Dear lemmings, I have questions.

As a receiver, do you prefer cum in or on you?

As a sender, do you prefer cum in or on your partner(s)?

  • @[email protected]
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    74 months ago

    As a sender, I prefer cum in my partner. There’s something that happens in my brain - maybe it’s carnal? I just get this primitive satisfaction. Or maybe I just have a breeding kink.

    • @[email protected]
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      74 months ago

      I think it’s strange that it’s called a breeding kink, or a creampie kink. Like, that’s just how sex is supposed to work? It’s everybody else who are weird.

      • @[email protected]
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        24 months ago

        I agree with that. It’s the opposite of a kink. Not that everything else isn’t sex, it is. But the plainest sex of all, the farthest from kinky, is PIV to finish inside.

  • @[email protected]
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    64 months ago

    If she doesn’t want it on her it’s going on the floor. I’m not about to risk a child because “it feels better.”

    I used to date a girl who took birth control and preferred I just do it inside. But I also know a couple who got pregnant while using birth control.

    That relationship didn’t last long.

  • @[email protected]
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    64 months ago

    If she lets me cum in her, then it’s awesome. If not, then mouth or face, tits or ass in that order.

  • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈
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    54 months ago

    I’m a bi guy, and I have the same preferences when I’m sender or receiver.

    Penetration: inside, because there’s no change of pace. I always use condoms, I don’t care about creampie

    Blowjob: outside, because you never know. An unexpectedly huge/powerful load, an unexpected taste, hitting the back of the throat… The risk of retch (me or my partner) is a deal breaker for me

    • @[email protected]
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      4 months ago

      BJ, I just want warning. My ex was the first one I’d done that with and his cum so voluminous and foul, I thought all guys tasted like that and would gag when I saw or read about swallowing.
      But spitting it out and washing out my mouth worked fine. Nobody since him has had such a foul taste or such a huge load; he was a once a week guy (so didn’t get many blow jobs since I didn’t want to miss my only chance) and also unholy fertile - I got pregnant literally every time we didn’t use something, and he got his allegedly infertile, (40 years old and had never used birth control, never gotten pregnant and had some condition her doctor said made her infertile) girlfriend pregnant too. So I wonder if literal sperm are disgusting in flavor?

      • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈
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        24 months ago

        Even though I don’t want my partners to end up in my mouth, I sometimes taste a little by accident and I don’t mind: usually, it’s rather bland and a little salty.

        But once, a guy had a really unpleasant taste, a kind of bitterness. Yucky.

        Maybe it was a matter of diet or maybe he was a smoker, I don’t know.

  • @[email protected]
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    74 months ago

    As a giver, my preference is mouth or face, followed by in, followed by titties or ass. I like cum play so seeing a partner playing with or swallowing it after is really hot, and if I get a messy cummy smile its even better

  • @[email protected]
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    13 months ago

    Personally, as a receiver, for cleaning, I’d rather inside because I just run to the bathroom afterwards but if I’m really turned on I’d say facial or back shots. It just depends on the feeling and position tbh

  • @[email protected]
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    13 months ago

    As a receiver, I enjoy both in me and on me, it really depends on how I’m feeling that day. I only allow in me with guys I’m in a long term, committed relationship with.

  • JandJ
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    94 months ago

    On me, always. I love seeing it shoot and seeing it and feeling it on me. I like it on my pussy best but enjoy it anywhere.

    BF prefers on as well as he loves watching me get off to him painting me. But he’d happily cream pie me if I asked for it.

  • @[email protected]OP
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    154 months ago

    Personally, as a sender I enjoy much to cum in my partner. Never understood the glory of a money shot in porn. On the other hand filling your partners ass and then plugging them, that’s something I love.

    • K.K.
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      64 months ago

      Getting my ass filled and then plugged back up is on my bucket list!

  • @[email protected]
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    34 months ago

    As a sender, I’m good with inside. I’ve been vasectomized so I’ve been creampieing for years with no unwanted additions. Second would be her swallowing, I haven’t done outside shots in so long but I wouldn’t say no to doing it.

  • @[email protected]
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    14 months ago

    Even if my partner is willing I never shoot on her. It’s degrading. So Always in her pussy or ass for me

    • @[email protected]
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      33 months ago

      Ignoring your partner’s preference is just awful. She may have reasons she doesn’t want you cumming inside her, especially the risk of pregnancy or needing plan B.

  • K.K.
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    94 months ago

    I’m such a sub that my honest answer to both is “whatever my partner finds hottest” 😅

    But if you forced me to choose: I’d take it in the mouth, and give it in the pussy/ass.

  • @[email protected]
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    124 months ago

    Inside, absolutely.

    Outside is just for porn, I don’t understand wanting that for participating in sex. We evolved to want it in us.