Discord was already succumbing to enshitification. Now with their intention to be owned by Wall Street, that trajectory will certainly accelerate at warp speed once the change of hands happens.

Anyone already get ahead of this and find a solid alternative?

Right now I’m on the fence between Element for Matrix, and Revolt. Both seem to have their pros and cons and I can’t find a clear “winner”.

  • @[email protected]
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    126 days ago

    Not entirely related, but why do so many people use Discord? What’s the appeal? I only ever used it as a replacement vor teamspeak or ventrilo. And I honestly hate most online games.

    • @[email protected]
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      426 days ago

      I’ve been using it for several years. I have a small server I use with my IRL friends and it works great.

      • Near 100% availabily
      • Nice sound quality
      • Supports multiple servers for your multiple interests
      • UI is amazing
      • Works fine on every platform
      • Screen sharing / streaming is easy
      • Cool to see what your friends are playing
      • Free plan is more than enough, you can pay for cosmetics or higher stream quality.
      • patrlim
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        124 days ago

        The UI is actually kinda ass, but we all got used to it.

        Me and my friends moved to matrix, but we still use discord for streaming.

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          Compared to the software we were using before such as Skype, TeamSpeak, Ventrilo and Mumble… The UI is amazing.

          I’d happily move to Matrix but I’d lose all the servers for my hobby interests. No point in having both.

      • kr0n
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        124 days ago

        +1. It’s like an IRC channel but improved and easy to use.

        When I started in the online games, we used IRC + TeamSpeak. Now we only use Discord since it has all of them in only one app but it’s better (except the ads), easier and you also has a Mobile App.

  • @[email protected]
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    229 days ago

    Way too few mentions of Jitsi.

    I use it with friends, it has good server config, and I’m pushing it on businesses.

      • @[email protected]
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        129 days ago

        It’s voice and video calling with chat and screensharing. I intend to use it for a language school. It’s extendable, for instance you can also self-host a whiteboard, where everyone can draw. You can see the drawing in real time, which is good for asian languages, where direction of the stroke is important.

        Free, open-source, packaged in Debian, runs without issues, used it with friends for multi-hour voice chats during gaming nights.

        On the server you can configure things like FPS for screenshare. I have yet to adjust that and try streaming video/game through it.

    • @[email protected]
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      028 days ago

      they are owned by a Nasdaq-listed company. does that not the defeat the purpose when OP is trying to avoid Wall Street-ownership?

      • @[email protected]
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        128 days ago

        Discord is a completely proprietary walled-garden that bans third-party clients to maintain full control AND (soon) has Wall-Street-ownership.

        Jitsi is open-source built with multiple open protocols BUT has Wall-Street-ownership.

        Neither is great, but these are two distinctly different situations.

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      51 month ago

      honestly that isnthe only thing that stopd me from going all in on teamspeak/mumble

      i just need a screen sharing solution (not necessarily built into those tools)

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      The problem is that performant screenshare (to multiple users) more or less requires infrastructure. That requires money, and it’s impossible to compete on price with services that have the VC-enshitification model.

      You can get around this in a few ways, but they’re all tradeoffs that are in some way or other worse than discord.

      • P2P - sacrifice latency, reliability
      • direct multi-stream - sacrifice PC performance and/or bitrate
      • paid infrastructure - sacrifice money
      • @[email protected]
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        261 month ago

        I think P2P is still the way to go. Sure it’s not perfect, but it’s simpler and by it’s very nature doesn’t require the infrastructure we know will be a problem.

        Plus, don’t forget screen sharing in discord isn’t very good as is (720p30) if you’re not a paid user.

    • MrSpArkle
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      330 days ago

      Most of the discords I’m on never use screen share for anything.

    • Prinz Kasper
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      229 days ago

      TeamSpeak recently added screen share to their TS6 beta, however it currently only works on official servers provided by TeamSpeak; they have not yet released TS6 server software, only the client. To my understanding, they are thankfully still planning on releasing it though.

    • riquisimo
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      730 days ago

      What if you had OBS create a “camera” of your screen, and then use that through video chat?

  • katy ✨
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    1829 days ago

    if discord is going public they don’t need my turbo sub anymore

    • @[email protected]
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      429 days ago

      Cancelled mine when they redesigned the mobile app anyway. I don’t want a different interface on mobile vs desktop. I want a unified experience, which was their original purpose.

    • poVoq
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      81 month ago

      Jitsi-meet is already using xmpp under the hood.

      But there are some efforts to add multi-user video calls to full xmpp clients as well. Dino can already do it for a while, and Movim and Libervia recently added experimental support.

      Its not quite a full Discord replacement, but for private groups it works quite well.

      • @[email protected]
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        31 month ago

        Isn’t the video the jingle part that Google added to jabber originally (before it dumped everything to remake it from the group up about 4 more times like a GSoC crossed over with groundhogDay)?

        • poVoq
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          31 month ago

          Today xmpp uses a distant relative of those original jingle specifications, which have been modernized to use Webrtc.

        • poVoq
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          329 days ago

          Movim does, for Libervia and Dino I am not 100% sure right now, but at least for Libervia the browser version should have it as it is really more of a general Webrtc browser feature than client specific.

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    I’ve started my self-hosting journey having Matrix in mind - especially the Matrix bridges to cut off the need to use social media clients like Discord.

    Today, I’m slowly convicting my friends to join my instance. So far, that’s just one of the closest ones (still win for me).

    I hope one day decentralization in social media would take off!

    • @[email protected]
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      229 days ago

      I JUST managed to get my closest ring outside my family to join Signal.

      We have a total of 7 people now.

      I’d light up a server and host matrix/frendica/lemmy/mastodon/headscale in an instant if I thought I could get those 7 to join.

  • @[email protected]
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    1171 month ago

    Ah this is so exciting!

    Discord ‘existing’ has held back development motivation on Foss Federated Communication alternatives.

    When they go public only good things will happen for projects like matrix :)

    I’m very excited!

    • @[email protected]
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      I feel like matrix isn’t a one-to-one replacement. It’s a good slack replacement.

      I haven’t used matrix enough to know for sure but does it have the discord equivalent of servers?

      • @[email protected]
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        those are called spaces there. but there’s no flexible roles system. also no hop-on voice channels yet, but that’s a client feature so maybe that’s a bit different

    • Possibly linux
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      Matrix is cool but it really suffers from complexity.

      The spec is a mess because they keep expanding it.

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        Let’s not mention the abysmal performance for servers. Making it largely infeasible to scale.

        It’s not the solution, not even remotely close, unfortunately.

        • @[email protected]
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          129 days ago

          What are you using instead? I only recently set up my synapse server and I’d be interested to head what the alternatives are

          • Shimitar
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            127 days ago

            Conduwuit is actively developed and works pretty nice for me. Single user, but bridged to hundreds of telegram, WhatsApp and discord rooms. As well as a few matrix rooms too.

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    229 days ago

    mumble is great for VOIP.

    Matrix seems interesting, but i think it might be a little bit too heavy handed, im not personally a fan of web tech, though there are other things like xmpp as well.

    revolt is meh, apparently their dev team is hostile to self hosting, so there’s that. There’s also spacebar, which is a reverse engineered implementation of the discord API, could be interesting.

    • xor
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      129 days ago

      Can you elaborate on what you mean by web tech? I don’t know much about how matrix works

      • KillingTimeItself
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        129 days ago

        a lot of modern technology and software is built on the foundation of work built by the web browser industry, it’s not necessarily a bad thing, but it’s not necessarily a good thing either. Provides a lot of nice features, native integration into a web browser, industry standard security and encryption procedures.

        That’s about it though, Outside of that, running a dedicated version of that app is almost always some bullshit built in electron, which is a horrible buggy mess with horrible performance. Nothing stops devs from integrating these features into a standalone application… But, they likely won’t since they’ve already developed a web browser version.

        I also have some problems with the way web tech is generally built, it’s built with the expectation that you will host and treat it as a web app, which is fine, it works. But i prefer not to host services i use via anything web related as generally i find it both intrusive, and problematic, in the instance that a DNS server goes down for example. (it’s not very likely, i know, but still)

        I also think a lot of the networking protocols are fairly bloated, but that’s not as big of a deal, it’s just annoying.

        anyway, enough of my ranting. Matrix is actually a specification for a set of communication protocols based on the foundation of web tech, it’s highly universal, and inter-compatible, which is great. But it sort of stops there. There are several server implementations, and numerous front end implementations, none of which seem to be particularly, interesting. There’s numerous electron front ends, a few that aren’t (though they won’t support most features) etc, stuff like that, it’s just. Not clean.

    • @[email protected]
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      830 days ago

      Matrix is spectacularly cursed to the point of being unusable if you self-host it. The protocol is dumb enough to lock you out of rooms hosted on another server forever if anything goes wrong with the key rotation.