• 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮
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    462 months ago

    I don’t know if I would call it fetishizing, as much as it is denying their own homosexual desires because a lot of right-wingers are sexually repressed homosexuals.

    “It’s not gay if they look like a girl” basically.

    • @[email protected]
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      92 months ago

      I think it’s more like, “I’m not gay if a guy sucks my dick, but I’m gay if I suck his.”

      To Republicans, being “gay” and giving pleasure are submissive, non-masculine traits that go hand in hand. It’s why they are so hesitant to go down on a woman, even though it would not be gay for a man to do so.

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    Yes, it’s true in some cases.

    It’s not really that surprising. Just as there are straight men who are misogynist there are people who are attracted to femboys, trans people, and/or other gender nonconforming people who hold prejudices against the same group. It’s massively oversimplifying human psychology to think it just comes down to a single linear axis of like/dislike. For some people, it might be that simple, but it’s not always the case.

    Take the song Hellfire and replace Esmeralda with a femboy, everything else can stay the same.

    • SupaTuba
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      52 months ago

      Instead of simply accepting that one might be attracted to a spectrum of different kinds of people, they immediately feel internal guilt, directed outwards as hatred, because it might give them some sort of label they’ve been trained to despise.

    • RVGamer06OP
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      52 months ago

      I sent him a screenshot of this comment and he told me that you and me should both touch grass.

      Lol he mad

      • @[email protected]
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        72 months ago

        Ironic, because everyone that was familiar with the hellsite formerly known as 4chan both knows the statement is true and doesn’t touch grass.

      • @[email protected]
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        52 months ago

        Tbh I think most people on Lemmy need to touch grass more often ¯\(°_o)/¯ Your friend sounds alright, for someone who pulls “facts” out of his ass. 😂

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    592 months ago

    Yes - there is a lot that has been written about the homoeroticism of fascist movements. For years, it’s been a meme that “traps aren’t gay.” Nick Fuentes has sex with submissive puppy boys or something.

    Fascism is libidinal. The Nazis who tortured gay men in concentration camps were also very eager to have sex with them. It goes back to Roman or even Bronze Age sexual mores, where sex is an act of aggression and as long as the “superior” is in the penetrative role, then it is okay.

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    262 months ago

    Imagine you’re a horrible misogynist who has the drive to have sex with a woman, but you don’t like the idea of actually having to touch one. If only there was something feminine but not a woman. Something that could understand a man in the way only a man can, but at the same time is not quite as strong and powerful as a man…

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    Yeah for sure lol. It’s kinda the end level of misogyny + toxic competive masculinity + extreme hetero sexual ideation. What else comes from that combo than “forcing weaker men to replace the role of women for your own desires”?

  • Oniononon
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    182 months ago

    Oh yeah, the most radical and anti lgbtq people tend to jerk off to boipussy feminine penises and rape other men. No, to them this is not gay.

    Yes entirety of 4chan is deficated to femboys and russian army training involves forced male on male intercourse as hazing.

  • @[email protected]
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    262 months ago

    The term ammosexuals comes up alot, and yes they festishize everything because they are so sexually repressed and frustrated.

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      Just saw a dude dumping used motor oil on his lawn exclaiming about being proud or “dgaf” about libs, on Reddit. People snooped his profile briefly and found out he was a big fan of showing his butthole and trying to find weird sexual encounters.

      I think it’s true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.

      • @[email protected]
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        92 months ago

        I think it’s true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.

        Every conservative i know personally is ultra repressed, so at least anecdotally, this tracks.

        • @[email protected]
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          42 months ago

          I’ve met some that were malleable, but the moment I brought up some gay shit (I’m cis het btw) they shut the fuck up.

          I wish I was who I am now in grade school.

  • @[email protected]
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    12 months ago

    they are more into transporn and gayporn than femboys. they also tend to seek out more extreme porn and deviancies, because of thier repression. pedophelia, beastility is strangely common amongst conservatives.

    the episode of american dad where STAN finds his kink, hes portrayed as an uptight conservative man, but when roger help him release his sexuality, he couldnt stop, he went and more extreme.

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    It seems to be a common left-winger fantasy that right-wingers are secretly obsessed with gays/trans/femboys/queer/etc sexually. Doesn’t seem to be based on any truth, just your typical left/right wing rubbish.

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    They’re about as fetishized as cuckolding is in right wing circles. The way those dorks toss that term around tells me enough to know that a lot of them are harboring a deep-seated desire to watch some dude rail their wives like they never could.

  • Nyticus
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    192 months ago

    Femboys don’t even need the right-wingers’ help at all. They fetishize themselves and it is in of itself a fetish. I would know given by the amount of furry porn that encircles around femboys in general. And unfortunately, they are some of the loudest and pretend all femboys want to just be cock-slaves and cock-sleeves.

    • erin (she/her)
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      72 months ago

      I don’t love the take “men dressing feminine is a fetish.” Are tomboys a fetish? Just because some people choose to engage in fetish and also are femboys doesn’t make it “in and of itself” a fetish. It isn’t.

    • @[email protected]
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      62 months ago

      Oh hello again, cute cat profile picture that looks like a dick pic for a millisecond! Hope you are doing well! <3

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    Depends what he means by that. Are some right-wingers fetishizing femboys? Yeah. Can we generalize this to apply to all right-wingers as people have tendency to do with this sort of things? No. Turns out that people are individuals and they have different preferences. Shocker.