Half of the time I look forward to my death, it doesn’t scare me since I don’t see the real point of my life, what scares me is if my agony would be slow and painful.

But then what? I just stop existing and it’s like I fell asleep? Do I see light? Darkness? Nothing? What is nothing?

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    “What happens when you die” - I assume you mean after you die (not during), and to your consciousness, your awareness rather than your body.

    The same as before you came to be. Not like you fell asleep; you’re gone.

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    It’s just nothing.

    Asking what you experience after death is a nonsensical question, you don’t experience anything at all.

    What did you see/hear/feel/experience back in 1066 during the Norman Conquest of England?

    You weren’t there, you weren’t alive then, so you didn’t experience anything at all.

    That same sort of non-experience is what awaits you after death.

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      How do you know? Can you prove it?

      I have no way to tell, one way or another, so I’m not saying you are objectively wrong.

      But you sound… Categorical.

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    Our soul is weighed against a feather by the holy mother. Not like Mary or whatever, the real all powerful 5th dimension all is one in time and space holy mother.

    If our soul tips the scale against one’s favor then you are reincarnated… you’re reincarnated into tge sane family however the dynamics keeps changing each time you’re born. You’re sister might be your brother next time and you’re a wife in one life then maybe a fatherless uncle in the next. Anyway once we achieve enlightenment, we are given a choice, stop the cycle or keep going

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    If my partner is still alive, then she would be very sad. Likewise my older siblings. God, I hope my parents aren’t alive to see it - that would suck for them. My best bud would also be pretty torn up (we’ve lived within a few blocks of each other for most of the last three decades, and get together at least once a week). There’s also an old ex who if they’re still around, I can count on a great eulogy from them. Makes me wish I could stick around just to see that.

    Unless it’s a particularly horrible death, I don’t think anyone would be dangerously sad. I’m insured to the hilt, so there should be enough to go around to cover expenses, including my partner’s current level of comfort.

    From my perspective, it’s likely to be a big nothing (I would be very surprised otherwise). But I’ve never really put much stock in individual consciousness: sure I may be stuck to this one perspective because of how brains work, so it’s the only consciousness I can truly know, but it’s not the only one. The others (like other other people) will keep going after this one ends. The biggest changes are going to be in the social and legal dimensions of my former life.

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    The mind is what the brain does .

    When the brain stops doing, the mind stops being.

    There is no darkness, there isn’t even nothing, because there’s no you to experience it.

    Where do the ripples on a pond go if the water dries up? There are no ripples, because there’s no longer a pond for them to be on.

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      There is no darkness, there isn’t even nothing, because there’s no you to experience it.

      It’s such a weird concept to get our heads around but this is it, and I personally find it quite comforting. It’s just very hard to explain why!

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    If you believe your self, your awareness, your consciousness are manifestations of neurons firing in a brain, then as soon as those stop, you cease to be.

    I believe that those neurons are a sort of radio signal, and that the self as I know it is a kind of wave transmitted from some time/place. When the body dies and the brain dies with it, I believe that connection is gone, and that signal is lost, but that the time/place from which the signal originated still exists. This doesn’t indicate that I, the self, still am somehow alive or exist in some other way, the specific manifestation of myself as who I an is gone in this case, but I do take some solace in the fact that the signal that propagated the awareness of my own being still goes on.

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    What I think or what I hope?

    I think it will be just like before I was born. I will become nothing.

    I hope that I’m wrong and I will be reunited with my loved ones.

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    You don’t experience anything, not even a sense of ‘nothing’.

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    Do you remember what it was like before you were conceived? Like that.

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    The game will be over, I will remove the VR headset, and continue living my real life. I’m sure in time the memories will fade.

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      63 months ago

      You’ve lived a long life, but a settlement needs your help! Here, I’ll mark it on your map.

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    Nothing. Was in the hospital for a heart attack last year, my heart stopped for 8 seconds. I was 100% completely unaware. Was told later what had happened.

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            Yes, assuming, because you never got an EEG that measured which parts of your brain were active while you slept. Which, wait… Scientists have actually done! Wow, surprise 😐. Who could’ve known it.

            Fucking dumbass.

            E: Hey that’s new, getting downvoted for correcting unscientific wishful thinking magical xmas-land-mumbo-jumbo. Enjoy your minerals and tarot cards, you litany of buffoons 🙄…

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      Over 4 minutes for me. Can confirm, no concept of time. I slowly became aware of a noise that turned out to be my own breath from chest compressions. Then I became present again.

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        Some days are more challenging than others, I spent the last two weeks with the flu and WANTED to die. ;)

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    Either of two things:

    Nothing. However, I don’t think most people quite grasp the meaning of that. Kind of how they think that before the big bang there was just empty space. No, empty space is not nothing. There’s no empty space, there’s no time, there’s nothing. By definition it cannot be experienced. Experience simply ends. It’s as if nothing ever happened. The universe could just as well have never existed.

    The more optimistic theory is that consciousness is in a way immortal. You can only experience being, not not-being. It’s kind of how when you go under general anesthesia and then wake up it’s quite unlike sleeping. When you’ve slept you have the sense of time having passed in between. With general anesthesia this is not the case. One moment you feel sleepy and then you wake up in another room. From your subjective experience you never lost consciousness to begin with. Whose to say that something similar doesn’t happen with death. Instead of experience ending it just moves elsewhere. It’s a pretty difficult concept to explain but it’s somewhat similar to the idea of quantum immortality.