I try to join about 5 minutes before because I’m terrified of being the first person or the last.

  • @[email protected]
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    16 months ago

    I like joining 5+ mins early so I can just sit in silence and work while waiting for the meeting to start rather than stressing about needing to lock at the clock (j have adhd and tend to hyperfocus). plus I dont mind a little small talk, but even so no one else on my team seems to want to smalltalk so even if someone else joins early it’s pretty quiet

  • @[email protected]
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    66 months ago

    Exactly on point, because there’s always people early or late. This way I neither have to start it nor be embarresed to be the last.

    Also:

    A wizard is never late, nor is he early, he arrives precisely when he means to

  • @[email protected]
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    46 months ago

    Whenever I remember there is a meeting on. Have to keep those damned outlook 15min reminders on screen or I will forget

    • @[email protected]
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      36 months ago

      Sometimes people don’t include the reminder in their outlook invite. They have no right to expect me to show up at all if they do that. At the very least, they need to apologize when they send me the stupid “Are you attending my meeting?” Slack message.

      I never cared about your meeting, Derek. No one cared about it. We only show up to meetings when Outlook tells us it’s time. Our calendars are just endless strings of soul-sucking meetings no one wants to be on, and I will never check mine pre-emptively. I accept everything I’m invited to, Derek. Everything. We all do. Remember the fucking reminder, Derek.

  • @[email protected]
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    516 months ago

    I join when the meeting reminder pops up and I click “join”, right on time. I don’t like small talk, no point in being early.

    • Boomer Humor Doomergod
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      116 months ago

      Plus it’s not like there’s anything happening in the first couple minutes. The more people who are in the meeting the more likely someone will be late anyway.

      • @[email protected]
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        146 months ago

        I feel like people who join really early are basically saying “Tell me you have nothing to do without telling me you have nothing to do.”

        • Kate-ayOP
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          106 months ago

          Probably people who were raised by military parents. My instinct is to join early as fuck, like 10 minutes. I blame my father forcing me to show up early for everything.

            • @[email protected]
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              76 months ago

              I had a job like that some years ago, where you were expected to arrive at 540-45 to pregame the day but not clock in until 6. Kind of unspoken, but you knew it was frowned upon if you showed up right at 6 by the death glares (they knew they couldn’t mandate being early because laws, but it was just a soft expectation). Someone must have said something, because they don’t do that anymore, I’m sure that went over super well for whoever said something.

        • Rhynoplaz
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          66 months ago

          Sometimes I join really early BECAUSE I have stuff to do. I lose track of time, so I’ll open the reminder and keep the room running in the background while I accomplish something else, once I hear someone talking, I’ll switch tabs and focus on the meeting.

        • @[email protected]
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          46 months ago

          Not quite. I join on time because I’m busy and if I don’t join now I will completely forget. I just keep working until everyone else gets there and the I’ll turn on my camera and mic.

      • @[email protected]
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        26 months ago

        I teach over teams. I plan bullshit for the first 5 - 10 minutes, because there will always be late people.

  • Boomer Humor Doomergod
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    46 months ago

    If it’s a customer meeting I’ll join 30 seconds early. If it’s an all hands or has big wigs in it then I’ll join 10 seconds early. Smaller internal meetings I can be 10-300 seconds late.

  • Shadow
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    656 months ago

    If I’m running the meeting, 5 minutes. If it’s large group meeting, 2 mins early. If it’s 1:1, right on time.

  • @[email protected]
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    156 months ago

    Usually anywhere from 2 to 5min before because my stupid ass laptop has a 50% chance of just forgetting how audio devices work and I have to test them every time.

  • @[email protected]
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    46 months ago

    Usually exactly on time, but if I’m doing something that requires concentration and there’s a chance I might lose track of time I might join 5 min earlier so that I don’t miss the meeting.

    Aren’t you always the first 5 min before? I know that the times I joined even a minute or two early I’ve always been the first.

  • HubertManne
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    26 months ago

    if im invited then right on time if I host then one minute early, maybe 2. usually. sometimes I have meetings that end 3mins to the next or go over which impact my ability to get to the meeting on time.

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    As late as possible, if I’m actually needed, then I join a minute later to not have to pretend with bs small talk

  • @[email protected]
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    176 months ago

    Usually as soon as Teams notifies me of the first person starting the meeting.

    How can you not always be the first when youre 5min early, wtf xD

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    16 months ago

    I’ve got so many meetings that I just join whenever it’s started by someone and go about my work until the meeting starts. If I’m not the target audience I’ll go off camera and listen if needed.

  • Nabuu
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    Depends on the context.

    • My meeting? Right on time.
    • Team meeting? On time.
    • A meeting I knew about, was on my calendar, and requires my expertise? Right on time, but a lower priority.
    • Something is broken and we’re grouping up? Right on time.
    • A meeting on my calendar that I don’t really need to be in? 2-3 minutes after, I’ll finish what I’m currently engaged in or get to a stopping point.
    • A meeting I’ve been invited to with no additional context? 2-5 minutes late.
    • A meeting I was invited to with no communication/context that is before/after my normal working hours? If I remember and I’m bored.
    • A meeting I was inviting a to outside of my working hours and will start before I come online? Forget about it.

    I work for a global corpo, so the last two happen quite a bit. Time is money friend.

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      My god I need to emulate this. I’m doing it all wrong.