Like, what the fuck. Waiting rooms, libraries, movie theaters, on and on. That same fucking Samsung notification sound, at volume 11/10. For every notification every 20 seconds as Fox/CNN/QVC forces more and more bullshit on you and therefore us. Do you not know that you’re pissing everyone off? Do you not care? I hope it’s because you’re too stupid to turn off sound notifications, but the high volume suggests that you like it and want more. Your generation was the one making us be quiet in public spaces and now you ruin them for everybody. Seriously, fuck you.

  • AmidFuror
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    It’s fun to watch people who probably get pissed off about ableism think it doesn’t apply when they’re mad about old people losing their hearing because they are a political monolith who all voted for Romney and Trump.

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      Do you know what makes hearing videos and stuff on your phone easier when you have hearing loss? Fucking headphones.

    • @[email protected]
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      That’s a pretty weak argument considering that there are other ways to get notifications, such as vibration. Also, if you’re getting notifications every minute or two, there’s no reason to have it play a sound or do anything else. The only reason you need to be notified is when it’s an infrequent occurrence.

  • @[email protected]
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    55 months ago

    I heard a Samsung whistle that ended in a fart sound…12 times in less than five minutes. All numbers are estimated, but I feel like I am undershooting it.

  • @[email protected]
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    35 months ago

    Forgot about that until visiting family in Florida. Phones and medical devices beeping everywhere

  • @[email protected]
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    35 months ago

    Every phone out there that can be heard by people 100m away is the indication of a garbage person, that’s not linked to a brand or a specific group.

    Seriously, fuck you.

  • @[email protected]
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    Yes but it isn’t only boomers. Teenagers do this all the time in public transport (usually watching loud videos) and they don’t have any excuses like for example being half deaf or not knowing how to mute their phone. It is one of the reasons why I prefer driving. I don’t want to have an argument with some stupid shit every time I get on the metro.

    • @[email protected]
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      65 months ago

      If someone actively plays loud shit in public transport, they should get a lifetime ban for it. Nobody likes being on public transport; I’d drive a car if I could. I’m basically forced to be there.

      So if someone actively makes that worse, they should be forced to walk and contemplate their life choices.

      • @[email protected]
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        35 months ago

        TIL that I’m nobody. I chose to live where I live because it meant that I could rely on public transportation and get rid of my car.

    • @[email protected]
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      175 months ago

      Honestly, have people forgotten headphones exist?

      Not long ago, it used to be a mortifying social suicide to be the kind of person that let their phone make a noise in a public place—let alone for an extended period of time!

      • @[email protected]
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        125 months ago

        I’m in my early 40’s. I’m still mortified when the phone makes a sound when it shouldn’t. I always double check it’s on silent while going to a movie for example. Meanwhile there’s fuckheads three rows up playing TikTok at full volume while the trailers are running.

        Honestly, you should legally be allowed to beat someone like that to death with their own device.

        • @[email protected]
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          75 months ago

          Honestly, you should legally be allowed obligated to beat someone like that to death with their own device.

          FTFY.

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        So many phones don’t have headphones jacks anymore, and Bluetooth is a bigger hastle than just plugging in a wire. And all the cheap ones use Micro-B instead of C for charging, so now you have to worry about two wires. USB-C/lightning to Aux adapters are unnecessarily uncommon and take the charging port. Same with wired headphones that have a USB-C or lightning jack.

        The tech companies have made courtesy inconvenient.

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          Bluetooth is a bigger hastle than just plugging in a wire.

          What? Literally every single pair of Bluetooth headphones I own auto connect to my phone by the time I have both buds in my ears.

          And all the cheap ones use Micro-B instead of C for charging

          I bought a cheap pair of $20 anker ones a couple years ago for gardening and they’re USB c. Even the cheapo taotronics I got from AliExpress were USB c. I don’t think micro has been in use for a while now.

          • @[email protected]
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            I have two sets of Bluetooth earbuds/headphones - in ear, and over the ear. But I connect them to my phone, my tablet, my laptop and my PC. They only stay connected to two devices so there are always two devices that aren’t connected. It’s a pain in the ass. I miss wired headphones.

    • @[email protected]
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      175 months ago

      I’d believe some teenagers don’t know how to mute their phone. Tech illiteracy is off the chart these days, especially for young people.

      • @[email protected]
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        65 months ago

        I know engineers in their mid twenties who don’t know what an sd card is, or a megapixel, or the term “specs”. We have reached a stage of populism where people don’t care about anything but brand and just buy the most expensive model

  • @[email protected]
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    Back in my day, we let the entire ringtone play out because it was “Who let the dogs out”, and we paid 99 cents for it. There was no way we would admit that paying for a ringtone was a dumb idea, so we had to justify it any time we got a phone call.

    (By we, I mean millennials, but I never did buy a ringtone. Never understood it, and have used vibrate since my first phone.)

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    For the record, not a boomer, but why are you targeting that group? Everywhere I go it is someone, just as often young as old, that thinks I want to hear their notifications, tiktok, or whatever bullshit of the day they want everyone to hear.

    • @[email protected]OP
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      In my experience, boomers are by far the biggest group who does this. My parents are the worst offenders, so maybe that affects my perception. But any waiting room or library or whatever, it’s almost always boomers when I see it.

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        To be fair, no it isnt.

        It’s black people.

        No it isnt, but you see my point.

        Its inconsiderate assholes, not old people. Inconsiderate assholes are all ages. For instance, you are an inconsiderate asshole.

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        Not my experience at all, seems to be just about anyone can be an asshole.

        I was in the library for the first time in ages, two of them actually. Mixed group of people, pretty busy. I am happy to say I heard not a single notification or phone ring the whole time. I hadn’t thought about it until you mentioned it. That was kind of refreshing. Unlike waiting rooms, the bus, coffee shop, the quiet lounge at the airport. Maybe I got lucky.

      • @[email protected]
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        125 months ago

        As a boomer with tinnitus, (I’ve had since maybe 4 years old), and now hearing loss, I can’t hear shit on my cell phone at 50% volume. And I have alarms set to remind me to take certain inhalers at set times during the day, (Thanks Long Covid!). So, yeah, I have the volume up enough to probably piss you off. It pisses me off too-- I hate those things and having to live like this. But it’s not like turning the volume off or down is really an option for me.

        But chances are I probably forgot the damn thing at home anyway.

        • @[email protected]
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          95 months ago

          Get a smart watch. I have adhd and rarely register notification tones, but my watch vibrating usually gets my attention. You can usually control what apps get to send notifications to it.

          I have the garmin instinct and love it, but I do a lot of outdoor activities.

        • arglebargle
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          I have a uncle with a similar situation. He ended up getting him a smart watch. I don’t remember which, but the search was for the strongest vibrate he could find. The phones vibrate didn’t do the job, but he feels the wrist vibrate.

          He also is used to wearing a watch so he feels weird without it and there fore doesn’t forget it.

          Maybe that could help you.

          • @[email protected]
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            I already wear a smart watch and use the vibrate reminders. It’s not particularly effective. After a lifetime in the harsh sun, there ain’t a lot of feeling left. Maybe once out of three times I might notice the vibration if I’m not distracted doing life things.

      • @[email protected]
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        The most annoying phone thing to me is Zoomers / teens / old people / anyone with videos and music playing from their shitty little phone speakers in public. A lot of kids seem to be phone and tablet addicts and don’t comprehend the noise they’re making is bothering others.

        But a few notification sounds is nothing. It’s all about the quantity and duration and volume. Personally I don’t put my phone on Silent or Vibrate unless I’m in a quiet public place like a movie or an office - but I also control all notifications with a heavy hand, not allowing any bullshit apps notification permission unless it’s an important direct communication.

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          Yeah I don’t get what the issue is with notification sounds.

          I’m not sure what it is, but ever since I got a more modern phone, the vibration motor has just gotten so weak compared to older phones I’ve used. I legitimately do not feel my phone vibrating in my pocket.

          So when I’m at work, if I’m expecting a message, I actually have to turn the sound on and listen for it as opposed to feel it vibrating. I hardly get any notifications tho.

  • @[email protected]
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    55 months ago

    My parents do this. I’ll be sitting across the room at night, playing some hades on my steam deck, and I’ll suddenly get jumpscared by my mum browsing facebook

  • @[email protected]
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    Oh, my absolute favorites are the people that have the volume all the way up and send text messages. You get to hear the send/receive text alert over and over. Then there’s the ones that get the phone call with the obnoxiously loud ring, take forever to find their phone, look at it (still ringing loudly) to see who is calling, and don’t silence the ring while they decide whether or not to answer.

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    Unless I am actively waiting for something, the phone is on vibrate. But even then my attitude is notifications are what I see when I bother to take a look. There is usually nothing that cant wait until I want to take the time to deal with it.

    People are so Pavlovian about their devices, I see it all the time.

  • @[email protected]
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    395 months ago

    Nah it’s Gen Z and their loud iPhone bell notifications.

    WE’RE IN CLASS!! SILENCE YOUR PHONES DAMMIT!

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        125 months ago

        There is almost nothing worse than someone else’s tiktok feed playing out loud in the same room you are.

        It’s insufferable.

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          25 months ago

          Oh god. I’ve got no carpet so sound moves well through my house despite doors being closed. Hearing something looping because they set their phone down while doing something. Why at such high volume child? After about 5 loops I yell.

  • @[email protected]
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    375 months ago

    I don’t know if this is just boomers. I remember a person my age in Uni some years ago who just sat there with her freaking iPhone not silent, end every few minutes a message came with a loud “DING!”