Having tried all three, its a stark difference in how much more social Lemmy is comparatively. Its not even close. Almost all posts I’ve encountered on lemmy have interaction; whereas, more often than not, posts on the other two platforms have no interaction. Wonder what the driving factor is behind this difference?

    • @[email protected]
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      Doesn’t mbin federate with Mastodon? I’ve been thinking about moving to an mbin server for that reason…

      • sunzu2
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        it can but that depends on your server but I can tell you that implementation is rough, but the bones are there.

        shop around mbin servers!

  • @[email protected]
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    I’ve never heard of Nostr but Mastodon is a twitter clone and I don’t find that style of website suits discussion well since you subscribe to accounts rather than communities.

    • @[email protected]
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      You follow hashtags. It’s what I do and it’s been a good experience so far.

      It’s about the same as on Lemmy engagement-wise.

    • Khrux
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      I’ve never understood what twitter style websites are actually for. They seem to have a tiny niche of celebrities and known personalities making a statement with no reasonable conversation stemming from it.

      I don’t understand how that structure was once one of the largest social media platforms in the first place.

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        In my experience Twitter was for modern Seinfeld jokes, mastodon is for monsterdon Sundays at 9pm et, and Lemmy is for commenting on Internet stuff.

      • @[email protected]
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        the content is github

        a distribution / marketing site is pypi

        you are interacting with technologists.

        The content already exists. And are interacting around that content. Rather than generating more and more content forever in a loop leading to nothing but more noise.

        And you have direct access to these people! If a reasonable conversation is lacking it’s cuz you are not bringing the party to the bar.

        You are the star that makes the conversation happen.

        So dial up a person 100x smarter than you. And find something to ask them.

        Like a ChatGPT but will actual intelligence and passion at the other end.

    • mesa
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      It’s an interesting dynamic!

      I find myself talking more on lemmy as others say because it’s easier/made for talking about topics. Mastodon and other fedi services center around following the account that made a thing rather than the thing(s) themselves. And that’s fine, both have their place.

      • @[email protected]
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        I think the other aspect is the easy to follow discussion threads. IMO it’s the cleanest way to show and follow branching discussions.

        • mesa
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          16 months ago

          I do like how it “looks” the most on topics. I wish mastodon had something similar revolving around their posts/hashtags.

  • edric
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    I assume because people follow topics on lemmy, unlike microblogging where people have to follow each other to interact (one-to-many vs one-to-one). So it’s easier to interact with many people that you don’t necessarily had to be following prior, which increases the chances of interacting with more people.

    • Yog-Sothoth
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      you can follow hashtags. I follow #opensource and a few other interests and I’ve found some interesting stuff you don’t generally see in other places. but yes, the format is completely different and I find lemmy allows for better discussion than Mastodon.

      • Snot Flickerman
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        Yeah Mastodon seems way less about discussion and way more about surfacing cool shit you wouldn’t otherwise see.

  • @[email protected]
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    I left reddit for lemmy on the big migration but I though it wouldn’t last. Here I am years after. I enjoy lemmy a lot more than I ever did Reddit.

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      I came here in the Reddit migration too, right after the API thing. I like that this place is still small - it has the community feeling that you only saw in Reddit in small, focused subs

    • @[email protected]
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      One thing I’ve found on lemmy that was almost impossible to see on reddit…

      People apologizing for being incorrect. Also, people having actual conversations, without the immediate influx of “No, YOURE WORNG!” people.

      • @[email protected]
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        I think it helps that Lemmy is so small, we know we’re going to encounter each other again.

        • @[email protected]
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          I hope it remains so! Its a big reason why I’m really keen on instance defederating, and such. Make the “island chains” just a touch disconnected, to keep monkey sphere’s small.

  • Cowbee [he/they]
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    Lemmy is discussion focused, the bulk of content is the comments guided by posts. Mastadon/nostr are about microblogging, the posts are the focus of content, not the comments.

    • @[email protected]
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      you are missing out. Which is much worse than just being wrong.

      The focus of mastodon is on the people, not the comments.

      Deeply care about the other person and then you’ll be interacting with someone you admire

      The comments are topics they find interesting and want to share.

      With coders, when they post something, is usually mostly signal.

  • @[email protected]
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    Mastodon is so boring for me. Some people boost me because I discuss my research or Linux but rarely any engagement

    • kratoz29
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      What really kills my engagement with Mastodon (aside for never being a regular Twitter user) is that posts in undesired languages still filter in my feed (I follow hashtags) even when I set up only two languages… Not everyone is filtering theirs I guess…

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        Stop with the feeds entirely from randos.

        the streaming noise in arabic then French and Chinese is trying to drive the point home that u are doing something obviously wrong

        try grabbing that French poster by the Freedom fries and get to know him.

        Ask him about his adventures in Africa. Bet his colonial exploits come with some insights

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          Yeah exactly, I have no language issues while using Lemmy clients.

  • @[email protected]
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    mastodon is like an oasis in a sea of noise.

    Concentrate on the signal, not the noise.

    Build relationships with people you care about.

    The problem with mastodon might turn out to be having a heart lacking in empathy. Need to be able to care enough to want to be associated with someone you admire.

    We live amongst rock stars. How can anyone completely miss that?! The problem is neither the platform nor the rock stars.

    Don’t need a sea of people. Need 10 or 5 or 3. As long as they are rock stars. I count my blessings daily.

    It’s clearly how approach to using mastodon. Small tweak to your mindset and you can get alot out of the platform.

    Dial up a super hero and tell them they are awesome.

    Go to pypi

    Find packages you like and their maintainers.

    Hook up with them and tell them they are awesome, but found a few things that doesn’t make sense in the docs. Whatever the approach. You are in!

    Do it now.

    It’ll take all of 5 mins.

  • Monkey With A Shell
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    The format is certainly more conducive to discussion. On the flip side though since communities reside in spaces and are moderated by individuals here, compared to the more ‘broadcast’ nature of using tags on Mastodon, you end up with some really bad echo chambers on Lemmy. Just a quick look at a basic news community between instances will show a massive slant depending who runs it. With Mastodon people talk more globally and the obnoxious ones just get blocked en-masse rather than so much being at a mod’s whim.

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      tags?

      do the research to track down exactly who to interacting with.

      then what would be the use of tags? Force of habit. Something to do to pass the time?

    • davel [he/him]
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      On the flip side though since communities reside in spaces and are moderated by individuals here, compared to the more ‘broadcast’ nature of using tags on Mastodon, you end up with some really bad echo chambers on Lemmy

      These are two sides of the same coin, one side you called community and the other side you called echo chamber. Whether a particular community/echo chamber is “bad” or “good” is a matter of your interpretation.

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        To reword using more proper terms for the system, ‘communities reside in instances’. A community called ‘news’ on .world’s instance is a far different thing than on hexbear for example.

        An echochamber is just a trait of a given community where any dissenting views from the home instance mods are reported and deleted. At least those actions are visible via the modlogs on here so it stays transparent though.

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          The problem with “free speech” instances is that it supports the dominant narrative, regardless of validity, and in many cases this results in far-right views being dominant as they aren’t removed and everyone else leaves. This means some degree of “censorship” is required to run an instance. Further, everyone has a bias, so it’s important to make that bias clear. The difference between news on .world and news on hexbear is liberal-domination or leftist domination in views.

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            I’ll generally agree to all that. What I notice though is that far left instances (and I imagine far right as well, though I don’t think I’ve really seen any on Lemmy) are far quicker to delete and ban than a more centrist instance who are more prone to let the argument play out unless it gets outright hostile/personal. When that delete button is too easy to use you get where someone can’t have a proper discussion at all.

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              There’s a difference in how “censorship” is conducted on, say, Lemmy.world vs Hexbear.net. Lemmy.world does soft censorship, they outright defederated from the 2 largest leftist instances. In a manner, this can be seen as banning every account from the 2 largest leftist instances, an extreme act of censorship, but it isn’t recognized as such because it is soft. Outright removals of comments and posts are seen as hard censorship, as you remove viewpoints and people, which Hexbear does frequently with liberals and other right-wingers.

              Lemmy.world uses this curated audience as a “narrative ecosystem,” by removing any input from the largest leftist instances, there’s no real leftist pushback against the dominant liberal narrative, and when there is, it usually gets heavily downvoted or removed. Hexbear on the other hand takes a more honest approach, and just says outright that liberalism isn’t allowed and is bannable.

              I wouldn’t say the leftist communities are more heavy handed, but that they are more honest and forthright with how they exert control over their communities, it’s more transparent.

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                I’d expect if there was an equivalent of ‘gab’ or ‘truth social’ they would be defederated too. I can understand an action like that because people join these places specifically because it’s an echo chamber fitting their viewpoints and they’re allowed and even encouraged to be hostile to outsiders.

                With the way the fedi is set up you can certainly set up multiple accounts, and I’m sure there are more than a couple from those instances cut off that create accounts elsewhere to have those conversations. The difference being that they’re expected to behave in a civil fashion rather than just screaming at others.

                On my single-user instance I haven’t defederated anyone and only blocked a handful of outright spam/troll accounts and a couple who seem to have a single life purpose to push an agenda.

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                  There actually are those instances, they are just broadly defederated, lol.

                  There are definitely people that make accounts elsewhere to “engage beyond the wall” so to speak, but Hexbear and Lemmygrad for example exist for their own users, not as a “base of operations” for widespread brigading like some claim. It’s nice to visit spaces free from liberalism and constant arguing, as a Marxist-Leninist myself. I also think the “screaming” type of behavior is more frequently found on liberal instances than leftist ones, but that’s anecdotal and I have no way to prove it, other than the suggestion that perhaps our implicit bias clouds what we percieve as civil and what as “screaming” in the context of comment debates.

  • ☆ Yσɠƚԋσʂ ☆
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    I find microblogging format isn’t really great for having any sort of meaningful discussion. Mastodon is good for posting news or memes, but that’s about it. Lemmy format allows having an actual dialogue, and that makes it a lot more engaging.

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        it doesn’t matter what Europe does or does not do.

        What matters is access to energy. Without which the civilization dies.

        Where the journalists are therefore is irrelevant. Unless they’re packing their bags.

        Or they have hidden a mobile fusion reactor in their basement and just bidding the time.

    • @[email protected]
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      Lemmy format allows having an actual dialogue

      It’s great for seeing existing dialogue, but I think it falls short for long term discussion between more than two people.

      On a non-threaded board (e.g. forums, github issues) you can watch a thread you’re interested in. On Lemmy/reddit you only get notifications for direct responses to your comments.

      I think some sort of option to watch/unwatch whole subtrees of comments would help a lot.

      • ☆ Yσɠƚԋσʂ ☆
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        I haven’t thought of that, but that’s actually a neat idea. You’re right that Lemmy format works best for two people having a discussion, and it becomes messy to track larger conversations with more people. What often ends up happening is that the person who made the original top level comment ends up having many separate conversations with different people.

        I haven’t actually seen a good way to represent discussions between a group of people now that I think of it. Having watch functionality helps you know when replies show up, but it would be neat if different people replying could also be aware of what they’re all saying.

    • @[email protected]
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      mastodon is awesome if you actually can bring yourself to want to interact with a real person.

      If you can’t get anything out of mastodon you cannot get anything out of interacting with another human being.

      Find someone to care about. Force yourself to care about them.

      • ☆ Yσɠƚԋσʂ ☆
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        I prefer my interactions with other human beings to be deeper and more meaningful than what the format offers.

  • @[email protected]
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    Honestly, I think is the whole ”First Post” mindset.

    When you post a reply on Mastodon, it is more intimate, the only people who see it are the original tooter and anyone who actively seeks more commentary. It is a dialogue between two people, or multiple dialogues between one person and many others.

    Lemmy is more like a forum, where everyone can see all comments, right underneath the original post. It is more like an open-table discussion.

    It is not that Lemmy is more social, it is just less personal.

    • ✺roguetrick✺
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      One of the big things driving interaction is that Lemmy’s default comment sorting algorithm is a bit backwards to reddit’s. As long as you get upvoted once, newer comments will appear at the top. So even if you participate late in a discussion, you’re likely going to get responded to by other latecomers.

      • @[email protected]
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        The fact that comments are prioritised by simple rules, an not by some sort of monolithic ALGORITHM, keeps the discussion dynamic.

          • @[email protected]
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            I am inferring a difference between an algorithm that is based on simple rules, and an algorithm that is constantly being dishonestly modified for commercial, political and financial benefit.