Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

Mine would be :

“Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country” (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one’s identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

How about you?

  • @[email protected]
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    “Nobody will take care of you if you don’t take care of yourself”

    Apply this to pushing back on contracts, double checking what you’re asked to do, and putting yourself first, and you’ll get a lot more respect in my experience. If you primarily put others first, your self will feel neglected. It doesn’t mean you should not care for others, but that your highest priority should be yourself, and then others.

    • CadenzaOP
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      24 months ago

      A life lesson I’ll learn one day. Trying my best though, but it’ll take time. Thanks for sharing.

  • Lovable Sidekick
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    204 months ago

    You are under no obligation to be the same person you were five minutes ago. - Alan Watts

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    94 months ago

    “Time flies, time crawls You’re a prisoner trapped between its claws Life sucks, sometimes You gotta learn to live between the lines”

    Pretty much as written. Time marches forward no matter how I feel about it. My best friend died, people still sat in traffic on the way to work. My wife said she wanted a divorce, the mailman still brought me bills. I made the best chilli I’ve ever tasted and my neighbors cat disappeared. You gotta learn to just accept that life is fleeting and carve out your own space. Find your own joy. Bring your own good time. Because life doesn’t owe you anything and moaning about it won’t make things better.

    • @[email protected]
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      54 months ago

      And you run and you run to catch up with the sun, but it’s sinking Racing around to come up behind you again. The sun is the same in a relative way but you’re older Shorter of breath and one day closer to death

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    264 months ago

    “It’ll never be the same”
    In context, meaning that things can never go back to the way they were… Ever.

    For me it’s like a grounding statement. Whenever I start thinking about some past time and just want things to go back to how they were, I remember this. My mind shifts to the future and I forget that nostalgic feeling because I remember that it can never be.

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      Oh, yeah. There’s another one like this for me, a very short poem I read when I was a teenager :

      “Ah, what are they dreaming…? Those who say, say, say… Yesterday I was there, today I was here”

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    884 months ago

    Something my grandpa said, sometime around 2006-2007 I think.

    “The next world war, will be between the rich and and the poor, and the rich will win before the poor knows there’s a war.”

    • @[email protected]
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      94 months ago

      This is unfortunate, but at the rate we are currently going this might come into fruition. 😢

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        104 months ago

        I believe the first part is already occuring, it’s the last half that I hope is wrong.

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    364 months ago

    The opposite of love is not hate, but apathy.

    Truly hating something takes passion, energy and time out of your day. It also taught me that for masters of personal interest, if you truly need to end a relationship with someone, you simply stop responding. It’s far more effective than loudly proclaiming what you feel they do wrong. That will take far more away from you than if you cut ties.

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    194 months ago

    "They say, ‘Evil prevails when good men fail to act.’ What they ought to say is, ‘Evil prevails.’

    Bleak quote from Lord of War that has stuck with me. Reminds me of Sophie Scholl.

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      I am reminded of: “The law cannot protect anyone unless it binds everyone; and it cannot bind anyone unless it protects everyone.”

      The lesser known conclusion to Wilhoits Law.

      https://crookedtimber.org/2018/03/21/liberals-against-progressives/

      "Conservatism consists of exactly one proposition, to wit:

      There must be in-groups whom the law protectes but does not bind, alongside out-groups whom the law binds but does not protect."

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    84 months ago

    Dad told me when I was young to “learn to drink your coffee black and cold and you’ll never be disappointed.”

    I don’t think he was just talking about coffee.

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    “Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good.”

    I would be so far ahead of where I am right now if I had just decided on a course and committed instead of analyzing all the choices to death.

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    “Do to others as you want done too you” Wouldnt say its under rated just not actually followed by the masses that preach it but i prefer to say “dont treat people how you wouldnt want to be treated”

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      44 months ago

      IMO some people take this too literally. Just because you want to be treated a certain way doesn’t mean other people want to be treated that way.

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        While that is true. i think it’s more on a deeper level that everyone just wants to be loved.

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    164 months ago

    Mine is not as deep as yours and kind of cheesy since you see them in posters, Tshirts and stickers etc. it’s “pain is temporary, glory is forever.” This sentence helped me get through college while working mad hours just to pay for my tuition while writing essays and studying for exams. I would repeat this over and over to myself just to get through that day or moment hoping things would be better.