special pronoun vest instead of conforming.
(Not only) Metalheads will give you a weird look for such statements.
New drag king fit just dropped:
Just think about the sad, long life of Janet… This man’s first cousin and long time beard that microwaves his Hormel chili each night.
The door on the closet this guy is trapped in is shaking on its hinges…
